Dr. Robert Glover
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first heard Nov 2024
last heard Sep 2025
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And she just looked at me and says, I hate it. And they're like, what's your order? So after she left, I looked at the guys and said, they really do hate it when we leave those decisions up to them. We're making them the alpha again. And most women nowadays are alpha in so many parts of their life. They don't want to be alpha in their relationship. Now, they will. They can.
but they really prefer that they have a man that will set the tone and lead and not be controlling, not being an asshole, but say, hey, let's go do this. And they go, yeah, let's go do it. They don't have to make all the decisions. So with the whole thing, getting numbers, when I first started dating, that was like, you know, my biggest, like, I don't know, I don't know how to do this.
I don't know how you get numbers. And so like being the good scientist that I was, I just practiced getting numbers. And what I quickly found out is that, If you have your phone out, I remember back then I had a Razor phone, back when Razors were really cool, flip phone. You're looking like, I've never heard of that. I've heard of that. I'm old enough. Yeah.
So, so I'd have it out on the, you know, on the bar next to me or whatever. And I usually eat my meals at happy hours. I just talk to people around me and, you know, one says, is that a razor? And you go, yeah, yeah. And I said, Hey, you know, give me your number. I'm going to, I'm going to send you a message. I'll call you later. I'm going to take you out later on this week.
And so, you know, I'd already had my phone out. So I'll always have your phone out. And so whenever I go for a number, I have the phone out now, you know, for several years, had an iPhone, um,
have my phone out and i say all right i'm going to call you later this week give me your number i got a plan and i have my phone out you know it's like and use the assumptive clothes that salesmen use instead of saying do you want to buy some they say how many can i put you down for you know right so it's an assumptive cause i get my phones out it's like you're going to give me a number and i said give me your number and in my experience
eight or nine times out of 10, they'd give me a number if I just said, give me your number. Now, I'd already be interacting with them and already gotten them to yes, you know, on several other things like in sales. And, you know, maybe one or two out of 10 would say, oh, I don't give my number out or I don't do this. And they'll go, give me your number. I'll call you.
And I'll go, nah, you're not going to call me. I said, just tell me you're not going to go out with me. Don't give me that. And so they'd give a number. And when they give me their number, I'd key it into my phone right then and and hit dial, you know, hit, hit, hit the call button so that their phone rings in their purse or if it's nearby them. And I've never gotten a bogus number ever.
No woman's ever given me a fake number. And by calling it, you know, if it's real, because it's going to ring her purse will start vibrating. Right. Right. So, and then I leave a voicemail and I'll say, you know, you know, Hey, Hey, Hey, sweetie pie or whatever. You know, I, I, I told my wife this, I started calling every woman I dated sweetie really early on because I was dating so many women.
I didn't want to fuck their names up, especially in bed. So I just started calling them all sweetie. Oh, you. Oh, sweetie. Oh, sweetie. So my wife actually thought that was pretty smart, pretty clever. So anyway, I'd say, hey, sweetie, this is Robert. I'm standing right in front of you. I'm going to call you later this week. I just wanted you to know who this number was on your keypad.
So I'd leave him a message right then, tell him I was going to call him. And then, you know. If I wanted to, I'd call them and follow up on it. But by being just that directive that, you know, give me your number, your phone's out, it's in your hand, give it and then call it. It just clicks. You know, I can't, again, I can't tell you 80 to 90% of the women always gave me numbers.
Don't try to win her approval. Don't be overly nice. Be willing to get to rejection. And bring your sexual agenda. Don't hide it from her. You want to see her naked. That's why you're talking to her.
Now, again, let me add that. Again, I'm not a big fan of just approaching, walking across a room because you think a woman's hot. But if you are out being a social animal, you'll notice women sending you IOIs, indicators of interest. They'll smile. They'll look your way. They'll turn your body towards you. Approach those women.
So the best way I know to overcome approach anxiety is approach the women who've sent you signals of interest. They're already interested. OK, well, you know, you almost got nothing to lose and and you don't have to impress them. They already noticed you. So approach the women, as David Data says, choose a woman who chooses you.
go go the other way i put it go walk through open doors don't go pound on closed doors i like that i like that two more um how do you know when a woman is interested in you and when she's not usually she'll like talking to you she'll interact she'll touch you she'll laugh at your dumb jokes um she'll move her body in and out um You'll know. You'll know.
You know, guys will say, you mentioned earlier about what to talk about. Guys will say, what do I do when the conversation just kind of comes to an end? And I go, say nice to meet you and walk away because you just reach low interest. If a woman is interested in you, the conversation will stay interesting.
Okay, shit test goes back to women being security-seeking creatures. Shit test doesn't mean they're being shitty to us. They're trying to test, do we have our shit together? Now, I do have to distinguish from men. Shit tests are not mean. If a woman's mean, if she says hurtful things to you, if she's a bitch to you, walk away. She's mean, okay? Shit tests is like they show up a little bit late.
You know, they ask you to hold their purse. Quick story. I was dating a woman, dated her for about three years. You know, she was my home decorator. And so we'd go out and she'd want to like plug a lamp in to see how it looked. And she'd hand me her Louis Vuitton purse. You know, hold my purse. And I go, I don't hold purses. She goes... What?
I go, I don't ask you to hold my bowling ball, so I'm not going to hold your purse. That was just a joke because I don't have a bowling ball. And she looked at me. And that always kind of pissed her off a little bit. I said, what would you do if I wasn't here? What would you do with your purse if I wasn't standing here to hold it for you? Well, I'd set it down and plug the lamp in.
I go, all right, you got it figured out. You don't need me to hold it. And then we'd been dating, been together for a couple of years. We were in like a Starbucks coffee shop. There's a couple in front of us. And the woman was obviously the boss, the heifer. She was doing the ordering and the guy just kind of passed him. She just hands him her purse like she just knows he's going to hold it.
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