Dr Tony Bates

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338 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 12 Jul

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So there's kind of a cognitive correction that comes when we are in touch with our bodily feelings.

Sometimes it's just enough, yeah, to just have a cry and move on and leave it on.

And you don't want to make someone feel too uncomfortable.

And the last thing you want to do is say to someone, well, why are you crying?

And what's wrong with you?

You know, you don't want to do that.

You just really want to say thank you if they cry and just say, you know, thank you for sharing that with me.

I feel very privileged because it's...

There's some deep act of trust on their part and then give them a bit of space.

And mostly I think that's enough.

People don't need some kind of expert advice to fix them or something.

They don't need that.

They're not looking for that in that moment.

I do think, however, there are moments when we've cried maybe later in the day when we've kind of recovered.

that we might ask ourselves, what truth was that speaking to me?

What was it about that?

What did I learn from that?

What are my tears saying?

You know, maybe I'm missing something.

Maybe I'm too tired.

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