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I just dismissed it. I'm like, okay, well, I guess that happens lots of times. The spouse gets blamed for things.
She wanted to be here where Eric was. She wanted to sleep in his bed.
I was devastated. I was just so hurt. And I felt Eric was so betrayed.
Eric was very agitated. They had to put him in restraints. Watching my brother that way, out of control, it was horrible. It was the worst night that I can remember of my life.
Ann was feeding us information that Daryl was obsessed with her. We did think that it was possible that Daryl poisoned Eric and in the end was trying to get him out of the picture.
And I couldn't believe it. I thought, how could this happen?
I am scared. I am scared to death for Claire's well-being. At any moment, she could be poisoning Claire.
She threw away all of Eric's soiled clothing from his first night of being ill. She threw away all of the bathroom rugs. Instead of just washing things like any normal person would do, she threw everything away.
We needed to protect our granddaughter. We needed to take Ann out of her life, at least until... Claire's an adult.
Ann, why don't you look at me? Why can't you look at me?
Why did you brutally murder my brother Eric? Poisoning him, watching him suffer. I think sometimes that you just can't explain it. There's pure evil in the world, and I think she falls into that category of pure evil.
He was laid in this bed with a tube in his mouth because they had tried to resuscitate him. He was cold. And I wanted to take that tube out. I wanted to cover it up because he was so cold.
He would hide behind the couch when your boyfriends were over and, oh, I'm here.
I think Eric truly blossomed when he went to college. He got involved in biology and chemistry and research, and he found that that's what he wanted to do.
I had met some of the girls he had been dating prior to Ann. Then I could tell there was a difference when he introduced me to Ann.
He looks at me and he says, Mom, you always told me how much you loved me. But he said, I never knew how much you loved me until I had Claire.
I felt like there was no way that she could have done this to him. She loved him.
He was thrashing. And he started to cry. And he was like, why are they doing this to me? I remember laying on top of him physically. Because he was thrashing so much, and I was so afraid he was going to hurt himself. And I laid on top of him, and I just got in his face, and I said, Eric, you need to calm down. It's going to be okay.
Some friends of theirs had brought in some food. Ann was going to serve that and they were going to have that and have just the quiet time.
Because Eric said they were talking about that.
I woke up and my dad was just like on the covers, just laying there. Like there wasn't enough room to get in, I guess. So I just was laying there.
Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, experts on expert. I'm Mike Shepard and I'm joined by Lily Padman. Hi. Hi. Returning guest from the early, from the bygone era.
No, she had nothing.
She's like a newborn. She's amazing. Did you find her battery pack and her motherboard?
But man, it sounds like a pretty significant bit of heart disease. None of this sounds very mild.
Right. In the 60s, he would have died.
Well, one thing I found very comforting, and I'm leaping ahead a bit, but if I understood this paragraph correctly, we do know some markers for aging, some DNA markers that are good for aging. But you say that even if you were to have all 20 of those, really, it's going to be about 12% of the pie that's going to predict your lifespan or healthspan.
I found this deeply comforting because I don't come from a long line of old people. You and me both. Yeah, it's very scary. I think common wisdom growing up was, well, you get good genetics or you don't. I guess I was a little relieved that maybe at best is only 12% of the story.
You break it up into five dimensions that help with healthspan extension. And I guess, even though we've talked about it in the past, maybe we'll just delineate the difference between lifespan and healthspan.
If you could hike to 85 or be sedentary to 105 from 70 on, yeah, I think we would all likely pick very active with a little less time.
This is off topic, but to hear you say demented in the clinical sense, did that fly for you too? No, I like it. I never hear it in the actual. You're only saying someone's wacky, right? Like a young person.
Crazy, yeah.
That's what I hear. If you listen to the show, you'd hear it even more.
Every single episode. Okay. So the five dimensions that you break it up into are lifestyle, cells, omics, artificial intelligence, and number five, drugs and vaccines. So I just will say up front, I read Outlive, Peter Atiyah's book, and just loved it, probably because it cooperated my belief in what you should do. But at any rate, lifestyle has got to be the biggest chunk of this book.
Oh, okay, great.
Oh, great. I want you to flag those.
So I had an argument with Dr. Mike about this because I've had it and I'm pro. I understand... what your concern is, but I do think you can go into it with the right mindset, which is I'm not going to chase down everything. I'm not going to have a bunch of follow-up stuff.
I'm going to look for a big-ass tumor that we're going to monitor, and I'm going to go next year and see if that thing's exploding. I mean, I think there is some way to do it, but I understand it does set off all this medical intervention that potentially has more downsides
You got to be strong mentally to have it, is my argument.
But Eric, I smoked crack for years. I smoked cigarettes for 20 years. Like I needed a good scan. I stand by my scan. Found out I had scoliosis. I was like, oh, that's cool. I had no idea. It's extreme.
But that's like saying driving Mercedes are bad because only some people can afford them.
Yes. Ideally.
It can be dangerous for your arteries. Not the protein itself, but what you're eating to get the protein?
Well, Lane Norton, anyone that's into bodybuilding would. The most important part of those studies is every single keto plant-based, all diets, all the meta-analysis, if you control for protein, they all work the same. That's really, really relevant. And that's Just uber consistent.
We're giving you liquid death. I know. The irony. There's something wrong with that picture. Is that your super cute Bronco out there? That's my daughter's. Oh, I like it.
Surely.
Well, what we could agree, and the only thing I was going to borrow from the book, is he points out we got great with vaccines and we got great with treating with antibiotics a lot of different diseases. What we all now have to deal with is these chronic four disorders, obesity and diabetes, heart disease, cancer, and then neuro, which are in your book.
So these are the four that are going to most plague us now. We're not going to die of... cholera or some medieval disease anymore. These are the four that we got to really focus on. And lifestyle is hugely impactful for the four horsemen.
We have the best we've ever had.
Oh, in a good way.
The only one that troubles me is the muscle loss. Yeah. That's the only thing you gotta really be on top of.
Also, I like that there could be a good way.
Right.
Although, okay, so I was arguing with a friend recently and he said, oh, I don't want to be on that because I hear you might have to take it for the rest of your life. And I said, are you stressed out that you have to drink water every day for the rest of your life or that you got to eat food every day for the rest of your life? There's a lot of shit.
You got to brush your teeth for the rest of your life. I think that's a weird mental hiccup.
Yeah, yeah. I don't know if you remember, but sales of those Broncos exploded after that. Oh, yeah. You couldn't get your hands on a white Bronco. No kidding. Oh, yeah. Ford couldn't make them fast enough.
Am I right in that the diabetics have been taking this medicine for 15 or 20 years? It's not as new as people think.
Also, the precarious origin of the medicine having been invented by a company that's primary source of income is insulin production. And the fact that they even allowed this drug that potentially was going to cannibalize their real business. All of it's very interesting.
You could have seen them almost killing this thing because they're like, well, that's just going to destroy our insulin.
What was the appeal that you beat like OJ? That's a great question. I think just seeing a vehicle on display for such a long period of time, and I guess it looked formidable. And I think young men were like, oh, yeah.
OK, so in lifestyle, let's go through some of this stuff. So diet, you're taking a real magnifying glass to a lot of these things that we're already aware of. When we talk about diet, let's talk about ultra processed food and sweeteners a little bit.
My kids bring home stuff sometimes. I'm like, how did they even think of this? Let's construct this product. Yeah. It was like Reese's Pieces Cups Popcorn. And I was like, well, you're damn right that's going to be delicious. But how did they do it?
There was a 60 Minutes on long ago, and the segment was about food additive chemists. They're basically perfumists, really. And they take this group of them to an orange grove in California. And they're watching them all take one off the tree and peel it, and then they're tasting it. And this one scientist says, oh, yeah, it's this, breaking down all the things.
And he said, now, we wouldn't design it like this because you'll notice the taste lasts for a really long time. It stays in your mouth for a bit. And we want something that goes away almost immediately after you experience something. the nice taste so that you want to replace it. And I was like, this is actually nefarious. It's not just I want to make it taste good.
I want to make it taste good for a blip. So you have to have more immediately. How are you going to compete with a brain trust like that, figuring out how to make you eat as much as possible?
What's the mechanism that would be happening?
Yeah, yeah. Someone should do some social science on that.
Yeah. How are you? It's been a while.
By the way, this GLP one, there's so many things that are auxiliary to it. One of them being, you've read these articles where these food companies are now worried that people are not going to be eating junk food as much.
They have to have a game plan in place So isn't that weird?
We're both going to service our own pet projects. Hers is alcohol, mine's weightlifting.
Sure.
That's what we grew up with. One glass of wine is good for your heart.
As well as everything else in the store. Yeah, exactly.
We were independent for three years. Then we were at Spotify for three years. And now we're at Wondery.
Now, I love this because I am an abuser of caffeine. So tell us about caffeine and its impact. This is, I think, the shocker. This is the only good news in your book, I think.
Where are we at on red meat versus plant-based?
I think primary care physician for a while.
Yes. Anytime you study humans, it's just such a messy business. It is. So you go red meat. Okay. Well, what's your red meat consumption? Well, if we look closer, it's like, well, red meat consumption is largely probably happening through hamburger consumption. And now when we eat hamburgers, what else do we eat? People eat French fries with hamburgers.
Like how you're parsing out the red meat, as opposed to if we studied anyone who only eats a plate of ground beef, that's a hard person to find.
Right.
I don't want to lose you as a friend.
I eat a lot of red meat. Oh, okay. I eat a lot of meat. But also I'll add, I have psoriatic arthritis. I do not want to be an immune suppressant. I was for years. It took me seven years to figure out what was triggering it all. So I have a diet now that works for me and I don't have to be on any medicine and I don't have any symptoms anymore.
Well, I can't eat gluten. I can't eat garlic. I can't eat peanuts, a list of things. But what the result ends up being is, yeah, I have a pretty low carbohydrate diet because I can't eat pasta or bread, but I'm not afraid of a potato or some rice. Yeah, that's all right. And my cholesterol right now is great.
And this is, there have been a few guests that have really captured our heart.
All my markers, and I'm spoiled in that, were in a study with Dr. Richard Isaacson for Alzheimer's. So I'm getting a lot of work done there. I get a lot of blood panels. Things are good.
But I do eat an amount of red meat that would really break your heart.
And that's the most exciting part of this chapter is with the help of AI, for people to actually know what diet they should be on, to me, seems like would be one of the most helpful things.
Oh, did he? Because it was quite a mystery.
Yeah, the notion we'd have a food pyramid for 300 million people is a fucking fantasy.
And I think it's been the great frustration with consumers with the nutritional sciences in general, which is we're wanting them to have a magic bullet for all humans. And of course, that's why they contradict each other all the time. And there's no consensus in that field. It's a very frustrating phenomenon. field to monitor.
But it's because we are so individual, and that's really going to be the answer probably.
And what will that AI model look like? Will that be a combination of it having mapped your genome, you're wearing some sensors, it knows what you're eating? How will that come together?
Even when you ask people to say what they ate, they need help. And also, it's a tall order to ask people, like, don't eat carbs. Well, wouldn't it be great if they said, oh, no, you can have as many potatoes as you want. Stay away from rice, and you're allowed to have this. That's a manageable approach for people. Right. Oh, I think that'll be a breakthrough. Okay.
Is that true? No, that's not true.
I have to ask because my wife will want to know this the most. Environmental toxins. How serious of a concern are these?
Was that other person making stuff up me? Yeah, probably.
Okay, so I need more influence. When I get in these debates with her, I go, I'm not arguing at all that we're not measuring more plastic in the body.
But I hope it's gotten to you over the years. We talk about you quite a bit and we have such a warm spot in our heart for you. That was such a lovely interview the first time. Thank you. So last time you were here promising us that we would be completely without a need of a doctor. Our smartphone would be doing all of our stuff. And here we are six years later.
So the body was rejecting.
Yeah. Yeah. Where would you be getting all these plastics other than you're drinking from a ton of soda? And are we actually seeing the result of massive soda consumption or the plastics in the bottle that the soda came in?
I do. I'm the only one in my family. The whole family is like all plastics. I'm like the old man.
She's on it. I'm the only one that's still drinking out of the plastic water bottles.
I know. I have these blender cups and I fill them up over and over again with protein shakes and stuff.
I don't know how someone is two standard deviations above or below the plastic consumption. It comes in your can that is aluminum, but it's got a plastic line. Like how on earth is anyone taking in more or less?
There's so much happening. You get fatigued on all the problems we have. The fires thing happened, right? Big panic in my house. And I'm like, it's going to cut however many years off our life, but it's going to cut that many years off of every single person we know. In some weird way, I go like, yeah, but we won't be uniquely punished for this. It's everyone. It's everything.
And where are we at on that before we move on to... We have a bone to pick.
And an illusion that you can escape it. So maybe I've surrendered everything.
We fall in love with their spirit.
Yeah, okay, so we nailed the lifestyle portion. We skipped exercise, but I talk enough about that. Social isolation, we've also had Vivek on a couple times talk about that. That's really relevant. But let's talk about cells and what's coming our way and what's going to help us.
Yeah, you think it's destroyed, and you even say there's damage within these organs, and you would think that would be permanent.
And that's with altering your T-cells or suppressing your T-cells? These are B-cells. B-cells. I'm sorry. What are B-cells?
I didn't want to be on it. I'm trading this for cancer potential or I'm trading this for an infection. And you're having to increase them, which is the nature of them.
Yeah, did they find that MS has this triple whammy if you've had Epstein-Barr and herpes?
Okay.
And it just starts eating your myelin sheath?
Oh, Jesus. So even having the human involved in the system made it worse?
And Eric Topol's like at the top of that list. We think he is the cutest person alive.
I bet it's both, right? Because I do think half of the art of AI is learning how to prompt it. It's such a specific way to communicate. And I've only been dabbling in it. And I'm learning as I go how to get a better answer out of it.
We couldn't do that before.
It's not an infection.
And then now we get into artificial intelligence.
We're going to direct our resources and our mindfulness on this.
Do you think a lot of people will be listening and going like, yeah, that all sounds great. Some people are going to get access to that, but there's no way it's going to get democratized to a point where I'm ever going to be able to.
How significant was it?
They say like 80% of your lifetime resources you spend in the last couple years of your life.
We could spend all that money on defense. Well, that'll sell it, sure.
So we talked about GLP-1s, the T-cell engineering.
Are we in an age where we might get a vaccine for every type of cancer at some point?
Right. We basically train your T cells to identify this preemptively.
Because the AI is just in the room listening and handling all that stuff.
Every time I have someone equipped to answer this question, I have so much curiosity around senescence. Okay. Because the great mystery to me is if you have this process, mitosis, and it makes an exact replica of itself, why on earth at some point does it stop making an exact replica of itself? What is the process?
And the one thing I heard on NPR one day, it was like an hour-long story, and you quote him a ton in your book, is this guy who started erasing layers of the epigenome in mice. And he was erasing so much that initially it would put their body into a state of being like a baby and their organs would grow too big. And then it was learning to dial back how much we erase from this.
Because you accumulate garbage and flaws in your epigenome, yeah? Yes. I know already you don't care about living to 200. You're right about that. I already know you don't care. I am fascinated by that.
I got one wow out of him, and I'm going to sleep like a baby tonight. Continue.
Could save the career path in a way, because every time I interview a doctor and I ask if they would push their children into medicine, almost all of them say no. It's very disheartening to see how few doctors want their kids to pursue that.
Three billion, you said it right. There you go.
A 96-year-old that's like, either make me young tomorrow or I want to die in a week. That's who you're looking for, I guess.
It breaks some of our previously held tenets of biology.
Outrageously smart. He is a cardiologist, a scientist, an author, and the director and founder of Scripps Research Institute. His books include Deep Medicine, The Patient, We'll See You Now. That's what we had him on for last time. And now his new book, which is out, Super Agers, An Evidence-Based Approach to Longevity. This was a blast.
Yeah, that's incredible. Eric, you're so impressive.
Okay, go ahead. But I want to make sure we get them out of here in a reasonable time.
Okay, then I'll save how much I adore you and I'm impressed. Go ahead, peptides.
What peptides? Thank you. Which peptides?
This will dovetail beautifully into why I would recommend this book to people. Because you are an optimist, but you haven't drank the Kool-Aid.
It's a very, very moderate approach with a lot of optimism. And I think this is the book for Monica.
Several of the peptides are in his book.
People are on samoriline.
This is how upset he is before he finishes the one.
I'm going to make a counterargument. You guys aren't going to like it. Many of these peptides, these are off-label uses of peptides because they saw different results from studies that weren't even addressing this in the exact same one the GLP-1s, which you love. It was not designed for what we're using it for, but we started noticing something.
Tessamorelin. This was developed for HIV patients. What did they find when people were on this? They had a reduction of abdominal fat. That was just a side effect they found. Very well studied, administered. It's been used for 40 years. It's a very well-known peptide, and it had this auxiliary effect of reducing abdominal fat.
Yeah. Then we could get into how many studies there are that abdominal fat is a huge indicator of future for horseman stuff. This is the Dr. Isaacson. This is a dementia.
We'd have to go through each and every one of them, but most of them weren't developed for the thing that it's being used for.
Latisse, this eyelash thing, was a glaucoma medicine that they found, oh, everyone using it has beautiful eyelashes.
What you're upset about is that there isn't the data for the off-label use. But there is plenty of data for the peptide itself in the other application. In the same way that the GLP-1 had a ton of data for diabetics before, as you said earlier, they were refusing to study it for obesity.
But you're at a stage where you're going, we should try it for obesity. And you're going, there's no study for obesity. It's for diabetics. And it's like, now we're post that. It turns out, no, that was great for me.
Well, because I've slept like shit forever. So that's my hunch there.
I'm just pointing out you have an argument for one thing that you feel solid about, which was GLP-1's work for diabetics. It wasn't being studied for obesity. It is very safe. And now it turns out it's great for obesity. So we are at a phase with many peptides where the off-label use is just now happening. And it's already been studied for these other things to be safe.
So now we're just at the point where we're going to evaluate them for the off-label use. use, but you guys are going, no, don't use it for off-label because we don't have that study yet. It's a little contradictory to your embracing of the GLP-1s.
