Dr. Wendy Walsh

And if our early life was filled with loss...

That's what we think love is.

That was the model, right?

Then we get into sociology, which is most people talk about, right?

The mating marketplace right now.

We're in a time where we have an oversupply of successful women in the mating marketplace.

Oh, yeah.

Yeah.

So the worst place for a young working woman who wants to reproduce to live is

would be New York City, Los Angeles, Chicago, any big urban center, because she is surging ahead in her education, in her money.

The men are because, and I should say, the other piece of sociology is that when you put sex out into the culture in high supply,

which is happening because women can now enjoy their body's pleasures for their own sake.

They don't need marriage to have sex.

They don't need to market their vaginas as sign me up so you'll take care of me.

And what happens to a culture when there's so much easy, free sex?

Men lose ambition.

Men sit at home in their mom's basement and play games and text in a hookup any night of the week.

And so the women are upset because the men aren't achieving, but it's actually

the preponderance of sex in the culture that's creating the loser guys.

Loser in there, so my advice to those women all the way is stop going after your idea of a power man.