Drew Afualo

I also feel like with women in particular, there's people, I'm sure obviously you've gotten so many different responses about it, but there's the thing of like, oh, you're unsure now, but one day, honey, just you wait.

and it's like so which is insane on so many levels because it's like right like you're saying it's like well if you're undecided i think you should listen to that right right and like or if you're at least give it pause yeah like even if you're kind of like i don't really know how i feel it's like well it's it's gonna change your life forever and ever right right and it's kind of something you can't opt out of yeah yeah it's a forever thing yeah and fundamentally changes like all your relationships how you structure like it's like

It's, yeah, the biggest decision one could make.

Right, I agree.

And I literally think the same.

I always think, too, to myself, I'm like, you know, it would be, I think, in everyone's best interest overall for people to be very fucking sure they want to be a parent.

I think that would benefit everybody greatly.

Definitely.

Especially children.

Yeah.

Yeah, especially them.

Especially them.

They're sort of the recipients of those complicated feelings.

I think it's a beautiful thing, though, when you're like, actually, even if you're not sure, you're like, I need to focus on me right now.

I think that's a beautiful thing.

It's actually, to me, a really selfless thing to do because you could procreate and you could really, really, really, if you really wanted to, and you weren't that sure emotionally, you could always just do it.

But when you choose not to because you're like, I'm just unsure, I think that's a really beautiful thing to do.

Because you're like, I want to be able to give a child a wonderful life if I do decide to have a child.

Thank you.

Yeah, I think that is kind of my vibe with it.