It seems like we need AI to be able to prescribe us medicine. And I guess we could have a bucket of that medicine, non-narcotic or whatever things you would not want to be gamed or be dangerous. Where were we at with that? And that's ultimately what you would really want is you get a thorough examination, ask all the same questions as the doctor would ask you.
So where the data is totally fine. Yeah. But a pessimism about that the data will prove out to be not real, I don't think is warranted. I think it should be given the same neutral opinion that the GLP ones.
I agree. That's a huge problem.
It's like, I hate that the government regulates. Okay, well, now it's been stolen from you. And what do you want now? You want a regulatory committee to come in and chase down your money and give it back. So everything you liked about it, you now are a victim of. And now you want all the regulation.
I totally agree with that mindset of I just want anything that's not that thing I hate is ridiculous and dangerous.
Yeah, I'm of the opinion there are hidden jewels. And I agree with you that they're being overused and without a doctor.
But there are good doctors who do believe in some of the ones that have now a great off-label use that will ultimately, in my opinion, be just like the GLP ones.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I've been outnumbered a few times in this, but that's okay. I can handle it. Now, my closing statements. You're so impressive. Your body of knowledge is mind-blowing. Reading the book and then also just what you can bring off the dome, it's mind-blowing. And I think you have real integrity and a great heart.
And I'm really, really delighted you're a voice in this space. I loved getting to meet you the first time and I'm so glad you came back the second time.
Oh, that's nice.
Oh, wonderful. Well, we'll have you back for sure. You're going to write another book and you'll give us more fun information.
Door is always open. I really encourage people to read your wonderful book, Super Agers, An Evidence-Based Approach to Longevity. Again, we got bogged down in the bad stuff. It is a very optimistic book.
You take some pictures and then it says you need this topical ointment. Go pick it up here.
Yeah, absolutely. All right. Well, thanks for coming.
Okay, you want to hear the thing that I screen grabbed?
Okay. This is a callback to our period underwear episode.
Thanks, baby girl. That's cute.
Right. Or front butt?
And if anything, it's like you have your big butt and then you have a miniature butt up front. It looks like two little butt cheeks if you really look at it. God.
Yeah, yeah.
Even when you're saying it, I'm like, well, no, not that one. You could just go the boobs. I'm like, no, no, everyone knows those are beautiful. And then the... What?
I mean, I think, obviously, the penis is the most ridiculous part of the body. The placement's goofy. It looks silly. Yeah.
It's so interesting. Yeah. Um... What else? We're both in white.
Fun. The top is like, it looks like the inside of a sweatshirt.
It's fuzzy.
And you're in eyeliner again.
You're not in eyeliner again.
What?
Yeah, you look like you looked the other day. I mean, now I'm noticing, yes, the eyes were an extra bit. But yes, it's still something a little different.
Cheek filler.
I would not have guessed that. Okay. Under eye concealer. And lipstick.
Every fucking time I leave the house, I'm in lipstick.
Yeah, like...
If you're in triage, you only have time for one application.
It's going to be lips.
What about cover-up?
Sure, a little pop. Remind people what's happening. Yeah. Yeah, I'm gonna say this with the utmost gratitude. I am so happy I live with all women. It's such a blessing. I'm glad I don't live with a bunch of men and boys. And I'm blessed to work with you all day.
Right, like one rung above over the counter.
But sometimes the spirits blow through town.
I don't mean period.
Now, it would be easy to blame period. And in a few years, I will be able to blame period.
No, because neither are my daughters. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh. But sometimes the spirits, just the emotion spirits blow through town.
And all the ladies are so emotional. And I, as the guy, I'm like, what has happened? Is it weather, moon, food? Is the well poisoned? What?
That would be incredible. Now, I am curious because in your own history, you famously left the Cleveland Clinic in 05 because you were sounding an alarm that there was this drug, Vioxx. Yeah. That was quite detrimental to patients.
You know, I'm clutching at straws because I'm not sure what it is, but it'll just be, we have these days where everyone is very emotional.
upset or just like well can you assign your emotions so can you give an example because maybe i can help maybe i can tell you what's going on okay so um boy and i keep really trying to evaluate when's when do i have to stop talking about my kids because they're old no i'm not sure It's very hard for me.
It is. But I'll just say because whatever. Yeah, like just indiscriminately. You know, D-Money's got a zone or it's almost maniac. It's like she's laughing really hard and then all of a sudden she's crying. She's completely upset. She's on a roller coaster. She's on a big, big time roller coaster. And then we had... Now, Lincoln had her play last night, right? The sixth graders put on a thing.
It's like an art show.
And then they've made these enormous papier-mâché heads. And when I say enormous, they're the size... of 10 basketballs.
And they have to go on stilts on the, someone wears them. Lincoln was lucky enough to have one. And they're the Greek gods. And then there's a play and a dance.
Really cool. First song they kicked us off with was Seven Nation Army. Oh, yes, you do. Do I? Jack White. Is it the White Stripes or just Jack White?
Oh, it's the toughest, coolest song. And all these little Catholic schoolgirls are fucking rocking to the most badass song. Wow.
She had like this contraption on to hold the head up. I'll send you a picture, of course.
Pictures and video. You know, D-Money can't even get through that thing. We got to go outside a few times. I'm on the verge of going like, hey, everyone had it together for your thing, but I know that's only going to make things worse. I can't really see anything.
Then we get home, and I don't... Lincoln had that thing on her thing for a very long time, and her legs hurt in a way that, honestly, it seems like she would have had to have been shot with a shotgun for them to hurt as bad as they did. And again, man, groin pain.
All of it's possible, but it's a grand mal meltdown, and I got to carry people upstairs, and the other person's already thing, and then Sweet Belle's just home from New York, and she's frazzled, and there's too many suitcases, and I'm just... And I, the guy perspective is whatever I say is going to make it worse. I can't think of a magic thing. Yeah. That's right.
And I need to just accept that people are emotional. And I do that. I'm not trying to talk anyone out of it. But I can see how these patterns emerge, which is just like, I just say less and less and less. And I'm more and more scared to just interact with anybody. And so I find that like, I'm just quiet for like eight hours, which is really funny.
And then I go to bed and I'm like, you know, hopefully we'll wake up tomorrow and everyone will just kind of be reset for whatever reason.
It's just one of the very funny gender gappy things that I think is really interesting. And I don't know what it is. And it's just funny to be the solo male in this situation.
That's the great thing is that— Throughout my life, I generally would make that my, I would be the cause of that. That's my knee jerk. And I think that's why people's emotions are so insufferable to me is that I convince myself it's because of me. I knew it was not because of me, luckily. So that's a huge load off my shoulders.
Because if you can figure out a way that it is your fault, then it really is kind of grueling. Yeah. Now that I experience it, I like kind of go back in my head and I think of all these like dads I knew who just were like, I hadn't heard him talk. They just stopped talking because they just are afraid they're going to make it worse or whatever.
Yeah, you know like when the hero in the movie is like walking away and the explosions are happening. And the cool thing to do is not look over your shoulder. You just got to keep strolling. I think that's a little bit like that.
It's kind of a funny experience being a guy a lot of times, you know?
Like there's many times where I look at myself and I'm just kind of laughing. I'm like, look at this guy. You're just kind of like wandering from room to room hoping you don't bump into anyone. Yes, oh yeah. And like a little panicked when you do, when you're forced to say something.
What also happens is, And maybe you should just always grant everyone. This is like, they build up, you build up trust with one another and they are demonstrating who they are over a long enough period of time that you can really, you have a lot of data to talk yourself out of it, which is like, I know these kids. They're not wimps. They're not, they're not easily defeated, you know?
Yeah. In 2004. You were victorious in this.
So it does get easy over time because you start to see the actual character of your kids and you're not as worried as much.
Yeah. But all to say, You end up just being really quiet. And I just think that's really funny. I think it's really funny.
Walking on eggshells. Yeah.
Oh, I'll add one other thing.
I also have to be realistic about the trade-offs and the rewards. So the joy of having these girls is like I get to be so affectionate.
And loving all day long. That's like the apex of it. And so, yeah, you don't get that. You don't get like just the good emotions you want to swim in all day, which I do, and not have the other side of the coin.
All anyone's looking for in life and what is comforting and get you through all of it is if there's any sense that you're getting even fractionally better and you're committed to getting better, then there's like this ultimate tolerance for it. I think it's when someone's not going to change at all or it's getting worse. Sure.
Yeah.
Oh, beautiful.
Yes.
Totally. It totally makes sense. I was having kind of a funny thought, which was, When you meet your grandparents, they've already been through this whole thing, right? So you meet them and you kind of think you're meeting, the original them. But like, I think about my Papa Bob, he was so quiet sometimes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And I just kind of thought he was a quiet guy at times, but I now realize, like, I met him way into the game. This is his second time around with kids in the house and the whole thing. So it's like, he, I don't even know, who knows what my grandpa was like at 25.
Yeah, he just learned to be quiet over time. And I think that is the trajectory of all men if they're gonna succeed.
With men or me? Just me.
Okay.
Yeah, yeah.
I have moods. They just, they show themselves. Their phenotype is different. It's just a different version. And I know a lot of guys that's like this. It just tends to, again, we do the same thing. We get quiet. We isolate.
And then we, we, what feels like is we abandon or we retreat.
That's almost our version of being moody or, or having big feelings is I'll just, I'll remove myself from everyone.
And I will soothe with something that's generally solitary. Like I don't want to be around everyone when I'm depressed or in a mood.
Sure. Carly?
Okay.
Okay.
And your pursuit of that then exposed this other problem that you got immersed in, which was this interconnectivity between the institute you're working at and the pharmaceutical company.
I think you guys are comfortable around each other having big emotions. And then what's scary to you guys is when we just vanish.
That was it?
Okay, my update is that he just did Dr. Mike's podcast a few days ago. And Mike said to me, I saw the picture of you and Eric and it's the cutest picture ever.
Oh, my gosh. Yeah, I really wish he was my dad.
I mean, I already have a dad, Tom Hanson.
But just look how sweet. We could have so much fun lifting weights together and doing father-son stuff.
If he's around. Yeah. He's a busy man.
He had brought a sleeveless tee because he's been lifting.
Yes. And I said, not only yes, do I want to do that, let me go grab a tank top. Yeah. So I did a little wardrobe change. And his daughter took the picture.
Yes.
And what happened? Did you just, like, at some point, did you go, like, I got to stop bothering this guy?
Oh, sure. Yeah, that makes sense.
Yeah, yeah. So does everyone else. I mean.
Laziness.
Spearheaded.
I wish I could cite something right now, but I have run across numerous articles that talk about just the overall efficacy of the drugs that are passed by the FDA. And it's abysmal. I mean, it's truly, truly abysmal.
We're talking like 20% of people will actually benefit from them. You know, really, really low. I guess when the doctor prescribes me something, I think like, well, this thing works. That's why they're prescribing it.
And in their defense, no, they're going to try that. It might work. And then if it doesn't work, they're going to try another option.
And they're just knocking out. But I think the general public thinks medicines do the thing they say they're going to, like 100%. Yeah. It's not.
In the 80s.
This is current. Yeah. I'll admit it changed in the 90s and it got different.
Lopsided.
Yeah, that almost doesn't happen.
As are men's rectums. So bottoms get it way more than tops get it.
Yeah. Fissures, openings, friction.
Well, because the receiver tends to get it more than the giver.
It would be harder for you to give it to him because he has far less openness on his penis than you have in your vagina. And you have more fissures and openness in your rectum than a penis is going to have.
Then we would be apples to apples. If men and women had sex anally to vaginally.
Well, this is how it seems like making out.
And a lot of like suction noises and stuff.
I'd like to try it.
Who's that?
Hello?
No, come in.
Are you okay? Oh. Oh. Well, when you come, I don't see you and I hear... I did also think for a second you were crying. I'm assuming you've come in crying and someone just assaulted you.
It's double whammy. You came in to the podcast space, which you don't do often.
Look at me. Look at one of these cameras. Come over here and look at that camera.
She's already crying.
Yeah, we would love to think there's a wall between research and big pharma and even hospitals and big pharma. And this kind of showed that if there's a wall, it's permeable at best.
Yeah, we're proud of you, too. We're so proud of you. It's hard. Those bike rides are hard.
Right?
No, this is great actually because it's for Eric Topol and it's about longevity.
Doing it for you, Eric. This feels now scripted almost.
Scripts.
Tomorrow morning.
I filled it out too in case we missed it.
Tell me what you want to say to Mom, and I'll write it.
It's good training.
So, okay, you left in 2005. 20 years later, do you think this problem is the same, less, or more?
And the Cheshire Cat. I'm like, that kid definitely auditions. He's probably been on TV. You know, because we're in LA. The White Rabbit. Oh, White Rabbit. Yeah, yeah.
Well, I was telling Delta before the play, the night before, she's like nervous. And I said, I just want you to hear from me. What impresses me is putting yourself out there. I do not care if you're good. If you remember your lines, what is admirable is putting yourself out there. And you will do that because you'll show up. So there's really nothing to be nervous about from my approval.
Did anyone from Purdue go to jail?
Oh, meaning like it's a fringe astrology thing. It's an evolution of astrology.
I think it's just a way.
Salt settled.
Great job. Great job. I'm very proud of you. That's the hardest workout.
What's that from?
I will produce, I will cite the many articles that say it's great for you.
I love him. We can't wait to do it again.
With probably more gains.
I hope he's bigger than me in the next photo. That would be incredible. He's going to have to up his protein intake.
All right. Love you.
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It correlates beautifully with however much money the drug makes is what exponent it goes up by, really.
So I guess I asked that question in pursuit of wondering, will these big institutions, big insurance, big pharma, the networks, will they try to put up roadblocks for this drug? very democratized access to AI in phone medicine.
Yeah, you got beds that are telling you how you sleep in your O2 level. I mean, we're getting there.
Okay, so I have an unpopular view, especially being a liberal. People love to hold up the UK's national health system or Canada's. You're looking at what sector it's beneficial to. If you're looking to generally just raise the overall access and health, I think it's very effective. Right. But I think you can't ignore the fact that anyone that needs something for real comes here. That's also true.
And friendly dust-ups between Eric and I, because I'm on one side of the spectrum. Sure. Please enjoy Dr. Eric Topol.
We are also leading in so many areas. So all of this is built on this highly profitable system. So I think to ignore that aspect, and I have lots of friends that live in England. They're not all wild about it. I have lots of friends in Canada. They're not wild about it. What we get sold on here, just talk to folks that live there. Not everyone's wild about it.
But I think the tipping point would be if those countries did embrace all this and we saw... Oh, no, you actually want to go there and use that because, again, the AI is catching the tumor at 78% accuracy and our doctor is getting it at 50. If it becomes superior because the tech is so much better, I think the current argument that holds sway kind of falls apart.
Is that because their access to data?
There's no tiers to the system.
Okay, so your new book is Super Agers, an evidence-based approach to longevity. This is right up my alley as someone who turned 50 this year.
Well, that's very kind of you to say, but my most optimistic self doesn't think that I am not minimally halfway over on the ride. And I put a lot of thought and effort into trying to see as much of my kid's life as I can. So I'm really, really interested in this. You start the book with two patients, Mrs. LR and Mr. RP. Why do you start with them and what is interesting about them?
Yeah, it's almost impossible to do, right? To find someone who's 90, who's not had any, even the stat in the book is 95% of people over 60 have one chronic illness and 74% of people have two by the age of 60.
I can hear you.
Oh, yeah. Mid-century modern. It's my little office here.
This is a new house.
Oh, maybe because of.
This is about 10 years ago. So there's a few characters, obviously my wife being one of them. She's kind of social butterfly, the opposite of me, Texas girl, Southern, everywhere we go, she's talking with people and people love her. She's adorable and got dimples, blonde hair. So Basically, wherever we go, she's finding friends and I'm trying to lose the friends she's making.
And so we moved into our new house. We left the city of Rochester to move to a little town right on the outskirts of it. We were just so excited because it was tucked away. It was quiet, not a lot of hustle and bustle from the city. So we were just really excited to move in. The house was set back a little bit. So the driveway was a little bit longer than everyone else's.
We get there and obviously we're making friends right away. My wife's talking with all the neighbors. Everyone's super nice. There's one particular neighbor right next door to us. Her name's Betty. She's about a 60-year-old Italian woman. Seems really sweet. We kind of hit it off talking at the end of the driveway, neighborly things. Everyone's really supportive in our neighborhood.
And there was another neighbor across the street. His name's Randy. He was kind of like a bachelor guy, retired, but only like 47, 48 years old. So he retired kind of early. I think he worked for like the sheriff's department or something. Real nice guy. So late summer, we just moved in. The neighbor next door, Betty, brings over a gift. And it's a little broom, dustpan and a Frisbee.
Oh, interesting mix. Yeah. We're like, OK, great. Thank you so much. That's nice. I found it odd because the only thing left in our house previously, you know, we moved in. It was empty. It was a couple of cans of paint and a dustpan and a broom and a Frisbee. What?
But this is the only thing in the home. Weird. They moved out and left.
I work a lot of evenings and weekends so I can come home and Mandy and Randy and Betty will be outside chatting, maybe having a little smoke break, having a cocktail, that kind of thing. Fall rolls around. Betty starts asking my wife, can you take out my dog once in a while when I'm running errands? They have a few cocktail hours, things like that. She's a stay-at-home mom, my wife.
So it was just nice that she was hanging out with other retired people and had some company during the day and while I was at work and things. It was just a pretty typical fall, nothing too crazy. Winter rolls around and I'll shovel her driveway once in a while. Everyone's helping out.
Randy comes by with his snowblower and we'll clear the end of each other's driveways after the big plow comes through and we're all helping each other out. Betty would ask my wife for a couple of rides to the doctor when it was snowing or things like that. And
That's when I was like, maybe you just tell her no once in a while, even if you're available, just to make sure we're not on a trajectory that's untenable. Yeah. Good fences make good neighbors kind of approach. Just another couple of things that sparked my curiosity in my office was in the front of the house.
