Elizabeth Shaw
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215 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Mar 2021
last heard Sep 2021
Elizabeth Shaw’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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With something like this that could have ramifications like where you go on holiday.
um, whether you can actually visit each other, where you can go out clubbing, all of those things, then all of a sudden you can't easily agree to disagree.
There's lots of other things that that you could probably tolerate, quite high levels, like for example, one being vegan and one being a carnivore, you actually can
You can work out a way around that, but this could really stop you in your tracks.
And so the agree to disagree moment, um
It is going to sort of run out of puff.
And what that means then is couples have to instead develop either a new skill set, like what do we do when we really flat out are not on the same page?
That that's a whole new skill set.
But also it may well be is it actually something that stops the relationship altogether?
And you've you've got to decide how dramatic the moment's going to be.
And for some couples, it is going to be that.
dramatic because one really needs to have clearance and the other is going to impede their lives.
It's not so common that you've you've never had this happen and suddenly the vaccination thing is the departure from your worldview.
It may be if the relationship's quite new, this is the first issue you've encountered.
But generally if you've been in a relationship for a while, there'll be other signs where you're not quite on the same page, but there may not be something that appears to call a real halt till this one, because this has
bigger ramifications because, you know, the way the way people think about this, if they're really into hoaxes and conspiracies, then that would show across a whole range of issues.
The first thing is really to be curious rather than go head to head to really say, I really want to understand your perspective, because you need to understand, is this based, you know, on misinformation?
Is it based on fear?
And I think you need to know what you're dealing with.
So trying to stay calm and be curious to find out what is the angle here.
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