Elizabeth Shaw

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215 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Mar 2021 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · What to do if your partner doesn't want the jab · 13 Sep 2021 podcast

Is the person just early on the journey of understanding, or do are they already at a full stop?

You certainly can just from a point of curiosity say, look, I've been reading some

Things that say something really opposite to that, can I send them to you?

And see if there is actually openness to read more widely.

Um, and again, if someone isn't open to read, these are these are all red flags for a relationship anyway, you know.

So it's about the vaccination, but it's also about being open-minded, it's also about working together as a team, it's about being open to influence.

Um, so it actually demonstrates

it's lots of relationship skills.

If you get to that point and you really are getting into a debate about it.

Then after a while you should stop sending other material because then it still just looks like maybe you're just trying to win the toss.

And it's probably better if you see that a battle is going to ensue to suggest um seeing someone else like a GP and and just say, Look, um, it's not for me to say, but would you check it out?

So, you know, sort of triangulate through somebody else.

I think if you

keep making it about my view versus your view.

you can get very stuck.

Whereas if you actually say, Well, look, if the relationship's important to me, would you book an appointment with your GP and just flesh that out a bit more, see what other advice we can get?

Um, I think that can be a way to kind of de escalate what is otherwise a head to head situation.

It it kinda comes down to a uh an ethical position about a duty to yourself and in the end whether you make decisions that so compromise you that you end up feeling

bad about the relationship anyway.

So for example, if you decide you really want to get vaccinated, but you'll put it to one side in order to stay connected with your family.

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