So I could kind of see at the end and Betty would stop the mailman and talk for like an hour to the mailman. I'm like, this is not sustainable here. You know, I just can't imagine like, why would the mailman wait that long? Maybe he's lonely. I don't know. He was a younger guy, but then the mailman started showing up in street clothes to her house. That's a little weird.
I don't know if you're supposed to have a relationship with the mailman like that. So spring rolls around and I see an ambulance across the street at Randy's house there. And it turns out he died suddenly. Oh my goodness. At 48? Young guy, you know, he smoked 10 packs of cigarettes a day, it seemed like, and 30 coolers light a day kind of habit. So we weren't surprised.
But I guess he had a heart attack, called his dad a few hours before saying he was having some issues and then passed away. That was really sad. He was a real nice guy. Missed him. And that's kind of when things got a little weird. We started seeing Betty in a robe all the time, not really out and about like she was walking her dog. She would just walk her dog to the end of the street.
And then one day she just came out just yelling at kids playing basketball in the middle of the day. And I walked out there and was just like, you know, oh, hey, calm down and give yourself a heart attack. She was really worked up. Again, another checkmark.
maybe things aren't as stable as we thought here and then she started yelling at us from the fence waiting for us to like drive by on the driveway and kind of yell right at the car she's yelling that my wife killed randy oh my god she has some theories yeah wow that we ruined the neighborhood everything was good until you arrived for like the bad luck or something.
So that's when I was like, okay, no more connection. Let's just ignore. I had a 10 year old son at the time. I told him Betty's sick and we kind of left it at that. Well, early summer now, I came home late at night, pulled in the driveway, got out of my car and it was just terrible smell. This is bad. You know, is it my trash can or something?
We're about 300 feet from one of the Great Lakes, so you can get some kind of terrible smells once in a while. It's summertime. I'm like, oh, that's weird, but I'm tired. It's late. I'll solve this problem tomorrow. Maybe we'll be gone. I wake up in the morning. I get some errands to run at Home Depot. I hop in my truck that was parked in the driveway the previous night.
I still smell this terrible smell. I'm like, what is this? Look around, look in the trash can. I just can't seem to find it. I hop in the truck. I go to Home Depot. I take this road. It's through a park, very windy, 25 miles an hour. I'm driving on this road and someone just passes me, double line, shouldn't be passing me, gives me a dirty look. I'm like, what's going on?
Sunday morning, everyone relax, keep driving. I come to a red light and I see this truck behind me and then he kind of backs up and then pulls alongside me. And this truck was like a farm truck. The doors don't match the paint. There's two gentlemen there. They're real kind of dirty guys. And he kind of makes this motion like a hitchhiker or something motion. Wasn't sure what exactly he was doing.
The light turns green. I'm like, what is going on today? Why is everyone just looking weird? And I pull into the Home Depot. I go past the entrance. And again, I just noticed everyone looks so angry today. I'm just so confused. Pull into a parking spot. step out of my truck. I took a few steps and it just, it hit me, the smell. And I looked down and tied to my bumper. Is a dead animal.
Oh, my God. I've been dragging this animal through my town on a Sunday morning. Through my town. And everyone's trying to tell me. And that's why everyone's so angry and passing me.
First, I thought it was my cat.
And I was in shock. Did get a closer look. It was a raccoon. Wow. It was tied around its neck with like a USB cable and then like a wired mouse then attached to my bumper. Oh, my goodness. Oh, my God. Wow. And again, I'm looking around. Everyone's looking at me. I got nothing to say. I'm in shock. You know, people are clenching their kids in the Home Depot parking lot.
Like, look at this monster dragging roadkill. And then I'll call him the Home Depot angel. The guy who's collecting the carts comes over, kind of breaks the silence as the crowd is gathered around me. And I'm unsure what to do. Everyone else is unsure what to do. And just looks at me and goes, looks like he caught something. Oh, that's a nice icebreaker, I guess. Yeah, he's there to help.
And he's like, no worries, man. I'll be right back. Comes back with a bucket and a shovel. We cut this guy loose.
And he scoops him up, puts him in the bucket. Oh. And he's like, I'll take care of this. I'll throw it in the dumpster.
I was in shock. What I did is a few days later, I gave him a good review. Oh, my God.
put pieces together and realized that she must have at night, her or someone, maybe the mailman.
Possibly to put this kind of roadkill attached to my truck underneath so that I wouldn't see it until I pulled out and pulled away. And then I just went down to the police station the next day and was like, I'm not concerned about this woman hurting us, but that's a lot of diseases on this raccoon. Yeah.
She moved a few years after that. And then we moved a few years after she left.
They came over to the house. The police talked with her and some of the other neighbors. I just think about all the signs. Everyone is kind of warning us. Even the previous owner of the home kind of just left what they gave her, right?
She said something about it being good luck. It gives someone a broom or something. So they're saying it was good luck and then the people leaving it behind.
Oh my God, that is so funny. I was not bringing that to my next home.
Which?
It was very interesting. Wow. I thank you for letting me tell that story. Hopefully it was somewhat interesting. Oh, it's incredible.
Oh, wow.
My wife really got me into armchair expert. We pretty much only listen when we go on road trips and she kind of created a monster. She's like, you know, can we listen to music once in a while? I'm ready to binge on experts on experts and she needs a little bit of tunage and relaxation in between. Oh, that's delightful.
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And I figured, oh, OK, why not just get that VM from the Linux team? What could go wrong? And so, yeah, I administered a server to deploy these apps on for years. It got so popular that I became in way over my head, even though I am a Linux geek on the side. I run Linux everywhere, but And over time, we ended up getting an enterprise product for that.
But it just goes to show you this opens so many doors for people. And now a huge part of my day job is to build these really slick, you know, interactive applications that may use R as a front end only or may interact with HPC environments. But R is the foundation to tie all that together is absolutely amazing.
You absolutely can. Yeah, absolutely. I've done that. I've done very business intelligence-like looking dashboards with some of the latest and greatest in their bootstrap design toolkit that they're exposing now.
all the way to, like I said, these really comprehensive end-to-end, take your data, tune an algorithm, launch the analysis on a cloud or internal HPC cluster, and bring it all back with some interactive like Plotly-based visualizations or other types of interactive displays and let the users download that for a standalone report. It's all possible, and it's absolutely amazing how all that works.
Okay, and I'm assuming because R is not really OO, right? There are parts of it that are, absolutely. Oh, there are? And there are different ways to do it. That's what gets really interesting.
And we'll make sure to link in the show notes for those that want to get into the internals of R. Hadley Wickham, who is arguably one of the most prolific R package developers in the community, wrote this book as a way for him to kind of share the way he's been developing on the language. It comes with a paradigm called S3 under the hood.
which kind of has it's it's in between a traditional object oriented programming and a more of a expressive language. And it does some things that may make a purist programmer think, why the heck is it doing that with nonstandard evaluation and the like? But then it's got other systems that are more rigorous and also extension packages that are trying to bring it a little more rigor, such as R6.
And there's a new one out there called S7 that's trying to consolidate it all together. So it's got a long history. And depending on your needs, you might do one system versus the other. The S3 system is great for just the interactive data analysis, get my data frame in, do a quick plot on it, do a quick table on it, and you can write it in very few lines of code.
Whereas the more rigid structure is great for, as I said, these web application development, these more comprehensive packages that are doing a lot of internal processing. That's where things like R6 and this new S7 system are coming to play here.
No, you get to choose your own adventure here. So I would say, yeah, the flexibility of how R is built in terms of what I call its base install are absolutely tailor-made for those interactive data analysis. You might be familiar with Jupyter Notebooks or IPython type workflows.
When you combine R with a package called R Markdown, you get that very similar experience of creating these dynamically created reports with interactive code chunks, but it's very expressive in that language, absolutely.
Yeah, so RStudio kind of came about 12, 13 years ago where there had been attempts at IDEs in R before, and some worked decently well on specific operating systems. Heck, of all things, I remember there was a plug-in to Notepad++, of all things, to interact with R for the Windows users.
Hey, Notepad++ got me through grad school before I learned Linux, so my goodness. There you go. But RStudio came around as kind of building an IDE that was literally tailor-made for R itself instead of trying to be a generalist. And it's had its place. I won't lie. It definitely helped adoption of R in the enterprise, having that first-in-class IDE that you can install.
Very likely. It's going to take care of everything for you, having like the code editor, the interactive help browser, you know, installing packages for point and click and looking at visualizations. Yeah, you can do all sorts of wonderful things there. The company behind RStudio, like I said, they rebranded the Posit.
They have launched a new IDE called Positron, which, get this, is a variant of VS Code. Who would have thought? But it is happening. It's so in beta right now, but it's trying to be, you might say, a generous home for more than R itself for data science, so i.e.
You could say that. And it's taking the best of VS Code but putting their own spin on top of it to make it more tailored to that RStudio-like experience. It's coming a long way. It's got a lot of potential. I am using it as kind of like a dev test for some open source projects. And because of the extension system, you can make that anything you want.
So I think they built this as a way that they learned from RStudio that, yeah, it was great for R. But the reality is, Mike, as much as I am an R evangelist, a lot of people love interoperability. They love to hop back and forth between R and Python or R and Observable or R and other frameworks. Positron is their way to make that a reality under their toolkit. Interesting.
You know, and I admit it somewhat doesn't sit well with me at some point. But then again, I can't deny that it is up the game of so many dev stacks. Oh, yeah. And I was an early adopter of it, too, when that R extension came out for VS Code. And in fact... Another thing that kind of changed my dev life about a few years ago was the idea of dev containers in VS Code.
So then I could potentially not even have R on my host system, but via Docker in the dev container, install R, install the packages, install extensions, and have it be a self-contained environment. I couldn't believe it, but it actually worked.
That is a testament in and of itself. And I've actually been playing with WSL as well, of all things, for a really important external collaboration to get an R environment with Docker installed as a test for our colleagues in regulatory. So there's lots of great opportunities with this type of technology. And R is definitely well suited for those workflows, as I found out. So good.
You literally said it. It is. There is a package called RM to help fill that gap for a given project. This is a good example here is there may be a project that I have where it's literally more of a traditional data analysis, get a report out, send it to a stakeholder, but do it through our scripts or in our markdown report or more recently a Quarto engine, which we can talk about sometime.
But then I have different needs for these shiny apps where it is a software stack, right? I have dependencies that are going to be tailor made to that shiny app that that other project does not care about. So our end is kind of like ours answer to, you know, pip or virtual environments. I'll be it. I think they do it a bit cleaner.
But again, I'm biased, but it has been a huge help to making sure that for a given project, especially for my day job stuff. I can be assured that I can have that dependency library self-contained in that project. And no matter what happens on the host Linux infrastructure with what I'll call the central library of our packages, that particular RM project is isolated.
I can do whatever I want with that. I can opt into package upgrades. I can opt into package downgrades. But I get that flexibility. And without RM, I do think R would be in much worse straits for production use. So it has become a huge part of my toolbox to make sure that I'm doing effective dependency management. Is it perfect? Like I said, nothing's perfect, Mike.
But it sure is a heck of a lot better than trying to manage these R libraries yourself and hope for the best that you got that symlink correct when you're loading that into your R session.
Yeah, yeah. I've had nightmares upon nightmares when somebody asked me to help debug what's going on, where they load a package and they say, wait, it can't be loaded. And wait, I thought I installed it. No, it's because you had this weird cryptic version in your home library that's masking the LDD libraries that the hero package should be loading.
Many hours have been spent trying to fix those issues.
I'm more of a honey person, but boy, oh boy, I'm glad to be here. We both were in pretty dire straits earlier when we wanted to record this, so I am super thrilled to be on here.
Oh, yeah, the immense pain from that. And I wish at my day job they would let me have a Linux-powered laptop. Unfortunately, it is Mac, and I've done my best to play that game, but I am so spoiled by what I can do on my home environment with my Thaleo running. Now it's running NixOS, but Ubuntu before that, I had so much more control over it. You're a Nix convert, are you?
It took a bit, but ironically, I'll bring it back to R here. There is a great person in the community named Bruno Rodriguez has made a package called Rix that will let you install development environments in R via Nix packaging. It is absolutely mind boggling that this all works. I've been beta testing that already has some good success with it.
And by the way, for those listeners, this is actually not the first time that Michael and I have had a conversation on various podcasts in the past, especially our love for a spiky-haired blue mascot and the company around them. But as a lifelong listener of Coda Radio from episode one, this is a super thrill to be here.
And I got big plans to hopefully bring that to industry later on because I think it's a game changer as well.
Yeah, and I was skeptical, just like many other people, but of course, shout out to our friends at Jupyter Broadcasting. They're the ones that first hooked me into it, and I thought, well, that's great for the early adoption of Linux in general, but What about data signs? What about R? And then Bruno comes along and does this Rix thing. I'm like, are you kidding me?
So then I install, I'm like, oh my gosh, this actually works. Oh, mind blown. Okay.
I would say understand that there can be a lot of variability in terms of how certain workflows are conducted just at the lower level. So as I mentioned, one of our greatest strengths is the community of packages, right? Well, even in the realm of just data processing and data munging, There are like different avenues you can take with that.
There is what's become known as the tidyverse family of packages that try to have a more unified syntax or how you do that end-to-end data ingestion, munging, processing, visualization in a very literal pipeable type of syntax. But then you've got other languages that are leveraging or other packages that
leveraging, say, C++ on the backend to do more sophisticated processing, but with their own kind of DSL inside. So you might get overwhelmed if you try to use all this at once. It's good to try things out and then see what style suits you best. Because like in the realm of data processing, there's a great package called data.table that has been one of the mainstays in R for years and years.
But its DSL is completely different than what this tidyverse family of packages offers to you. So I'd say be prepared for that variation. But once you find something, don't feel bad about sticking with it. I know lots of great developers and statisticians, data scientists out there that love the data.table approach and more power to them.
I personally think the Tidyverse approach is a bit more intuitive to a new data scientist and a new person coming to R. But you have choice, right? It's just like Linux. You have all these choices for what you want to start developing in. So I'd say just be prepared for that flexibility.
And once you find something, don't feel ashamed about sticking with it because you can do lots of awesome things. with so many parts of the language. It almost makes my head spin when I do this podcast every week and seeing what people are doing that I had no idea was even possible. So the choice is good, in my opinion.
Ah, yes. The feels. Yes. Oh, God. Just say, come on.
That's all they do. Because that's all they want to do now, I know.
Every time I think we covered it, there's something new to talk about there.
Yeah. Great for content, nonetheless.
Wow. I knew one of these would happen, but this is opening my eyes to a whole new world here. This is really cool. And these folks are extremely passionate.
Oh, man. So many hours back in grad school, I was honking on that between breaks and classes. That was an amazing time. Sneaking that in my Jansport backpack. Oh, dude. Rock a Jansport. Rock it.
Yeah, it's actually been a few different things. I started in podcasting with literally DR Podcast, so no one can take that away from me. It was the first one ever way back in 2012, 2011. I remember I started that one year before my first kid was born. And then, as you well know, life changes quite a bit after.
What could possibly go wrong with that naming, right?
Oh my goodness. Just imagine hooking this up. You know, we didn't really get to it, but I had my adventures in live streaming a few years ago and I would occasionally play hot shot racing on my stream and well, shout out to Martin Winpress for getting me in that racing league a few years ago. But nonetheless, just imagine having like this as some fun break between dev work and streaming that out.
No, I have not. I may have heard the term once or twice before, but you've literally just opened my eyes to this very tantalizing new world.
And what honestly this means to me is that this would be the closest you could ever get to say one of your kids being introduced to what the Game Boy was like with an actual physical cartridge instead of you just throwing the ROMs on an SD card or something and really just get that feel for what it really was like for the old timers like us, Mike. I mean, this is really neat.
You had to bring me down, didn't you?
No, I think our eight-year-olds are probably very close in age, because I remember when you mentioned that on the old Coder Radio, my kid was born a few weeks apart, so I imagine everything is similar here. He is addicted to Minecraft, and I'm afraid you're right. Within five minutes, he's like, where's Minecraft?
You get a kid and whatnot. But yeah, that was my first foray. And honestly, I started it as a way to It was almost like learning out loud, as they say. I was still pretty new to R at the time, but I figured, well, Linux podcasts have helped me immensely in my journey in grad school. Why not be the first to do this? So that was my first foray in sharing my love for R out there.
I did. I did. And it was tough at first because there is a very well-known plugin for Emacs called ESS for Emacs statistics that I did use for a good year or so back. And this is well before that RStudio IDE came out. And I was looking for a way on our Linux environment at work to kind of have that. you know, terminal-ish like experience, but yet have an IDE like experience.
And at that time, Emacs and ESS got me so close. But I tell you what, those keyboard shortcuts just royally made me, you know, so confused. So then once I started to learn Vim a bit better, which was admittedly easier to do for quick text processing, I never looked back, Mike. I have to say I saw the light.
I do admit I have a very close colleague at the day job. If he hears this, he's probably going to read me fits because he is like the one Emacs user in our group. So sorry, the other Michael that might be listening to this, but it is what it is. He knows it.
You're not wrong there either, but yeah, I can see where you're coming from.
It's not a direct parallel, but sometimes when you look at all these lower-level JavaScript frameworks, it just makes your head spin almost equally similarly. So that's why I'm glad I know enough that I need to be dangerous, so to speak, but I don't have to be the ninja of all the 1,000 JavaScript frameworks out there. I just know enough to get the job done.
And then since then, I've done a couple of different things. And my most current one is called R Weekly Highlights, where we talk about the latest happenings in the community and kind of a news and discussion format. And it's been awesome.
Oh, the many hours I've wasted trying to learn that system. My gosh.
Yeah, cruft or crud is an understatement. But yeah, ironically, there are some R packages out there that try to be a front end to bringing those custom frameworks of JavaScript in. One called Packer, I believe there's other ones out there. And I tried them a bit, but they still even made my head spin.
So when I just do my Shiny app development, if I need some JavaScript, it's still vanilla JavaScript for the little custom thing I have to do very rarely.
Well, I mean, I opened the door. You did open it.
But I will say the other great innovation recently that I've been hooked on, maybe you're not quite as hooked on it as I am, is WebAssembly is now starting to take the data science community by storm, even in the R community. I do like WebAssembly.
