Eli Sheff
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 29 Jul
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But it's not, it's only half of the equation.
Not only do you want multiple partners, but imagine yourself at home thinking,
with the kids, folding laundry, making mac and cheese, while your partner is in Mexico at a beach resort with their sweetie.
How does that land with you?
Like, can you share?
Lots of us can think, oh, yes, I would like multiple partners.
But one of the biggest issues around a successful polyamorous relationship is how do you feel when your partner is out working
with someone else.
For this, I really did a deep dive into the relationship satisfaction literature.
For non-monogamy in general, there's a few things, characteristics that people who like novelty...
tend to be better suited for non-monogamy.
People who have what they call a faster life history, that's a social science term, meaning they've probably moved around a lot.
They've probably had a whole bunch of different kinds of jobs.
Interesting, yeah.
They started dating younger and they've dated more people.
Yeah.
they're more likely to be interested in polyamory or non-monogamy than the people who have never left their hometown, who like to have one job and really stick with it, you know, kind of a more...
Steady, steady way of life.
Yes, exactly.
And not that any either of those are better than the other, but just what kind of wiring tends to make you enjoy polyamory.
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