Eimear Coffey

you know all the fancy journals and but i mean start to speak really nice to myself stop people pleasing say no say no more often and not feel guilty about it start to prioritize my mental health start to prioritize my physical health make time for that and create boundaries for myself

boundaries just were something that I hadn't got in place.

So I thought, right, now is time.

And my self-belief, as I started to put that work into place, my self-belief just began to grow and grow and grow.

And like, Jesus, do you know?

I remember finishing the sixth chemo.

I remember sitting in the chemo chair going, this is it now.

And it's a bizarre thing.

Chemotherapy is the toughest thing I've ever been through.

And hair, and it's horrendous.

But I remember...

And my sister Ciara was brilliant for this.

She's a coach as well.

I remember thinking, right, let's recreate yourself.

I bought a big blonde wig and I called her Lola.

And I loved her.

When I put on the face, I start... This is temporary.

This time is temporary.

Let's recreate.

Put on the wig on the days you need it.