Absolutely, yes. There is a package called WebR. to help bring these bindings and combine with a package called Shiny Live, where I could take a Shiny app and make it like a traditional Shiny app, but with Shiny Live, automatically create the manifest needed to make it a WebAssembly-powered app.
And with the right runtime, just boot it up in your web browser, local host it with a port, and you are done.
off to the races and i cannot believe how cool that is i even shared a web assembly power shiny app with the fda of all people in a pilot submission we're waiting to get feedback on it but even they are excited about it and you know how regulatory can be they could be a bit slow on the uptake but no they're excited about this that's shocking i mean you're selling them something new and they're not like well to call you back in 18 24 months
Oh, I had all the expectations. This is going to be like, yeah, Eric, that's a great idea, but not for like 10 years. But no, they're like, you think you can do it? I'm thinking we could try. And sure enough, we can. So yeah, I changed my dev life there too.
Oh, yeah. I had lots of fun with that when that came out.
So what is R? Yep, we could be here all day for that, but I'll keep it pretty brief here. It actually has its origins much like Unix itself from Bell Labs in another language called S that was jointly developed by John Chambers and some other great developers way back in the 1970s. as a way to have a pretty domain-specific expressive language for statistical analysis and data processing.
I mean, I can say that. Yeah. You better watch yourself, Mike. You may jinx everything for us.
Yeah. Recently, when I was having that adventure in the live streaming stuff, those stream decks are pretty darn useful, not just for live streaming. That can actually automate a lot of cool stuff on your system with a point click of a button. I was not sold on it, but then people like, like I said, Martin Winpress and others convinced me and I bought one of those and now I got...
through linux a way to map you know custom shortcuts to it even without nix os of all things so i can launch a program launch any arbitrary set of commands it is that one unexpectedly changed my my workflow a bit so yeah the stream the stream deck is is right here on my system i'm here to stay oh man i i uh i'm definitely thinking he'll get it one
Yeah, I mean, I do have a bigger model and that was over 200 when I bought it. So maybe the smaller models in between that more elegant range or more accessible range. But again, once I started using it, it's hard to imagine life without it. So it ain't just for the streamers, folks. It can actually help your dev workflow too.
Yeah, you got it. You got it. And with these programs, they can interface with any number of these screens they could toggle back and forth with all the button mapping. So yeah, cover me convinced. I was skeptic, but it's here to stay. I love it.
Oh, you know me. I'm always eager to talk shop on data and any other Linux geekery out there. And by the way, as you said on the outset, the Discord for Coda Radio, it's happening, folks. You should definitely join there if you haven't already. I love it there. But yeah, if you want to find me, first, my podcast is called Our Weekly Highlights. We'll have a link to that in the show notes.
But if you can find me on social media, I am on three major things. Blue Sky with at our podcast at BSKY.social. I'm on Mastodon with at our podcast at Podcast Index.social. And I'm on LinkedIn from time to time. Just search my name and you'll find me there. Sounds good.
And that's the whole gamut, too. You've been getting some great feedback on the show since the revamp and lots of great tech questions out there. And of course, we're going to throw our love for little Sonic and Sega there, too, from time to time.
Yeah, yeah. We'll save the listeners for that one.
Oh, always a pleasure, Mike. I'm really glad to be here. And best, you know, great success on the future episodes. And I'll be one of the first to listen every week. Sounds great. Talk to you soon. Thank you. Bye-bye. Bye-bye.
And fast forward quite a few years, there were changes in how S was licensed. It became part of a vendor after that.
And then in the mid-1990s, two gentlemen at the University of Auckland in New Zealand, Ross Ahaka and Robert Gentleman, were inspired by S and decided to make an open source language that was basically taking the best of the S language and making it completely open source and community developed. And that became R. And so it's got a long history. But honestly, fastening forward to today,
R is standing on the shoulders of open source and the fact that, yes, R itself has everything you need to do a nice data analysis, visualization, import data. It's a community of over 25,000 packages at the time we're talking here. They can turn R into almost absolutely anything of what the language you want to do. I have lots of ideas on where this is going in the future.
And it's greatly helped me in my daily work. And it's super inspiring to see just how far the community has taken the R language itself and to be able to do some really cool stuff with it across the board.
You bet. In fact, they call it the Comprehensive R Archive Network, or CRAM for short, where basically you boot up R. You could say install.packages and put the name of the package, download it on the spot. Now, there are some really important differences to note between CRAN and, say, PyPy or RubyGems. CRAN is curated by humans, i.e. the R core team.
So it's not just like you have an idea for the package, you write some R code, you ship it out and get it installed right away. You have to pass a lot of checks to make that happen. And there are automated ways to do that. But they're running the checks on their side, too. But admittedly, you were talking about kind of the Rust controversy on the Linux kernel.
There is a bit of controversy, I would say, from time to time on the CRAN network where some packages do get archived for sometimes some very esoteric reasons that actually have nothing to do with the package itself.
I did use Emacs back in the day. I knew it. Rejected, gone. Rejected, gone, yeah. Since I've seen the way with Vim, but that's another story.
Oh, we will. Yeah, so there was actually a package that was archived a couple weeks ago by a good friend of mine in the developer community, not because his package had a problem, but because a dependency package that his package used. had a problem with a bin bash prompt of all things. You'll have to listen to the latest R Weekly episode for our details on that.
Nonetheless, my point here is that there are some advancements to make our packaging a bit more modern to take the best of PiPi and parts of CRAN and try to make a more... I'll say clear system for contribution. Some of those are called our universe and a new one that's coming in the works called multiverse that I'm keeping an eye on. So CRAN has had its warts over the years.
It still would not be where it is today without it. But we're seeing some modern approaches that I think are going to take the language to another level in the near future here.
So the good news is your app as it is, if you don't need to change it, can still be used as is. What happens is if you needed to update anything and you try to install that.
Yeah, an ongoing thing. If you try to install it again, R itself will get mad at you and say, oh, that's not available anymore. And there's a custom way to get an archive of a package. It's more convoluted, but it is technically possible. But it is an issue that could affect people, especially, like you said, in an ongoing project.
or a production setting where you have to update your dependencies. But that's where, again, some of these projects like our universe are stepping in to give a more automated way to host these packages with a slightly more automated structure, but with best practices. on top of that. So I'll make sure I'm linking to that in the show notes. So it's an interesting time.
But yeah, R is not without its controversies, just like any big open source language.
You know, I dare say there may have been one attempt at trying to get this distributed as a malware setup and it was shot down faster than a snap. So yeah, that is obviously one benefit of having this human in the loop. So that's why I can't discount their importance.
Albeit there have been some rather esoteric, questionable reasons why certain packages got flagged, whether they're new or they've been existing for over 10 years and in some esoteric build. cough, cough, Solaris, ends up having a hissy fit about it.
I'm sorry. I just can't resist. They're already down.
Yep. And truth be told, many of the users of R are just going to install a package the moment they see it mentioned on a blog or whatever setting. So it is advantageous that it is on a reputable repository, but R does let you install packages from GitHub directly if you're inclined. And yeah, that's where you have to have a little more of a careful eye, so to speak.
Yeah, I mean, certainly, like I said, it had its roots in academia, like I said, at University of Auckland and others in that space. But I would say in the last 10 years, certainly in the last five years, there's been explosive growth in how art can stand, you know, hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder with some of the other languages, as someone might typically say, is a production ready language.
We are going to mention the infamous Python. I'm sure as we go along here, the knock has always been, well, R is great to prototype that algorithm, but you got to put it in Python for production, right? I think those days are over. I think we have enough tooling, enough resources, and enough experience with putting R in highly important positions.
production workflows, whether it's for machine learning, whether it's for web applications, which I'd love to talk about. And now, even in the future, there are even R packages that are interfacing with the rest of all things. So there is lots of opportunities to use R in production now, and it's really exciting.
It was only a matter of time, right? It was only a matter of time.
Call me jaded by all the virtual environment garbage I've had to endure over the years.
Oh, yes, there is. It was about maybe 10 years ago or so at this time, a new R package came out from a company that at the time was called RStudio. Now they've been rebranded as Posit.
but they had developed a package called Shiny, which was a way to take a React-like expressive web language or paradigm for developing web apps and bring that to as an R package so that with just straight up functions, I could create an interactive dynamic web app without having to know a lick about JavaScript, CSS, or the like. It changed my dev life.
I've always been curious about doing cool things on the web. And in grad school, I did some very archaic things with PHP and MySQL on the back end for some grad school projects. Don't get me started on PHP. Oh, gosh.
Oh, lots of wars on that one. But then when Shiny came around and I was able to build this little Hello World app with an interactive histogram with a slider input, I could not believe it. I just could not believe it. So then I quickly show some colleagues at work about this. Suddenly they want me to spin up a server to host these apps.
It all comes full circle. What, baby? You don't want to give me a hug? Is it actually? That's his wife. Yes!
So you're not going to give me a welcome home hug, baby? You're going to have the weird Tourette's kid who's, he's always, he's got an Adderall addiction, Connie. Hold on. He's hooked on pills.
Mother time? You just know everybody's age? Fuck you, Connie! You guys are your best friends with him? What's his birthday, then?
Okay, so you know the difference between 16 and 17. Good for you. Good for you, baby. That's why he's so pretty. He's so smart. He's still in the flower pot. Yeah, exactly. I'm going to have to shuffle over and come give me a kiss. Hey, Toby, pancakes, right? He loves them. I'm fucking with you. I'm fucking with you.
He gave me a big handful of Adderall, and I took all of them. Sweet, I took all of them, and I drank those highlifes like you said I shouldn't, but I did.
Uh-oh, just doing overtime today, boys. Another day in the office.
I'll tell you, Connie, some days I wake up, I wish you were gone. Some days I wish I'd wake up and Sandman would take you away in your dreams.
Make me a sandwich. Oh, God. Hey, give me the remote. Oh, okay. Fine. Hey. Go get, uh... Go plant a flower. Oh, my God. Okay, fine.
She was too submissive to him. I like to think he's just like, yeah, go on, shoot. Hey, go check out the trash.
Give me a cosmic brownie from the pantry.
Whatever. Jesus, just fucking use better help if you have to. Fuck.
Yeah, I've just been watching the Zubuck commercial over and over again on repeat.
Do you think that she might feel that other women are boring?
That I'm fun or that I think other women are boring. Okay.
I can't remember the language you got from your book, but it is something I've heard before. Just the idea that one person is reaching out there and the other person is – like one person is extending more than the other basically.
I see what you're saying. Yeah. I guess it puts the owner, it, it takes the pressure off of me and like, it kind of makes it more even in a sense.
Yeah, I see. So much of the value that I feel like I can bring to the dating table is something that would be like for someone I've known for a long time, you know, like emotional support or like just being someone nice to hang out to. I guess it's just like opening and making that strong first impression is something that is hard for me. But I feel confident in the other stuff I mentioned.
Yeah.
No. I've wanted to since I read your book. I wanted to be like, hey, you look really pretty and I wanted to talk to you. I like that.
um i guess just talking to potential dates and then in a um in a in a live setting you know like in um at a bar or something is something that i i tend to struggle with i guess if you can help me out with that um you know whoever's listening yeah also on top of that
Um, I mean, I usually start with like saying like, Hey, I like your dress or something like that.
Oh man, I don't, I don't know. This is not, this is not my forte. That's why we're doing coaching. Exactly.
Um, that she has lovely hair.
I've grown up to feel like saying that is objectifying.
Yeah, I mean, the past couple of times I've gone to this one club near where I live, it's just like, it was decently loud. It was crowded. I'm not too used to clubs, but it was like, Like I, I would go up to a woman and I'd like, I'd like, I'd say like, Hey, is this your first time? Or so something like that. And you know, like, cause like they were at like a Thursday events, right?
Right. Would I stand out in a bad way if I did that? I don't know. If I did that to a few women in a bar, do you think they'd be like, oh, don't talk to that guy. He's just making weird advances.
I already do, but I just mean like, yeah, I just mean like, would it affect my ability to hold conversations later on in the night? I guess I don't follow your question. I don't know. Like if I, if I get like a reputation in the bar for being eight, For advancing too much, I wonder if it would throw people off.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
So it's like, Hey, is this your first time at a Thursday event? They're like, yeah. I'd be like, hi, I'm I'm blah, blah, blah. And they're like, oh, you know, and I'd say, ask the usual, like, what do you, what do you do? Who do you talk to? That, that type of thing. I'm sorry. What do you, what?
your friends that kind of thing um and uh but then after that it's kind of it's kind of a struggle to keep going and you know the questions like you know what do you do for work that that type of thing what do you do for fun they're a little they're a little boring i don't even like asking them so i feel like even then my heart's not all my heart's not all there so it can be a little boring and like i guess maybe like the momentum stops and like i feel like
I do remember this story because I think about it like, because I try not to stare as much because of that story. If I'm not going to approach them, then I just make sure I do something else. Or I approach them. Or it gives me the guts to approach them.
Yeah.
Yeah, that's true.
Yeah. I am. Yeah, I'm kind of in the middle. I try to say hi to people, but I don't... Like my friends and stuff, I try to like, it's only when like, I know someone that I try to like encourage like gatherings and stuff like that. I'll, I'll make plans.
You know, I think, I think again, it goes down to like, I'm good at, I'd be good at things down the line if I were like to date someone, but it's just like starting out is so hard.
Um, I don't keep count, but maybe like six to eight. Okay. That's great.
Yeah. Yeah. Um, yeah. Uh, I'm trying to think, uh, My friend has said that it's like, analogy-wise, it's like rolling tape, right? Because once you get that part of the tape where you can pull off, then it's a lot easier.
Yeah, yeah. I've been trying to go more often.
it's kind of something where it's like, well, well, it was good talking to you, you know?
Okay. I'll keep that in mind.
Okay.
Yeah.
I don't know. I think the most I get stuck is near the beginning when it's like... When it's like those, um, those basic questions, you know, like the one, oh, what do you do? That type of thing. I think maybe I'm too stuck in terms of like, and this is something that goes with my, um, with my social, um, just being friends with someone as well, you know, like just starting out. Okay.
I don't have a consistent way to get out of that loop of like, what do you do for work? What do you do for fun? That type of thing. Okay.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Um, that's a good question. Um, probably not. I mean, I wouldn't outside, outside of, um, let me ask you this, you know, you know, Wonder Woman, right?
Yeah, there was a woman that same night who I approached, I said like, you know, like, hey, I like your tattoos. And she was like, oh, thank you. And I said, like, hi, I'm so-and-so. And she's like, hi, I'm so-and-so back. And it was like.
It's just like a tattoo of like... Maybe like a blob. It's like a monster. It's kind of like a ghost, I guess.
Oh, thank you. I got it after I saw this band in concert. Thank you so much.
Are you there when it came out?
No, I don't.
You don't know the source of your own name? I mean, not really. It's a common name. It's not really something that I've asked.
I don't know. I liked how you ad-libbed stuff about inventing Pac-Man. I mean, our brains are wired to like stories, so the story about your name is also... There's also something good that I should keep in mind.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, I did, yeah.
Yeah, no, no, that sounds about right, yeah.
I mean, it felt spontaneous. Okay.
Um, she was wearing a dress. She had like shoulder length, blonde hair. Okay. She was a little, a little shorter than me, maybe five, five, that kind of thing.
Yeah, 60 seconds.
Yeah, for sure.
It was Eric, then it was Pac-Man, then it was the 80s, then it was... I forget how we jumped from the 80s to your name.
Right.
Yeah.
I see.
I'm here to ask people on a date. I want to ask you on a date, I guess.
Yeah, of course. It's the inner quality.
I guess we can talk about dating apps.
It's easy. Um, what's not working with dating apps. I guess just the same thing that lots of guys complain about is just like, why am I not getting matches? That type of thing. Um, well, no, I mean, actually, no, let me start with something else. Um, in your experience, I just like, I get two in my head when I'm texting someone.
And like, you know, it ties back to being like, thinking about my fears too often. But it's like, I think too much about the social faux pas of like, double texting or maybe, or maybe texting too long, or maybe especially trying to find the right words to say. I just wonder, in your experience, if I'm putting too much weight on that.
Um, I try to be funny. I try to, um, well, I guess another faux pas that I see online would be like, you know, don't text her back immediately, you know, make it seem like you're busy, but like ignore that.
Would you think that way about me? Yeah, well, when you put it like that, I mean, I can see how it doesn't really matter that much.
I agree. Yeah. Before I, um, I think between setting this up and actually talking to you, I think I like looked over my profile. I think I just don't have enough photos of me doing like, just like Creating that value, I guess. I don't have photos of me that are traveling or participating in my hobbies and things like that.
I get self-conscious about smiling in photos, so it's kind of a difficult thing for me. I'm just trying to build it up slowly.
Probably not. Definitely not. At that stage, no. I mean, it's just not.
Um, it's just, um, It's a photo of myself in the snow. I went to the Midwest last month. It's just a photo of myself smiling. There's snow. It's actively snowing. I guess it's just the idea that whoever sees this is in California, so I guess it's just the idea that I like traveling.
I see.
It probably wouldn't matter.
Okay.
Probably not. I mean, it would put us on even ground, I guess. I mean, where I would go, I'd be like, oh, yeah. I mean, because it was my second time. I'd be like, oh, yeah, it's a nice place. I'd tell her about the event, which isn't much value either, I guess.
Oh man, those are the three. Okay, let's do a bonus one. Anything. I'm on the spot here, honestly. Are there pieces of advice that you haven't touched upon that you would give to someone like me?
There was one little nitpick about talking to someone in a bar. Because when you're on a dating app, you choose the ages of the people you want to meet. Is it fine to ask how old the other person is?
Okay.
I see what you're saying, yeah.
Okay. Yeah, I am afraid. I hate just knowing that that's my go-to. Like, oh, what do you do for work? I really want to break out of that.
I just like thinking about, you know, just the intricacies of like how bodies are made up, not just human bodies, but like, you know, just like just how complex organisms are. It's really interesting to me.
