Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · Pre-booked holidays with new relationships · 28 Aug 2017 podcast

Skype, of course, makes things a lot easier. matched

But there's there's a lot matched

lot of things that can happen that can you know, you hang on written words in a different way than you do with verbal words, you know matched

Verbal expression. matched

That um if you're out with someone, you can chat on, you can find out what they really meant. matched

But when someone sent you a text and you're in a different time zone, you get it in the middle of the night, you can get really preoccupied with it and you can think, what does that word mean? matched

And what does that sentence mean? matched

Um and misunderstandings can creep up on you. matched

And so I think there is something about matched

how you negotiate the terms and how you cut each other slack that's actually quite important in a distance relationship. matched

So Elizabeth, matched

Well, see that's a that's a different kettle of fish altogether where where you're actually wanting a break and and this can mean many different things. matched

I think I think really if people in their heart of hearts really examined this, it would be because they have some doubts about the relationship. matched

And because although they're really enjoying the relationship and if they were here they'd see it through. matched

The the going on the trip. matched

um makes them think, look, I'm not sure and I don't want to be tied, um, but I wanna hedge my bets. matched

and I think that's the more dangerous conversation to have. matched

And people don't want to have that dangerous conversation because maybe they're not really sure if that's true. matched

Um and so instead they say, can we put things on hold? matched

Can we cool them a bit? matched

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