Elizabeth Shaw

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1,154 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2016 last heard Sep 2021

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The Hook Up · When your partner's parents hate you · 15 Mar 2017 podcast

Well, it's certainly sometimes true. voice-verified

I mean again it depends on your parents and how much they're really looking out for you and how much they're looking out for themselves. 'Cause if they're in fact enacting all their own biases, then you may not feel that you can judge them. voice-verified

But certainly if they if they do know you well and they care about you, then they could be judging it pretty well. voice-verified

Jacob, thanks for calling us. voice-verified

Well, that's uh you s sort of see that in the movies, don't you? voice-verified

Sometimes it's uh it's desperate lengths, isn't it? voice-verified

But at the same time it's a it's also a test of of what's going on for your partner and their parents. 'Cause if in fact voice-verified

your partner buys into it like in that last call where they do break up and voice-verified

they don't fight for you and they don't fight for themselves, then it really is information. voice-verified

So yeah, the parents are weird, but it also tells you an awful lot about your partner as to how they react to their parents' weirdness. voice-verified

Look, absolutely, and so you've got to make sense of that first of all. voice-verified

You know, are they cowardly and are they is this relationship going to be doomed because the relationship between your partner and your parents is so intense that you're always going to be on the outer or is there some good explanation? voice-verified

So if if your partner has a good explanation and by that it might mean, um, look, they're often like this voice-verified

to start with, but they warm up, I find it better to let it blow over. voice-verified

You know, and if you think, Okay, I'll give that a go, that sounds plausible. voice-verified

So they're kind of reading their parents' will and they can make sense of it, then it's worth hanging in. voice-verified

If it is, look, I can never stand up to them and I you know if it is just defensiveness or sort of um fear, then you might be in for a rougher ride. voice-verified

Zeke, voice-verified

it ever worth it? voice-verified

No, look, I I wouldn't. voice-verified

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