Any thoughts there? I'm into humor. I like humor. I've made women laugh on dates before. Cool.
i guess it's just kind of hard on the spot when i don't really know anyone a lot of my humor is maybe like we talk about a show or something i'm like like you know with my friends a lot of my humor is just like references to shows and stuff like that or like details about people that i already know so it's a little hard when it's like impromptu or like i'm just meeting someone
Oh, no. I think most of my humor is incidental. My friend will say something, and I'll say a pun, and they'll sigh really heavily and be like, why are you my friend?
Why does a cow have hooves? Because they're lactose.
Uh, yeah, I do. Okay. I mean, I've only been to karaoke once, but I like singing. Okay.
Yeah, yeah.
I've had a few stirring. Any other good ones besides singing or telling jokes? Like openers? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or just types of openers, the ones that bring value.
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I read a couple of things.
Hi, Mel. My name is Eric. How do I create habits that will stick? So once I keep going, I'll stay with it. I want to make it easier.
Yeah, the Grail test.
Yeah.
Well, the problem is it's being marketed for people age 50 and older. That's wrong because most people age 50 are not at risk for cancer. And so they're going to get a test that is either a false positive or false negative. So it has little value unless you know you're at increased risk. And so another one that's being used totally improperly is a total body MRI scan.
No, no.
You don't want to do that because what happens with these, it's never been validated that it helps people to get accurate diagnosis of cancer. Again, it might be okay if you're at significant increased risk. What I would say is if you had a genetic protein and other family history and multiple dimensions of your data,
The problem with the blood test that your husband ordered is that maybe four or five per thousand will have an abnormal reading of a microscopic cancer. And out of those, half of the five per thousand will have already advanced cancer. The problem with the MRI is false positives. If you did the MRI after you had an abnormal blood test- Yeah. That might be okay, sure.
But you don't go ahead and have a total body MRI just because you're going on a fishing expedition because you could wind up having all sorts of biopsies.
So there's a thing called a polygenic risk score for each type of cancer. Breast, colon, prostate, lung. And these are very inexpensive. You know, you could get these for about $50 or so.
Polygenic risk score. Yeah. Okay. They basically will tell you your risk for a particular cancer. And there's about 10 different companies that offer these now. And they can even be done through saliva. You don't even have to have a blood test. So that's a good way to know about your risk in your lifetime. But again, you don't want to just rely on one layer of data.
You'd like to have other layers of data backing that up. And so that's where you can learn even more. And as you mentioned, like if your family history, maybe you have a trend going on and some routine blood tests going in the wrong direction. This is where when we have AI analyze all your data and point to say, you know what, this is your risk in your life.
This is the one for you to be on guard about. But right now we have some rudimentary data to help us understand who's at risk and what for. And so if somebody offered me an MRI, total body, for free, I wouldn't have it because it's a recipe for trouble. It's a recipe for finding things that you wouldn't want to find because then you have to chase them down.
And you could have complications, as I've had patients who then they had a liver biopsy and they bled many units. They had all sorts of things. And it was benign, of course. Unfortunately, we have celebrities everywhere. and doctors who are advocating these total body MRIs, and there's nothing, there's no proof.
They say they're going to do a trial, but they haven't done it, and we're not going to know for years. And until then, it's just anecdotes.
Yeah, you know, it's interesting. Here we are in Boston and the Mass General Brigham is supplying the polygenic risk score to their patients. They're the first health system to do that. And so they're getting a readout for their risk of the various types of cancer and heart disease.
And of course, soon it'll also be Alzheimer's disease too, that they will get that composite risk as part of their care, not like they get charged extra. All the health systems should be doing that. And again, they should be adding these other layers of data so that you know about yourself what to be on guard about and also to take action.
And this is a really critical point is that generally people might not be motivated to do all these positive things, but when they find out they have this specific risk, the chances of them going after it is so much greater. We've learned that from studies as well.
Absolutely. And just to mention, there was a big Finnish study where they took people and they gave them their polygenic risks for heart disease. And the people who got a high risk, they changed their lives. I mean, they did everything we're talking about today. So it wasn't that they were going to do it when they're healthy.
Only when they got something to tangible evidence for them, for those individuals, that's when action was taken.
The problem, Mel, is the things that they're not doing.
And so what we're talking about is poor diet with too much ultra-processed foods, for example, not nearly enough exercise, and that's both aerobic as well as resistance-type exercise. And then, of course, getting enough sleep, particularly deep sleep. Sleep is so much bigger than we had thought years ago, and having sleep health, particularly promoting deep sleep, is really important.
as we'll get to for brain health, that brain clock. So these are factors that not enough are paying attention to that we can do a lot today. And they're just the beginning of what I call this lifestyle plus, because there's so many dimensions. It's not just the three that we've been hearing about for so long.
So plus means, first of all, the devil in the details about nutrition and exercise and sleep. And then beyond that, things like social isolation. Okay. The environmental factors like air pollution, microplastics, forever chemicals, being out in nature, outdoors. So these factors are not just... you know, what we're eating and our exercise, those are paramount.
All these things have been associated with healthy aging. And so the woman in the book who's featured, Mrs. LR, here she is, she's 98, and she's the picture of health, cognitively crisp. She's doing her jigsaw puzzles and oil paintings. You know, she's amazing. And she is vibrant with her social group. Her kids... have died already and her parents died in their 50s. So it isn't the genes.
And that's one of the things that I think a lot of people feel they're doomed because they have bad genes. But it isn't. It's so much of this is our lifestyle that can override or independent of any genes that we have, be associated with a healthy aging process.
Exactly.
There is nothing that's been proven in people to promote the slowing or reversing of aging, whether they're pills or compounds or infusions, transfusions. None of that is proven to have an anti-aging effect in human beings. There's a lot of that that's been looked really good in mice or rats. but not in people. So we'll start with rapamycin. A lot of people are taking this drug.
It suppresses our immune system. That could be very risky to do that. And unfortunately, too many people are advocating that. There's nicotinamide, NAD+, a supplement. There are no data to show that it improves healthy aging in people. There's this epigenetic reprogramming, very elegant. It could cause cancer. It isn't in people yet, but it's certainly a risk.
There's senolytic drugs that take out our senescent cells. They're indiscriminate. They could take out bad cells out of our body, these drugs that do that. There's plasmapheresis taking young people's plasma and infusing it into old people's plasma to promote healthy aging and better cognition. There are clinics doing that. There's no data to support it.
There's all kinds of infusions of kind of multivitamins, and there's just no data to support any of it. And it's really unfortunate because people that believe this stuff are the prey. Not only are they expensive, but they are posing significant risks. It could be cancer. It could be immunosuppression. These are not things you want to play around with.
Well, so one of the most elegant approaches, which caught a lot of interest in the biomedical community, was the idea of giving genes to an old animal, in this case a mouse, and now extend it to other species. And these are known as Yamanaka factors because they have the ability to reprogram the organism, the cells of an organism.
Close.
These genes don't come from a younger animal. They just are known to turn the clock backwards.
And so the whole idea was, okay, we're going to inject these four into the animal and and we're going to take an older animal and it's going to affect all their cells and they're going to get young. And it happened. Say, wow, this is amazing, right?
it's actually pretty deep. So it wasn't just that their gray hair went away, but also the fact that at the organ level, they had, for example, their glucose regulation turned back to normal. Many of their organs show young look rather than having all the things that you would associate with a very old organism. So it looks great.
You say, wow, couldn't we just all take these Yamanaka factors and we would just get young? The problem is that when they were doing this, and this is now in multiple species, tumors would develop. And that's because when you turn back these cells into younger cells, you also are potentiating the risk of cancer.
And this, Mel, is the problem with many of these anti-aging body-wide interventions, is they introduce new risk particularly cancer, because there's a very close overlap between the hallmarks of aging and the hallmarks of cancer.
Yeah, so in the case that we're just talking about, the fancy term for it is partial epigenetic reprogramming. It sounds pretty big, right?
Yeah, yeah. But the whole idea is that when you make cells younger, a group of these cells to just take off, develop a clone of cancer, and then just spread. So the problem is that when you're trying to re-rig the body's aging process, you introduce new problems.
Exactly right.
Yeah, so I think where we're headed is that each of us will have, without added costs or very nominal costs, we will have all our data. It's assembled. It's analyzed by what we call multimodal AI, generative AI, and it'll tell us, This is your risk. This is what you need to be on the lookout for. And you're going to do these things.
And also, we may be treating you, like, for example, with an anti-inflammatory drug or, you know, we can talk in some of the specifics. But we've had breakthroughs, Mel. Like, for example, Alzheimer's. There's a blood test now called P-Tau-217. It's as good as having a PET scan of for telling us, are we going to have a risk for Alzheimer's?
So if you get that test, again, if you have Alzheimer's in your family, it's not good enough to know, oh, I'm at risk for Alzheimer's, but I may only crop up when I'm 95. That's not really important. What we're going to have with multimodal AI is going to say you're at risk for Alzheimer's.
And if you don't do anything about it at age 66 is when you're going to see, you know, mild cognitive impairment. So you can actually pinpoint the person and the time.
You got it. I mean, this is why we have the benefits of that long time to work with before the person gets the condition. And we have the layers of data which we didn't have before or the ability to analyze that. And then the surveillance tools, whether it's scans or whether it's... Further blood tests, clocks. Like, you know what?
If I have an organ clock that says that my heart is accelerated aging and then I do these things and I prove, oh, wow, I changed it. It's now going in the other direction. Wow. And it reinforces that you're on the right track. So this is where we're headed now. The science of aging has given us these metrics, whether it's this body-wide aging, epigenetic clock, organ aging.
This is the most amazing thing. All these years of practicing medicine, we keep talking about prevention. And we have nothing that we're preventing. It's secondary prevention. Oh, you had a heart attack? Now we're going to put you on this and that. We are talking now about primary prevention. That's the new thing here, that we can prevent a disease that was going to occur before it happens.
And that's the real deal, prevention.
Yeah, no, it's amazing. So the global burden of disease comes out of University of Washington. They've studied this globally.
And what we've learned is that overnutrition, which is really bad, having- That's a nice way to say what?
Obese or significantly overweight. Okay. undernutrition or malnutrition, and then poor nutrition, which is, as we talked about, the unprocessed foods, for example, those three categories collectively account for, they have shown in their work, one in five deaths. Yes, nutrition is fundamental.
Yeah, I'm glad you brought that out because this is a serious matter. We have the big food industry that markets this. Basically, because of the gut-brain axis, you eat these ultra-processed foods and you want to eat more. We've seen very careful studies that it promotes overeating. So that's bad enough in itself. But what it also does, it promotes inflammation in the body.
And so when you have that, that's when you have your glucose dysregulation and you can move on to type 2 diabetes. It also then increases the risk of atherosclerosis, heart disease.
Yeah, you're basically accumulating cholesterol plaque in your arteries, which you can get heart attacks or strokes. And it also, of course, has effects at the level of the brain, promoting inflammation the less than we want there. And the risk of cancer. And so all the data on ultra-processed foods, which it's not just that you can't read because of all these ingredients.
It's just that when you do read them, you don't recognize them because they're all foreign things that would never be found in your kitchen. Everything about these suggests that they're inducing a lot of harm. They're promoting aging. And one of the stories in the book I reviewed is there's a fellow named scientist physician in the UK, Chris Van Telleken.
And he wrote a book called Ultra Process People. And so he actually, remember that supersize me thing that I did? I went to McDonald's every day for.
Yeah. So this is what Chris did for 30 days. And he gained like 10 kilos, but he did brain scans before and after 30 days. And he did all these other inflammatory markers. And he showed that everything went off the track. I mean, in just 30 days of high ultra-processed foods. So all of us, we can't eradicate ultra-processed food, but we can bring it down.
It shouldn't be as it is now, 60% or even 70% of our diet.
No question. I couldn't agree with you more.
We want to cut down on refined sugar, particularly things like sugar-sweetened beverages. They also promote inflammation. If you see high fructose, you know, run away. We just don't want this. We don't want to be taking this stuff in. Okay. What about salt?
Yeah, salt is something that, you know, we have a very easy solution, which is a salt substitute, which is using potassium instead of sodium chloride. So we should not be, you know, adding salt ideally to what we're eating. Wait, why?
If you're at risk for high blood pressure, which most of us are as we get older, that's not going to help you. If you use potassium chloride,
Yeah, no, potassium chloride, the salt substitute, and that's all, there's nothing else in it.
It's perfectly healthy and it avoids the problem of the sodium intake and it's a lot healthier for you.
You're spot on with that summary.
And so, again, you've pointed out that in the ultra-processed food category, salt is often a common culprit that is part of that reward circuit. You know, it's part of, oh, have more, a lot of fat and salt and chemicals and emulsifiers, yeah. Right.
We don't have a free pass on those, unfortunately. As I reviewed, you know, there's uncertainties about them. Okay. So if you can avoid the sugar substitutes, that's probably better. But unfortunately, they're not as healthy as we had been led to believe. Right.
Well, here's some good news for coffee lovers.
This is the one that is the rare exception where, you know, we love it and it actually is healthy. I mean, this is actually kind of shocking. So, you know, I reviewed all the studies and there are a lot of them.
And what is striking about this, it shouldn't be that, you know, you should change your life to drink more coffee, but you shouldn't at all worry if you're having two, three, even up to four cups of coffee a day.
Yeah, it's actually pretty remarkable. It's associated with significantly less of chronic diseases, less inflammation. Everything about it points to something positive.
Yeah, this couldn't be more clear. When you really review, take a hard look at every study that is cited, and they're marginal, about this supplement or that or this vitamin. There's just nothing there. These are small studies with lack of meaningful endpoints. Again, it's really important to look at this hard evidence and it's void. There's just nothing to support these.
And unfortunately, so many people are spending so much money and taking so many different supplements and there's no proof. As I reviewed this, some have potential adverse effects unknowingly. So you just want to avoid these. And, you know, I've had many patients that come in with this long list of supplements. In fact, some of them are afraid to show the list of things they're taking.
And I said, well, you know, really, the only thing they're enriching is your urine, you know. And they say, well, I really feel like they're making me feel better. I can't argue with that. You know, if they feel like they're okay, but they should know. I try to inform them that there's just nothing to support why they're feeling better.
It's just like the placebo, you know, the pill that there's nothing in it. It's inert. If they feel like you're helping them, okay. But just so you know, the science doesn't support it.
So as we get older, we lose muscle mass. And the recommendations from the government, the US and abroad, are 0.8 grams per kilogram.
Yeah. So how much protein you should have in your diet. And so let's say for a 70 kilogram person, you know, we multiply that by 2.2 to get to pounds.
You should be taking 70 grams of protein. And now the point is, if you start to look at how much protein, especially as you get older, you'll say, hmm, I'm not getting 70. And by the way, as you get older, maybe you should take one per kilogram or 1.2 grams per kilogram.
You need more protein.
Because you have to counter that propensity for muscle mass loss. You don't want to waste just because of your diet. So you're talking about for the average person, you know, 70, 80, 90 grams of protein, not 150 or 160.
That's so funny. Yes. This Harrison Ford thing keeps coming up. It's so funny. Yeah. Wild.
Yeah, this is actually amazing. And it's so much more profound than we had generally accepted. We've been hearing about it for years, but now talking about those clocks of aging and what we've learned from the science of aging, there's a thing called an epigenetic clock, which is these methyl groups on our DNA, the side chains, and they can predict your biological age.
So not your chronological age, But instead of, let's say, you're 70 and your epigenetic age is 60, like, wow, you hit the jackpot. Turns out that exercise is the only thing we know that lowers our biological age. So the gap between your real age and your biological age is widened. Now, it's not just aerobic exercise.
So as a cardiologist, I've been saying you got to get on walks or treadmill, bicycle, elliptical, whatever. 30 minutes a day, five days a week. I've been pushing that. And then I didn't realize the data that's so striking regarding resistance training. So you need that just as much a couple of few times a week. And that data is now become very solid. And it isn't just about getting stronger.
It's having better balance. It's essential. There's nothing that we can talk about that exceeds exercise for decreasing resistance. our aging process, our body-wide aging process. And again, we wouldn't have known about this if it hadn't been all the science of aging.
As long as you are getting at least 30 minutes of constant motion, getting your heart rate up, taking your body out on the highway, if you will, at least 30 minutes, five times a week, ideally every day, if you can do that. But if you're getting five days a week, Typically, when I talk to my patients, I'll say, all right, when are we going to do this? What time of day works for you?
You know, you're not a morning person. You're not going to also, how are we going to do this? Are you going to go to the gym? Do you have some equipment at home or can you go outside and walk or whatever? To fit that in, figure that out, not just the aerobic side, but then, you know, things like bands to increase resistance. They're very inexpensive things.
And they can be so much of a plus for promoting muscle strength. And things like, you know, standing on one leg for a minute, alternating your course on each foot. I mean, these are free, you know, but work on strength, work on balance, posture. And of course, this aerobic exercise is also critical. So get that as part of your life. And you'll notice quickly as you do this for weeks that, wow,
I am more fit than I've been in a long time. I have better posture. I have better balance.
And so we just can't do enough of this. And, of course, the byproduct of this is we get that lesser biologic age, which is going to be helpful across the board for the major age-related diseases.
That's right.
And it decreases inflammation. That's another bonus factor. Oh, yeah.
Yeah, this was astounding. This report kind of rocked me because, you know, the number of people who are taking antidepressant drugs, these SSRIs, it's huge. And so they compared that in a large cohort with all these different activities from dancing, yoga, rowing, walking, anything. Exercise just was so much better of improving mental health than were the medications. Who would have guessed that?
Because all these years we've been relying on so many people to take them. That's why we had this Prozac Nation and everything else. So This was a real awakening. And I think the study is quite impressive. It should reset our need for, at least in some people, for SSRIs if they're not exercising enough and substituting exercise.
Or if they haven't been put on one of these drugs, try the route of exercise. You'll never be disappointed. And I think that's really what we're not doing enough of. If there's one thing we should be paying more attention to, this is it.
Oh, thanks so much, Mel. It's great to be with you.
Yeah, so this is something that, again, a lot of physicians don't buy into this, but the data is really strong. The relationship of stress and bad health outcomes like cancer, like heart disease, heart attacks, and even the neurodegenerative diseases. So what we want to do is have adaptive stress. Like, for example, if stress makes you exercise more, that's really good.
