Eli Sheff
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421 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 29 Jul
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all the time and you seem like you have an agenda around that i do miss people i miss all sorts of people very low down on the list are my parents partners and i was like not only you are right i totally had an agenda coming from the outside thinking oh this must be a big impact on these kids lives having parents partners kind of leave when the parents break up and the kid
was like, that's coming from you.
That's not coming from us.
Wow.
I know.
Yes, in part because the parents put a lot of effort into...
having the children, if the children were attached to someone, that relationship could outlast the romantic relationship between the parents.
And I saw that so much in these families.
It was the non-sexual relationships that made the biggest difference.
Frequently, there will be, so it often is the biological parents who are together.
And frequently, when they very first come to polyamorous relating, many of them are coming thinking, we want, much like my partner, my ex, did, we want...
to be all together in one relationship.
Right.
Many people realize that doesn't work that well.
Like, you may be attracted to someone who may be attracted to you, but it doesn't mean they're attracted to your partner.
Or that
you are always having kind of a three-person relationship that really what I find is that many people have their sexual relationships in dyads, like two-person sexual relationship.
Yeah, yeah.
But the social relationships are knit together in a way, the polyamorous people call that a polycule.
Uh-huh.
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