But also, you know, we've learned things. that again, I wasn't aware of all the data, being out in nature is remarkable. Music, things that we can do more of that are good for our mental health. There's this interaction between our physical and mental health, which is deep, much more intertwined than we have accepted. And so if we're gonna have a positive outlook
It's taking advantage of these things that we've learned from. And so, you know, being outdoors, you can't spend enough time doing that. And it is really good for mental health. These are things that add in that whole category of lifestyle factors. But social isolation is critical. So people that are lonely and hermits that just are living in a cave.
That's having an ill effect on mental health and physical health. So it's really important that, you know, get together with friends, make friends, find ways to have social interactions because they're rich and they help reduce the toll of a burden of anxiety and depression.
Yes, well, I'm glad you pointed to that graph because it's also very striking. The more rich interactions we have with other people, the essentiality of being human, the more we see evidence that it is associated with healthy aging, health outcomes that are favorable. And unfortunately, we're going in the wrong direction. But there's something magical about the human-human bond.
And in this world of AI, which in some of the aspects of the book, You know, we were going to rely on AI to do analytics for us to know if we're at higher risk.
But here, this is something AI will never replace, which is the human bond, whether it's a patient and doctor, but more importantly, in your own life, seeking out and fostering social interactions because they inevitably will be associated with better health outcomes. And so rather than turning inward, we need to turn outward.
Yeah, this is a really big issue that you're bringing up because the stress, when it's chronic and when it's accentuated, you see more body inflammation. And so what you're getting is your immune system is losing some of its integrity. It's aging faster.
And if there's one system that is kind of governing our whole aging, it's our immune system, which, of course, as you know, that interacts with inflammation. When your immune system gets off track, these cells... start to release these proteins that rev up inflammation. So stress and our immune system and inflammation is a very tight interdependence.
Well, there's a lot of things that we can do about our lifestyle that are more than just the diet, sleep, exercise stuff that people have been hearing about for decades. But also the three major diseases, cancer, cardiovascular, and neurodegenerative, like dementia, Alzheimer's, those three diseases take more than 20 years to take hold. So if we plan enough in advance...
And so what we want to do is have adaptive responses to stress. So we don't have this chronic inflammation. Once you get chronic inflammation, you get accelerated aging. And so here again, the science of aging is teaching us about these processes.
It's not teaching us about this magical pill, but it's teaching us about how do we connect the dots between what's going on in our stress in our daily lives and what's going on in our body.
It still comes down to a person's lifestyle. And typically a caregiver is so much absorbed by caring that they don't care for themselves. And so being able to say, look, we got to map this out. How are we going to get you to view your body as a temple? Otherwise, you're going to need a caregiver, right?
And this is where you have to get into the details with the person. Like, what time of day are you not providing care for this elder person? You have to come up with a practical pathway.
If you really do a dedication to lifestyle plus factors, you're going to get years more of healthy aging. And you can ignore all the false anti-aging supplements and drugs and interventions that exist today because they have no data. They're fact-free, if you will. So this is the thing is that it's right here now. We have more solid evidence for the lifestyle story than we've ever had before.
And as we have been reviewing, it's not just the big three of diet, exercise, and sleep. It's a lot of details within each of them. And then several other layers of the lifestyle story that we need to be paying attention to.
we are in a time of medicine that I've been dreaming about. As a practicing cardiologist now heading into a fourth decade, I've been thinking, why am I seeing these people after they've had a heart attack or after they've already had a stent? And to think that we are going to be able to prevent this better than we've ever had before. And along with that, the other two major diseases.
So for me, the idea that we have capabilities we've never had before is enthralling. And I think that whereas a lot of things are sobering these days in the world, if you pay attention to what's going on in life science and medicine, it's never been more exciting as it is right now.
we can prevent those diseases from ever occurring, and particularly those people who are at high risk. So it's an exciting opportunity that we're only realizing now that we have ways to prevent age-related diseases.
You. Oh, thank you.
Oh, you're really kind. I so much appreciate it, Mel.
I'm good.
You're dynamite. It's fun.
No, no, no. You made it easy.
Ultimately, if you do all the things that we're talking about that's been study after study, this extends healthy aging by seven to 10 years. Wow. People keep talking about longevity. What we want to do is improve our health span. That is our years of healthy living. And so we can do that now if only we pay attention to the hard evidence that exists today. We don't need a magic pill or potion.
We can just work with what we have right now. And that, you know, to have seven to 10 years more of healthy life
It's never too late. So it's also never too early. I mean, if you start doing this when you're in your 20s and you do it your whole life, you get even more years. But you could start this at age 70, 80, and you still will benefit. So the whole point here is that all of us
if we had the real extraordinary attention to these lifestyle factors, which are much more diverse and extensive than we have previously accepted, because they involve our environment, they involve being in nature, they involve many other things, that if we really tuned into all this, no matter what age, all the data supports promotion of healthy aging.
Exactly. So these diseases are related to particular organs in the body. And only now do we have these things called organ clocks, where these proteins in our body can tell us that a particular organ in a particular person is aging faster than it should. So not only can we tell people they are particularly high risk, but which is the organ, which is the condition that is off kilter, out of whack.
And that's when that prevention can really kick in to be targeted against that condition or organ that's affected. So we have, from the tools of science of aging, we have new metrics now that we never had before that's going to help us to make a huge dent in preventing age-related diseases in the future.
Now that we realize there's just the big three, you know, cancer, cardiovascular, neurodegenerative, which is mainly Alzheimer's and Parkinson's. The exciting future... which is beginning now, is that we can say you are at risk for this particular of the three and using the things that we know prevent that condition.
That's what's so extraordinary right now is that we're at a cusp of being able to say this individualized or a lot of people call precision medicine, that we're going to be able to say, the only thing that you're at risk for is this disease. And we're going to get all over it. So you'll never really have to worry about getting it.
Or if you do get it, it will be 10 or 15 years beyond when you would have had it otherwise.
Am I stating that out really? Again, you really have this right because what you're talking about is today, people 65 and older are just riddled with chronic diseases. If those same people had started at age 50 with what we're talking about today, they would unlikely to have those chronic diseases. Or they might've had it when they're 75 or 80 rather than when they're 60.
So the data supporting adopting lifestyle factors with these diseases, this is what I think most people don't understand. You've got 20 years to develop one of these diseases. Cancer doesn't just strike and all of a sudden. You don't have a heart attack or a stroke all of a sudden. You have 20 plus years while this is working in your body, developing, incubating, if you will.
And so if you started to do these things, Earlier in life, and again, as we reviewed earlier today, it's never too late, but these diseases could be avoided. The problem is most people who are 65 and have these chronic diseases have not followed these lifestyle plus factors, not taken advantage of what we know today.
diseases that young people get. We're not talking about that. We're talking about the ones that are clearly, there's certain types of cancer, most of them, in fact, and obviously the neurodegenerative and cardiovascular. These are the principal age-related diseases.
And that's what I think a lot of people don't understand is aging increases the risk, but we have ways to change that whole pace, that clock, if you will. And that's what is exciting now.
Yeah, this is an area that's so ripe to reboot, which is how we address cancer. So for example, the way we do cancer screening is unbelievable. It's by an age. So if you're age 50, you're supposed to have mammograms or 40 even now, or you have colonoscopies. And these screening procedures do very little to diagnose cancer. Most cancers are not diagnosed through screening.
And by the way, for breast cancer, for women... 88, almost 89% will never have breast cancer in their lives. So why are we putting women through frequent mammograms and other related procedures on a basis where they're never going to have the risk of breast cancer?
Why don't we screen people, which we can, for their genetic risk so that we can say, you know what, you might have a mammogram every 10 years. You might never need one or you should have a frequent one. And maybe not only with the mammogram, but perhaps other imaging modalities. So we don't particularize the person's risk and we treat everybody like we're all the same. So that's one issue.
The key is finding out who is at increased risk and then putting those people under surveillance. So we have this really great test now we never had before, which is called multi-cancer early detection. And so from a blood test, we could say there's a microscopic cancer. The problem is we're using it completely wrong now.
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Cool. What do you all do for a living?
And then I'm a math teacher in middle school.
$165,000.
Pretty much everything. We had a truck loan and we ended up paying off our house too. Oh, it's your house and everything.
I just accidentally fell into that.
oh about 150 probably okay awesome very good so all right uh 165 and you paid off cars and house and what else credit cards pretty much everything yeah we were we were normal basically you had everything yeah everything you signed up for it all and you got rid of all of it yeah before we got married um i had a bunch of debt kelsey didn't have any and i brought all that to the table and thankfully she had well okay she didn't know about all that stuff but we ended up um working together to pay it off so how long y'all been married
just uh seven years last week our anniversary was just this past week so all right and so seven years a couple years you limp along and then you go okay boom we're getting on this yeah covid came around and i was coaching and teaching and i ended up delivering pizzas because i didn't think coaching was going to be a thing for a little while and at that point we're like we gotta we gotta do something about this and we had listened to some of the show we just never got really serious about it and
Absolutely. And so we decided, we're like, we got to take care of this. And we ended up, we were thinking it was going to be another couple years with the house, and Kelsey's grandmother left us an inheritance. So we ended up finishing off a little bit sooner than what we had planned, but it wasn't too much longer.
It was just a lot of not very smart decisions going along. But I think, like you guys talk about a lot, it's just being normal and doing what people think is right.
Having all the trucks and the cars and the fancy things. And we finally decided, we're like... We'll live like nobody else so we can live and give like nobody else later on.
Well, I got to teach a course last year, and I was like, I can actually teach to this now because I'm following the process. It's like kids are always like, when am I ever going to use this in my life? Well, I was like, well, you can't. Negative numbers are a real thing. And the bigger those negatives get, the harder it is to come back the other direction.
So I'm obviously the nerd in our household. So Kelsey's more of this free spirit.
I think the biggest thing is just being on the same page.
We got the EveryDollar budget app probably three years ago, and it really accelerated that process for us.
And arguments that sometimes come with those surprises.
and working together staying together yeah all right very good so now you're 30 years old 36 years old you don't have a single payment yeah of any kind anywhere how does that feel well we've already been able to add a line item to our budget that just says giving and giving three or four hundred dollars every month to people that like that need stuff like we can help out not have to worry about doing those and also being able to spend i know the people before us were talking about shopping we get to
We're talking about maybe going to the Opry on Wednesday night and listening to all the big-name country music artists.
It's a really good show, by the way. Being able to do stuff like that is just that freedom that you guys talk about.
Her name's Mackenzie.
You're saying that because you're such a hard worker. That's why they're saying that?
Yeah, you're only 56 years old. You've got a lot of working years ahead of you. And I also want to know about this farm. Are you set to inherit this farm? I know you said the other kids are estranged. Tell me what the deal is with that. Well, we got 40 seconds. Yeah, tell me in 10 seconds.
OK, great. So here's what I want. Like ideal in an ideal world. I hope your mom does live till she's 102. But I really want you to get yourself out of this survival state and into a more like homeostasis state.
uh state of being with your life because when the come time time comes that you inherit this money i don't want you to be in this mode of like survival because then that money is going to go like that you're going to sell that farm and it's not going to be the blessing you want it to be so spend these next 10 years getting yourself in order like ken coleman just told you and i think that that money and that farm will end up being a great blessing to you
Well, wait a minute. Hold the phone. How much do you actually bring in in actual money every month?
Yeah, how much margin did you have in your budget? When you're paying off debt, how much is extra going towards the debt?
Yeah, but how did you get ahead on the other debts that you paid off?
Well, what's a good month and what's a bad month?
Or even the car detail. I feel like you've got a couple of skills and a couple of businesses that are just sitting in your pocket. You said that you detail cars. You said that you did the FPU, or I'm sorry, the coaching. I'm like, put this stuff to use. You got to go out and make it talk.
So tell me, what's the purpose of the credit cards in all this? Because for me, that just creates, there's already the unknown with the fluctuating income and then adding the credit cards with no real...
All right. Today's question comes from Randy in Delaware. He says, I've been seeing a lady for over a year and she has borrowed over $1,700 from me that she has not paid back. Randy! I am serious about this lady, but it bothers me that she has not fulfilled her promise to pay back my $1,700 after nine months. How do I approach her about this concern? Randy. Listen. Oh, man. Randy.
feeling like no real boundaries around it feels like it's just adding more chaos to the equation so why do you and your wife and let me also add you make a fine income so what's the purpose of the credit cards and your what is it serving it's a really good question I've considered getting rid of them
Sometimes I read these questions ahead of time and sometimes I don't because I just want to feel the impact in the moment. What are you feeling right now? I'm feeling impacted. Yeah, how? Well, it's two parts to this, Randy. There's two parts to this. A. You lent her the money. And whenever you loan money, there's always a risk, right? There's a risk that the person's not gonna repay it.
That's the biggest risk. And then the secondary risk is that because they don't repay it, or even if they do, it will affect the relationship in some adverse way, right? Those are the two biggies of why we say don't loan money. And you hit the nail on the head on both of them. Number one, she's kind of being a scrub and not paying the money back.
And how are you supposed to feel good about this relationship? Because now it has the ability to create like a little bit of bitterness. You take her out on it. Randy takes let's call her, you know, Sheila. Randy takes Sheila out on a date. Let's call her Sally. Randy takes Sally out on a date. He's not going to feel good about picking up her steak dinner.
Sally.
Sally Ride.
I don't know. Sally could be a Rolling Stone. Sally could be a Rolling Stone that's like, hey, I'm just here for a little while.
Okay. Get in trouble.
If I was like if I was dating Sam, that means I'm like I've got respect. And not that I would ever do this, but if I had borrowed money, I feel like it's a great opportunity for me to show what type of person I am.
I'll tell you, it's hard for me to put myself in that position because I can't even imagine being in that position.
But then why would they even like... That's why he should have never lent her the money. But why would they even come up with those terms if they were on that level? At that point, it's just like... Well, he's clearly saying she was supposed to pay it off within a term because it's past nine months.
And now she's never going to pay it back. Ken, you don't go 2015 Rihanna talking about pay me what you owe me. Don't act like you forgot to the woman you love and want to marry. You don't do that.
You don't borrow money.
I think I'm just going out here on a limb.
Okay. I'm the exact opposite. I think she's a rolling stone. I think that he's vulnerable because he's gone through a lot and found a nice looking lady. And she might have taken a little bit of advantage, but she has no aim to stick around.
He's never getting the money back.
Wow, you guys are really giving this lady a lot of credit. I'm giving her zero credit.
No, she's not. I agree. She's never paying it back. But I also don't think they're getting married. Raise your hand if you think they're going to actually end up getting married.
Is it a credit building thing for you or is it a we can just spend on here and not really have to think about it until it's time to kind of tally it up sort of thing? If you had to point to one reason, what do you think it is, even if it's not you, your wife's reasoning behind it?
There you go. So...
Yeah, he does.
Yeah. Well, she's shown a piece of I feel like she's if what you're saying is true. I feel like she's shown a piece of herself because there's a little integrity there because they're not married yet. He hasn't even proposed yet. Be one thing if it was his fiance. He hasn't even proposed.
If you borrow money, you should pay it back, whether it be to a credit card company, your grandma, you know, whoever it is. If you borrow money, pay it.
I would agree with that. I am a, like, I have a hard line on that. I think that if you would like to give someone money and you have the money to give, you should give it. In his case, it doesn't even sound like he didn't, he clearly did not have the money to give. That's why he made it a loan.
And I think that's when you get into hot water is if you don't have it to give, sometimes you can't give it. And that's just hard when people you love are asking.
I'll tell you what Sam Warshaw did do. What did he do? This is terrible. This is a bad... Oh, this is great. Don't do this. This is... Okay, my car, I was driving a Jeep Liberty and... The AC and the heat on it was bad. And so when winter came, my heat wasn't working. And he got in my car and was like, you've been driving around like this? And I'm like, yeah. He's like, I'm going to get you a car.
And I thought he was being a hero. He co-signed a car for me.
No, we weren't even married. We weren't even married.
Yeah. He co-signed a car for me. We were just about to get engaged.
Yeah. This is all part of you seeing the light, paying off half a million. That's why I'm saying you might be right that he was smitten because I think that a guy like love goggles will make you do anything. That's what Sam did with you. Yeah. But it's a good thing I married.
Exactly. Knight in shining armor.
Okay. I'm sorry you're going through what you're going through. It sounds like unbearably tough. Five kids. Is there a reason that yours wasn't included? Can you give me just some more insight as to how you guys are thinking through this? Because that was my first question. Why just his and not yours? Not that it was a good choice. I'm just wondering.
Okay. Okay, so there's the marriage side of it where there was a lack of trust and trust was broken there. So right now, you're still keeping the money separate. It's hard for me to talk about this one thing and not talk about your marriage, Lisa. So what's the deal with the marriage? Do you forgive him? Have you guys fixed this? Are you going to counseling? Are you leaving him? Tell me what's up.
Yeah.
So you've done the right thing in keeping the money separate because of the gambling. I think that was the right move. So let's think about... knowing what we know, which is like you said, he's on, this is the last chance. And if this doesn't work out, you're going to, you know, peace out. So let's first talk about this 13,000, right?
Because the money is separate as of now because of the gambling. What are, what are you earning? And let's talk about what it would mean to pay that money off.
I don't have any savings. And do you have margin out of that $4,700? No. After all your bills are paid?
He makes bring home about $500 a week. Okay, so he only makes $2,000 a month? Right. Wow. Okay, so there's the issue. Is he working 40 hours a week?
Okay, $25,000. So what I think, and you guys have to sit about this, but I kind of think, Lisa, you're in charge of the money from now on. Not just your money, but all of the money. Because if he even takes the $2,000, he's a recovering addict, right? So it's not wise for him to have even the money that he's earning in his possession to make decisions with. That's what I would say.
So going from there, I think, I mean, that's a decision you guys have to make tonight. Is that something that's possible?
Now I have, I feel like I'm coming in with a wrecking ball and I apologize, but I really am saying this because I want you to find some peace in the time that you have. A big issue guys right now. So there's the gambling, right? And there's the issues going on between you guys relationally. But financially, the biggest issue, like the biggest elephant in the room is your mortgage.
It's half of your income. It's half of your combined income.
Yeah.
One year.
so yeah that honestly i'm just being i'm being your your best friend right here just telling you the truth that is not gonna change like the the weight that you're feeling from this is not going to change because that's your mortgage and unless you can find a giant chunk to put on this thing and you know try to recast it so that the payment works this it's it's not going to work for you because
you won't have margin to pay off the debt, whether it's the $13,000 or the $30,000. And so there's two major pieces of this financial equation. One, the house. I think you need to consider selling it and downsizing into something that you can afford. And then this other piece is, what's your husband's name? You can make up a name if you want.
Jonathan has got to earn more money. He's got to double his income at the very least this year because he's like barely bringing anything in. And so those are financially speaking, those are the two big dogs that you need to contend with. Secondarily, yeah, both of you need to be in counseling. Obviously, he needs to be in counseling and therapy for the gambling addiction.
But you do too, Lisa, because this is really affecting you. Plus, you've got this end stage renal failure that is definitely taking a toll on the decision.
Can you go down there to the place where you bought it and have this conversation in person? No.
Well, here's the problem.
That's okay. How many times have you gone back and forth to get this thing in writing? I 15,000. Yeah.
Oh, this is great. There's no boundaries, right? And by boundaries, I mean there's no budget. There's no plan set ahead of the month that says here's what we're spending our money on and here's what we're doing with the excess after we've spent our money on the things that we want to. Do you see what I'm saying? For sure.
And so when she when when you ask her, hey, why can't you just email me, you know? Right. What does she say?
So can you request somebody else when you call in? Can you say, I want to speak to a different agent or I want to speak to somebody else on the phone?
I would tell her, I'd be like, give me the next person on the line because you and I can't work together anymore. We've hit an impasse.
That's what I would do.
You know, sometimes when you call in, you can tell by the person that picks up like this person is not going to help me today. You know, you can just tell they just don't have the get it factor. And it could be that she's made this personal for some reason and she just is not going to help you. And so it could mean let me let somebody else handle it.
Because in reminder, hey, all these calls are recorded. I'm recording these calls to tell her, tell her I'm recording every single call because when this goes down, I'm going to have my proof of everything that you've said. And just be as much of a bully to her as she's trying to be to you and then demand to speak to somebody else.
And this is going to be, you're going to have to pull teeth to get this done.
I can tell.
Yeah, she doesn't want to know how you broke your knee.
You're on the hook for the lease. So paying it down is only going to... There's two sides of this. And here's the thing. As long as you continue to make the payment, they're like, okay, this guy's making the payment. They don't care. They just want you to pay the thing off.
I've not either. I mean, once something enters collections and it's like, hey, it's no longer with Chrysler Capital. It's with somebody else. That's when they know they're not getting their money. Right. The fact that these are still the people that you took the original loan with, that might be why they're giving you so much.
So I would say for you guys, I mean, I'm always going to tell people to cut up their credit cards, but for you guys, it's like a no brainer. I feel like in many ways, it's just creating more chaos around the subject of money.
And I'm not telling you to intentionally miss payments or something like that, but I am telling you that...
default is usually that's the point where it's like we're not getting money from this guy they sell that debt off and then at that point anything that they get is whipped cream so i i just don't think you're at that point i think that's why they're struggling to make a deal with you yeah i agree so they told me when i said that to her i said i know how this works this is just going to a collection she said to me and i think she's being honest she said
I mean, was there anything that was wrong that took place or did you just beat the heck out of this truck?
Right, but was it in the... I'm asking, was it in the... You signed a lease contract.
And it's creating a free for all because I don't know what the limit is on these credit cards, but clearly it allows you to go out of bounds when she feels like going out of bounds. And the great thing about cold, hard cash, Ken, when it's gone, it's gone. Like there's no more.
OK, well, then, yeah, maybe you get your your brother in law who's the lawyer to help you with this. You know, he's retired. Well, but he's got nothing else to do. I just I'll be honest. I've never heard someone be on the hook for this much money after a lease gone bad.
Yeah. You're not in good position. That's why I'm saying, but you were saying it wasn't in the contract. I'm like, something's in that contract that they're holding you to.
And if you truly think it's an illegalality, then get with a lawyer and see if they can look at it.
Vinny.
Yeah, all of them. Dude, if your name is Vito, you're a boss.
I'm really thinking through this, and I don't know very many people that don't know about Rams. I'm always telling people about what we do around here. You don't have a friend down in South Florida? They all know. Those folks really know. All right. I'm trying to think who it could be.
Classmate on Facebook? No.
I'm not going to retro back to high school for this one.
That's a great idea.
That's a great idea.
Yeah. That's a good idea.
She doesn't have a car at all.
What else?
Okay. So can I ask a couple questions just to clarify for me? The two kids, that's you guys as kids together, right? Both of them?
Okay, that's not bad. That's actually really good. Because how old are the kids? It's three and one. That's excellent. Usually it's double that. And how long have you guys been together?
Okay, so if you don't, let's take this layer by layer because there's a couple layers I want to attack. One, I want to deal with the housing issue because you can't stay in a place where you said there's mold, right?
It did get fixed. So it's not it's no longer an issue.
And it might be, but you're not ready to buy a house. So let's talk about that and then I'll go back to the other issues. You're not ready to buy a house for many reasons. A, you still have debt. B, do you have any money saved?
OK, that's that's I'm glad that you have that, but that's not nearly enough to put as a down payment on a house. So the proper time and way to buy a house is you pay off all your debt first. You save up three to six months. So you've got that cushion. Then you start saving up your down payment and you save up your down payment until that house payment is in a comfortable spot. Right.
And we would recommend no more than 25 percent of your take home. So it's not eating your lunch every single month. Right. So you guys have a while until you get to that point. That doesn't mean that you can't move out of this tiny apartment and get a bigger apartment, but you're definitely not ready to buy a house.
Now let's talk about the big elephant in the room, which is why are you with this girl for four years and have two kids together and thinking about buying a house but not marrying her?
So we did split up.
OK.
OK. And then you got back together.
Do you know why she thinks it's nonsense? Can you speak to that? Do you feel like you can? Because if we know what the why is, then we can help combat that.
Listen, you're both young and you're both immature. Both the two of you together.
And keep your money separate until you're married. Don't put anything in her name in your name.
Well, you got to tread lightly. So it's her and it's your wife. And who else? Who else are the joints?
Okay. And what's the deal? Like, what do you know about it? Is it in a trust? And what's the timeframe?
What's your wife saying?
What's on it?
So you guys sell this. You make $5 million. Everybody makes $5 million. That's the deal, right?
Who's the one that doesn't want to pull that lever in the mix?
Why are they whatever about it?
Why would selling it make their mother angry? I feel like we're missing something.
This is like an onion. Tell us.
So your wife's family is very wealthy. Is this it?
Okay, so this is the one big nest egg. Explain the part about the mom being mad about them selling this now that they're of age. Explain that.
How do you even know? How do you even know that this is theirs?
Oh, listen, I think that here's what I think. And Ken, please weigh in. I think that and I'm not saying anything. Please understand, if I were in your shoes, I'd be having a lot of questions, too, because $5 million is not a little bit of money. It's a lot. So I kind of think that you're sitting to the side. Your eyes are getting big because you're seeing, oh, there's some potential here.
But truly, there's no facts around the situation. It's odd to me that there's this major piece of possible money and no one's moving towards it. No one's reading the will. No one seems to care. I almost wonder if it. what's really going on. And so I feel like your homework is sit down with your wife and have the conversation, say, Hey, what the heck's going on with this $20 million property?
Are we selling it? Are we going to read the will? Like what's going on? Like, can you talk to your wife like that? Just candidly?
But it's not even a thing.
It sounds like she's resigned herself to say, even though I guess it's your father-in-law who left this land.
Yeah, and the way to do that right now, you're doing the budget the way I used to do a budget, which is I plan for all the things I know I have to pay for, house, car, phones, things like that, but everything else is up for grabs, treat-yourself money. You need to take that treat-yourself money and plan every dollar of that money as well.
Okay, so it sounds like when the grandmother passed, left this land, even though it sounds like your wife is already entitled to her percentage of it, it sounds like your wife is just resigned to saying, hey, I'm not fighting this battle.
I'm happier with just waiting until my mom passes, and then it'll just go directly to me, and then I don't have to fight her about this. That's what it sounds like.
Yeah, because at what point, the question is, how much are you willing to force the sale of this and possibly, for your wife, that's the question, and possibly really mess with relationships?
Ken...
No, he can't do that.
I think this is a bad idea, Ken.
This aggression shall not stand. Look at the audience. They're saying thumbs down, Ken.
I mean, even still, it's some dangerous territory.
And yes, it can include some of the fun things your wife wants to do, but it also needs to include the really important things like planning for the future that you want to do.
What's your income? What are you making with the part-time job right now?
What are you making now?
And what is that? Hey, do that math for me right quick and tell me what that is a month for you.
Yeah. What do you know how to do? Is there something you can do on the side for people and set your price? You seem like a guy who knows how to do things.
Then you will loathe being away from your family for $11. You're already not going to want to do it, but for that money, you are going to hate it. Great statement. So here's my thoughts on this. First off, you are in baby step two. You do have a baby on the way. So I do want to highlight this teaching because I think it's important.
Any money that you do stack up during this time, you're kind of holding it and keeping it in a fund, a baby fund, just to make sure everything goes right with the pregnancy, everything goes right with the delivery. So just remember that. We still want you grinding it, but just keep that money to the side. And then once the baby's born, then you throw it on whatever your smallest debt is.
And yeah, I think that... To Ken's point, now's the time to really figure out what can you kind of crank up today that you can start making money. Even if it's knocking on the doors in the neighborhood, that's really nice.
That's around you and starting to, it's summertime, start mowing lawn, like anything that you can set the schedule because that's the other thing that's going to give you peace when you have a little baby. Having that control of saying, I get to set my schedule. I get to set my rate. That'll keep you doing these side hustles a little bit longer because you've got to,
Really a three year, two and a half year train in front of you. And so setting it up that ways, I think is going to help you long term.
I think it's a mental shift because, and I'm going to speak on this from a little bit of a different perspective. I think what happens is we go, baby's on the way. Family's my first priority. Yes, family is your first priority, whether it be your marriage part of the family, then your kids part of the family, right? It's usually one and two, right?
But then we really forget and our mind immediately goes to the way I show that something is a priority is I spend time with it. When really there's this whole part of it that's like, hey, what are the different ways that you value a priority? If you say your family's a priority, there are more than one ways to show that. Time is just one of the many.
Another way that I show that my family's a priority is I take care of my body. I eat healthy. I make sure I'm going to be here for the long haul, right? Another way I take care of my family and make sure that they're the priority is I go out and work and make sure the lights stay on and that there's food on the table and that tuition is paid, right? So...
Instead of laser focusing in on this one small aspect of what makes a priority a priority, which is time, we have to look at the seasonal component and say, well, in some seasons, time could be a priority. In other seasons, going out and grinding that axe and making some money, that's the priority. And that's how I prioritize my family.
And so depending on what your financial situation is, that really does speak to how you bullet point how to make that a priority.
You got to smooth it out. You might, but... Have that conversation with her and then she'll start to say, oh, okay, I see. He does prioritize us.
What do you do for a living?
How many hours are you working?
Okay. So can you tell us what they are so that we can let them know about themselves live on the air? Because anybody that's not paying to work 30 hours and you're not even... Are you waiting tables?
And how much does she make from that? Cause you said she makes 400 bucks. Is that total?
Instead of trying to build up her own book of business, can she go work for a company that will do work for hire for her? She probably can.
She's not actually doing it. That's that's the problem. She might love the idea of doing that work, which is great. She's just got to actually go out and be able to do that work because what you're describing is just a couple of hours for the whole week.
So either she needs to get with a company that will send her out on jobs, or she needs to get very, very serious about getting on all the sites that would book her individually to come out and be a care nurse.
He's making $26 a day. Yeah, $26 a day. You can do that. You can triple that today just by mowing lawns. It's summertime. Just by going out and be like, do you see what I'm saying? I don't want you to fall into just this pattern of, well, this is what I got. And that one's not enough. I'll just go get another one just like it and just keep stacking up these bum jobs.
I want you to go, this is not good enough for me. I'm a hard worker. I'm a smart guy. I deserve more than this. And look for the opportunity. And if you can't find it, start creating it for yourself.
Love the potluck idea. How much is your rent, by the way?
So you guys are existing off of $200. It must be going on credit cards.
So how are you eating and putting gas in your car?
Can I ask you, why are you make you're a 22 year old smart, bright guy? Why are you putting yourself on a struggle slice? Why are you doing that? Why are you choosing that? Going down and donating plasma? That's like that's pursuit of happiness. Next level broke. You don't have to be there. You are fit. You are young. You are smart.
Yeah. Yeah. And you can. You know, I just what I want you to hear from me is I think there's something in your own mind that's making you feel like maybe you're not able to accomplish. But I think you can. I did not hear anything, Aiden, that would make me think, well, he's got a good reason for kind of having to, you know, retire.
I can give them a quick rundown of the different insurances.
Well, why not? So I think this is important, Ken, because like you said, it can kind of fall under the radar. And a lot of us think erroneously when you start working the baby steps, you kind of get the idea that, oh, I'll do this when I'm out of debt. And that's just not true. Insurance is not a baby step. It's something that you do as soon as you find out.
You don't wait until you get out of debt. So obviously, if you're a homeowner, you have homeowner's insurance. But if you're a renter, Ken... You need to have renter's insurance because if something happens to that place, it catches fire or whatever. You're out in the cold. Somebody breaks in. If you don't have renter's insurance, you're on the hook for that. OK, so obviously there's that.
Then, of course, you got to have auto insurance, but you got to need to make sure that you have the right type. And so doing that coverage insurance is really important. You got to have collision comprehensive liability, all that stuff. All right. Umbrella insurance. A lot of people forget about this. When your net worth hits a certain amount. Right.
When you're, you know, over 500,000 net worth, you need to have umbrella insurance. And we say get one million in coverage. That's what you're looking for. You need to have that health insurance.
If you don't have it through your job, if that's not a luxury that you have and you're self-employed, you still need to make sure that you reach out and get that. And we have health trust and some other options here. But make sure that you're covered. You have the right amount because we know bankruptcy. Usually it's a result of medical bills. OK, so make sure you're covered.
Health insurance is important. Of course, we talk about long term disability. A lot of people forget about that. I'm not going to lie. Can long term disability, if you don't get it through your job, it's going to cost you a pretty penny. It can be a little expensive, but just think about it.
There is a very good chance that at some point throughout your working career, something will happen and you're not able to work for a while. So think through these things. What would happen if you stepped off the curb today and broke your leg? And if your mind goes blank or you realize there's nothing in place.
Listen, I mean, but think about that. It only takes, it don't take much for you to be, you know, at a capacity. So there's that long-term care. We don't talk about this one a whole lot, but this is about when you get older, right? When you're old and you're no longer working and someone needs to take care of you. Don't leave that for your kids. Yeah. I mean, think about the call.
We got a call today, Ken. The woman sold everything she had to come take care of her 92-year-old grandmother and ended up in so much debt because there was no money there to take care of grandma. So that's something you can do today. We talk about getting this in place when you turn age 60, right? Make sure you're getting... the right amount.
If you have a high net worth, you probably don't need it because your nest egg can fund it. But these are the things that you need to be thinking about and thinking ahead. And then, of course, we talk about term life insurance. You can get that through Zander. I don't think I need to go over that. If you listen to Ramsey, even for a hot minute, you know that we suggest that.
And if you can get some ID theft protection, you can also get that through Zander. That's for your identity basically being stolen on the interwebs, right? And you can get that for super cheap. It's just peace of mind. So these are the things you need to be keeping in mind. Life happens. You never know how life is going to happen, but insurance is a shield against that.
What else are you putting aside monthly into your investments?
This is a terrible idea.
You don't know that. A smart investor diversifies their investments. That's number one. And I want you to walk away with that because that is 100% true. If you put all of your eggs in one basket and that basket catches fire, then you're on fire.
Yeah. Hey, don't just take this money and invest it because you're going to be left with less and you're going to have to do it over a term. longer term. I think for now you need to really get on a budget. Make sure you're investing 15% of your income because the more that you can invest now, the quicker you can get out of this crazy expensive coverage. You need to start doing the right thing now.
That was for our Aiden, our caller. Remember him?
Only my mom's government income. And how much is that every month, Ann?
He loves a good pun.
Listen, I'm going to miss the old penny. It's going to be a while before we don't see them in circulation.
No, it means they're... I don't have the article in front of me, but they're taking them out of circulation. And I think they're going to start not creating them.
It'll have to change that. Because think about it. First, they stop making them. And then they slowly pull them from circulation. Right. And if that's going to I mean, I don't know what the articles are saying, but that's going to take a while because, you know, I hope they never take away what the quarter.
Yeah. Remember the half dollar? When I was a kid, there was 50 cent pieces.
Oh, flipped it?
It's thick. If you get hit in the cranium with that, you get hit in the dome with a half penny or a half dollar. The $2 bill, remember that?
And Anne, how much did you have in retirement? How much have you gone through? I mean, we know there's the credit card debt, but how much retirement have you gone through?
I got questions. Nothing but questions, Thomas. Tell me, do you have debt? No.
No car note, no student loans, no nothing.
OK, so I'm going to bust your bubble just a little bit, but not too, too much. 70,000 is a nice chunk of change, but I don't think it's going to be the lump sum. I don't think it's going to set you free in the way that maybe you think, because I'm just going through this. I'm like, OK, you got let me say this. You're going to have to be very careful because you got to pay your brother the 2000.
That's that's nothing. But that leaves you with 68. How much were you planning to spend to upgrade your car?
So you have to buy, we're talking about buying it outright in cash, not financing it.
I'd say spend 20. That leaves you with 48. Now you don't have any money saved to your name. So I think that you need to use some of this and keep it liquid as a three to six month emergency fund. And I, if I were you, I'd probably do it on the six month side since it's just you. And truthfully, your income's on the lower side right now. So I would save up six months.
So for you, what's that look like? What's six months of expenses for you? About $12,000, $13,000?
Okay, so we'll take that out. Now, you know, you're at $36,000. You could take that money and then if you wanted to, what I would probably do is I'd maybe keep it in a high yield if you wanted to because the next thing around the corner for you is once you start getting your income up, you could think about buying a house that's probably more than a five-year horizon.
So maybe I would go ahead and invest this money. Just drop it into a brokerage account and keep it there and let it grow so it can be your down payment on a house. I like that idea for you.
OK, that's a good question. So you would invest that money the way we teach to invest any money, whether it's your 401k, you know, money for retirement or money for, like I said, that's non-retirement that you can pull out at any time with no penalty other than taxes. It's across four different types of mutual funds.
So they're growth funds, growth and income funds, aggressive growth funds, and international funds. And all a fund is is just a big old group of a bunch of different companies that meet that criteria that a bunch of people are funding and investing in. So that's all it is. So if you have, I said, growth in income. So these are like big companies like Walmart. They're making big bucks all the time.
They've been around for a long time. They're paying dividends and there's not a whole lot of surprises going on. Then you have the international ones, which are good to have because if things aren't going so good stateside, usually things are doing better internationally. So that helps balance that out. And you've got the aggressive growth funds.
Those are usually smaller startups or usually tech companies. Things that really can have a really high upside, but also have a little bit more risk and they can have a downside. So when you're investing in all of these, they're kind of balancing each other out. And we do find, obviously, there's days that the stock market is really high.
There's days that it's low or there's weeks that it's doing well or not doing well. But we find that over the long haul, if you're a long haul investor, five years or more, you are going to see the upside of that. So that's what I'm talking about. That's what I would do.
Half a million. Okay. And can you tell me, can you go back? Thank you for telling me all the backstory. That does help. Can you tell me how much of your retirement you went through, how much you've spent on this move, taking care of your mom, trying to get the diagnosis? How much has that cost you so far?
The reason I'm asking, I'm trying to get a clear peg on this, Ann, because I want to make sure we help you in this call. That's why I'm trying to stick to all the facts. Sure. You said that you went through all your retirement. I'm trying to get a peg on how much that was so that I can make a fair call on this.
And how many years have you been taking care of her? How long has this been going on? This is only a year. Okay.
Why, Ann, are you not eligible for any assistance, any government, any disabled, anything?
Okay, and there's none available to you? Or is it, there is, but you're just not taking it?
Hi, Dave. I am super thankful and inspired by you and thankful for you for inspiring myself, my friends, and for giving my son a good foundation for his financials at the ripe old age of 15. So thank you, thank you, thank you.
So I'm in a good situation. I have a lot of retirement, about $700,000. I only owe $275,000 on my house. That's a value of $900,000. But I put my three to six months of savings I had into an account for my son for college. So I'm starting all over, and it's been really tight. And I was wondering, in your opinion, what is the best order for
to do things do i pause on putting into retirement and build my three to six months yes do i yes okay that's it yeah here's why if you don't and you have an emergency you'll use some of your retirement which you don't want to cash out for an emergency
How you guys doing today?
Okay, so my daughter purchased a home probably last year. with the understanding that in three years she would leave the house to me and her mom once she's got a new position on her job. Well, it come up a little sooner than we thought. So she's wanting to leave the house to me and her mom, but we can't afford the mortgage. So she was wanting to put
$50,000 to $70,000 down on the house and get the mortgage lower so we could afford it. But she was told since she has an FHA loan that she could not put that much down and get the payment lower. So her next option would be to sell the home and to give us the $50,000 to $70,000 to put down on us a home, but our Credit is not up to par yet. But what do you suggest?
That's what we was thinking.
Yes, yes.
She makes pretty good money. She's not there where she wants to be yet, but she makes pretty good money.
She's moving out of state, and she was going to rent. An apartment.
Yes.
The mortgage is like $2,700.
Yes.
Well, no, we all stand there together.
She was going to leave. Yes, yes. Oh, okay. We all live there together.
We probably make $68,000.
Yeah, we could.
Right. That's what we was thinking as well.
No, we don't.
We have probably $15,000 in debt. Okay.
Right.
Okay. That's what we were thinking as well.
It was her idea. We had our own spot. We had a townhome. We lived in the house, and She was begging us to move in with her. She didn't want to stay there by herself, and she was going to leave the house to us. We thought long and hard about it, and we just went ahead and did it. I guess I was better judgment, but that's where we're at now.
Man, I hope that helps. Thank you.
Hi, Dave. Hi, Jade. We're doing well.
We live in Louisville, Kentucky.
So we've paid off $283,000. Yeah. How long did that take? Took us two years and eight months.
Yes, sir. So we started out at $189,000, and we finished at $240,000. Way to go. What do you all do for a living? I work for a mortgage lender, actually. I lead a sales team.
I wish I could take credit for it. It was more Cassie than it was me, Dave.
Retirement, we've got about $500,000 for mine. And then I think on the way over here, we said you had around $200,000.
Young millionaires. Yeah. So proud of y'all. Thank you.
So we had to go back to two. To go to two.
you know cars or the house or how do we do this we just didn't know right if if we did then we wouldn't have been yeah in debt um and so we looked at our cars read you know the book yeah total money makeover is kind of what what got us sold into it dave we started listening to your program and really just made a commitment to each other um you know it's a team uh not not individuals it's
both of us together, setting goals and then really holding each other accountable. One of the stories that we kind of laugh about as I was walking around Cabela's with my brother Andy, and he came across a real Dave Ramsey tweet. Well, it wasn't real, but it said, life short by the boat. And we laughed.
Yeah. We laughed when we saw it, and so I sent it to Cassie, and she started panicking. She said, I can't believe Dave would say that. There's no way. Everything on the Internet is true. Abraham Lincoln said that.
That's right, and I think the point of sharing that story is the temptation is real to really deviate from the plan, but really making a commitment to each other, setting a clear goal, and then using the seven baby steps to work all the way through it. Life is short, but don't buy the boat. Really pay off the debt.
Yeah. So I think both of us were really, you know, when we had that meeting in January of 23, it's really trying to figure out how to tackle it. And of course, we had heard of the Ramsey show before, but we hadn't read the book. We really hadn't listened much to the radio program. So it was really just trying to think, what are some logical steps we can do to really start tackling this debt?
And really where we started to struggle was, you know, what do we pay off first? Like we said, we both work in banking and we thought, well, the interest rate's higher on the you know, on the house than the cars, you know, would it make sense to tackle the house first or how do we do it? And really looking at the seven baby steps really answered that question for us.
And it was really a very simple, straightforward plan that we knew we could do together. And so reading Total Money Makeover was really what sold us together on that. And then, of course, we've become listeners since then too and really enjoy your show.
Right, and Dave, it seems so normal, I think, people become comfortable with debt. It's so normal to have an auto loan. It's so normal to have a mortgage loan, and it doesn't have to be. And I think that's something that as we read your book and listen to your show, We shouldn't just accept that as normal, and both of us work hard. We make good money.
We've always managed our money fairly well, but we fell into that trap of, well, doesn't everybody have an auto payment? Doesn't everybody have a mortgage loan? You don't have to live like that. It's a very simple program, very simple steps, straightforward, and you can conquer it.
Yeah, we're just excited to be new parents. We have that weight lifted off our shoulders. We're just excited.
right so it feels great and to anybody that's listening you can do it um it's it's it seems insurmountable when you start but if you just take it one step at a time create a budget that was key after we paid off the house or paid off the cars because we could do that it was the budget um yeah and you start seeing where all this is going yeah i mean we make you guys make a quarter million dollars you know where the flip is we're making too much money to be this broke that's right so how are you going to celebrate what's next
Well, we're preparing to be parents. So we got really crazy, went to dinner when we paid our house off, which was really, really nice.
Yeah, we've talked about doing that.
No, that's part of my problem. We moved here five years ago, and I never really kind of ingratiated myself in the social circles.
Um, I make about 47 or, uh, Yeah, about $47,000, $48,000 a year.
So that $1,300 is just what I have left over after all of my... Basic bills.
Yeah. No, my student loan payment is already made. That $1,300 is like once every bit of like my rents, Wi-Fi, groceries, gas, all that is paid for.
Okay, I like the sound of that.
I'm like a lower level project manager.
Everything above the nose, John and George. How's this day finding you?
Excellent. I need some advice. We're going to tread a little bit carefully because I am trying my best to thread the needle with my mother-in-law. She keeps giving financial and career advice to my family, specifically my wife, that do not work for our family situation and really do not work in 2024.
I would think that you are probably correct. I am worried that my wife is going to listen to her mother. My mother-in-law was able to raise four children in the Midwest through the 80s and 90s without working. She, I don't believe, has ever worked a 40-hour a week job in her life. She, a couple of days, you know, helping out at this nursery school, a couple of days here.
Well, yes. Basically, all of the advice that she's giving involves things around we have two children under six. And it's comments along the lines of, you know, when both the kids are out of daycare, my wife works as a daycare teacher as well, when the kids are out of daycare, you can leave that job and just teach music lessons.
I make $60 an hour teaching music lessons, and that's great, but that doesn't make up for the income that we need in order to live where we do it. Okay, but here's the thing, James.
Yeah. And at this point, we're having to have this conversation about every six to nine months or so. And I've tried showing my wife the math and that it does not.
I think that she gets the impression that she is working to pay for daycare and nothing else. And that once the children are out of daycare, that that need might disappear.
I think so. I think part of it may be a byproduct to that's the home environment that she was raised in, so she has seen it work, but that... I don't think is realistic or sustainable.
Just myself, about $60,000.
My wife, no. She's a music teacher by trade.
I am a program director for a medium-sized nonprofit.
Yeah, see, I was considering getting another job. I've been looking around town for part-time work, either something like early morning. I know some of the local gyms here are looking for some morning work or at night, too. So there's options here that I was considering.
I mean, mine can get pretty sore sometimes too, I guess.
Good afternoon. I hope everyone is doing well.
Couldn't be better. Thank you so much.
So fun fact, I've heard about you guys back in like senior year 2012, heard all about the baby steps. And from years on, I've been on and off, on and off. And I hate to say it, I haven't been really committed to the whole thing. It wasn't until this year when I almost got evicted that I, well, evicted from my apartment that I decided, yeah, I need to change. I need to be dedicated.
I need to be devoted. So I am for real this time going through the seven baby steps as we speak.
So I've been completed baby step one. I have a thousand dollars currently saved up. As of last week, I've paid off the only debt I ever had, which was my medical bill. And I'm currently ready to start baby step three. And this is where my question comes into play. So I did my own little research about where to put that thousand dollars I have. And two things keeps popping up.
One is a money market account and the other is a high yield savings account. Good research. So my question is, which of the two overall would be the better choice for me as well as what situation would one be better than the other?
Right. So, so which comes to another thing, is there like any places I could look at to see like, which would be the most beneficial place to put the thousand dollars? Because the one I currently, the bank I currently have, I work with USAA, been in there for like over years or since I joined the military and they do this thing where it's like a 0.01%.
So if I leave it there, I'm only getting a penny a month.
Okay, it's interesting that you say that because I do have two banks. I have one bank for general purpose, my second bank where, again, that's where my $1,000 is at. And I was always thinking of looking for a third one to take my $1,000 back. You don't need to overcomplicate.
Yeah, that's fine.
It was around $500. It was a medical bill.
It's an emergency situation.
Oh, my goodness. I've had this since, I want to say... December, if not January.
It did.
I promise. Promise, promise, promise.
Am I? Oh, yes, absolutely.
That's awesome. I'm ready to get rid of this stuff because they said I want to live the American dream best I can.
John, you just broke up a bit.
All right. I'm 23 years old. My wife is also 22, and we're over here, and We got a mortgage that we just bought on the house, like, you know, $340,000 in February. We should have, you know, not have bought this house, but we are now in it. And now we have also car loans. So I'm calling out of getting a second opinion on some debts. How much money do you make, Justin?
Right now, $60,000.
Good. Gets us down to $22,000. Okay, what else? What other debt? So that's all the debt. That's That's all of our debt is our house and the $25,000, of course.
No, not currently. She's trying to do some babysitting on the side because we just had a baby son back in September.
Thank you.
Oh, yes. No, they didn't. Costco runs definitely helped, though.
I have about $3,500 in a Roth IRA that I can take out in contributions and put towards this debt. I also have bonuses that I get each year, about $6,000.
Awesome. So I'm 24. I just took a new job. And so after expenses and rent and all that good stuff, I have about $1,300 each month left to play with, give or take. I currently have $30,000 in student loans, but I do have $1,000 already saved up. And I'm hoping in the near future that I can buy a house here.
Oh, man, let me tell you. The last few years of my life has been, some people would call it easy street, and I would have agreed with you if you told me 10 years ago, but now I'm struggling to find purpose. I'm struggling with being fulfilled.
Well, I... I was in the military. I did eight years in the U.S. Navy, and I came home, got a four-year degree, and I made the decision. I was like, okay, if I meet my eventual wife while I'm in college, then I'll settle down. I'll start a family. If I don't, I'll go back into the service as an officer, and you wouldn't say just have it.
The Lord blessed me, and I found my wife, and we've been married now for six years. She is a family medicine physician. and board-certified surgical obstetrician. So she makes all the money, and we have three beautiful babies. I love my babies. I love them so much. But the Bible makes it very clear it is not good for man not to work.
And I feel like the pressure is on, even though I don't need it for financial purposes. I just feel like I'm not doing anything of value, which I know is a lie. Raising my kids is the greatest value that I can have as a human being. because they're going to leave the most lasting impact. Money is only going to go so far, but my kids can make a lasting impact on their communities.
But I just don't see the return on investment right now, and that's where I'm struggling.
And I was just curious, it's like what money markets or mutual funds that you guys would, excuse me, sorry. I'm curious as to like what kind of ways I should invest my money in to make this dream a reality, to be debt free and to hopefully be a homeowner here soon.
Well, I'd say that's the part of this equation that makes me feel kind of overwhelmed. I'm an experienced writer. Obviously, my four-year degree was in network engineering.
But what do you want to do with your life? What I want to do, honestly, is I want to get into IT. I want to grab that bull by the horns, and I want to take it for a ride.
I promise you. Network administration.
I was, but then when my wife said, Sam, why aren't you working in IT?
Uh, we didn't have childcare until like three months ago. And now I've been trying to fill application after application and I'm just, I'm not getting emails or phone calls back and it's really starting to kill my, my drive.
I could probably talk to someone for sure. I don't know who that someone would be, but I could start asking questions.
I gave up Facebook like 10 years ago.
They are, actually, and I tried getting help there, and they tried to help me get jobs, but even there, I came up short. Admittedly, I haven't dug in as deeply locally as I probably could have, and I'm not even from here. That's part of my hesitation. I'm like, they're going to be like, who's this guy? There's nobody. I don't know who he is.
You're not the first person that's revealed that to me.
Hi, this is Eric, and I have a question about the egg episode and how it relates to other foods you may have eaten on set. Curious to know what maybe disgusting, revolting foods you've eaten on a set, and if there are any plans to force actors to eat disgusting things in future episodes of Severance. Love the show. Thanks.
No, I never saw that. It's like a Midnight Express type. That movie's awesome. Drugs, they get arrested. Vaughn is fucking heavyweight in that.
If you want to see some shit you really can't do, John Wayne Gacy the Clown. That guy was doing some cutting edge shit. Oh, yeah.
Look, I'm not a fan, just you might die. Yeah. That's how you say it.
Oh, nice. I feel like Tim Blake Nelson, like he's not enough stuff. I feel like he's always really good, right?
Hope Brother, where art thou? Yeah, he's awesome.
I love that movie. Great movie. That's a great wreck. I was thinking The Ballad of Buster Scruggs.
Ted Bundy, people like. Ted Bundy. Yes. Oh, yeah, he's not sexy. But he's like overrated, kind of. For a killer, he's hot. For a killer, he's attractive, I guess. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's money. I never did it once. My brother had that poster up when he was a kid. It was just on his bed. No, no, no. It was like a photograph, but it was a different version. It was them in the car, and it just said Vegas.
Yeah. Oh, he was his own lawyer?
Now, Vince Vaughn would be fun as hell.
If unhinge is your type, he had a thing going.
That's the best. Is this like going to be in theaters or? Oh, yeah.
Stav and I always talk about that because I guess back in the day, the actor William Peterson was offered Platoon. And he was just like, and he did some shitty movie in L.A. instead. I think he was like, I could bang models in L.A. or I could get yelled at by Oliver Stone in Vietnam. I know, right? It's like, which one do you go with? Yeah. He probably made the right choice for him.
He seems mentally better than Sheen.
Wait, he escaped from prison? Oh, yeah. Holy shit. Yeah, by the way, he was in the woods or something. He was so good, he could just charm you. Yeah. He's in a prison outfit. He's like, no, that's not me. Yeah. These aren't the droids you're looking for. When people lie... That kind of shit. Yeah. When people lie to your face that convincingly, you're just like, maybe I'm crazy.
Pizzolatto. Peterson did make fucking Manhunter. That's a sick movie. Oh, yeah. Wait, who made it? He was in Manhunter. Oh, yeah. The little man movie. That's a great show.
Cut to that vet murdering me. How was the shoot? We beat up a veteran. Not great.
He'd be a good podcast guest. He'd be great. He's kind of gone full conspiracy.
I mean, was he ever not? He made so many, he made The Doors, JFK. I mean, he's always been doing.
Yeah, so what's one with Zoe Kravitz?
earth girls are easy and league of their own no she's and she's in mensa she's an oh really smart motherfucker oh shit thelma and louise oh yeah she won an oscar for that right she won an oscar for something that movie is so much darker than you think oh yeah you think it's good you just think of the fun i don't know why i thought it wasn't going to be darker because the scene that we all know is i'm just driving off a cliff oh yeah it was fun yeah it was beautiful it was friendship
Yeah, her husband's beating her. Yeah. And they're just like, fuck it, and they're on the run. It's pretty damn good. And he's in Ridley Scott, too. Yeah, Ridley Scott. Young Brad Pitt. Yeah, that was his first thing, right?
uh lenny kravitz and she's just the alien love child beautiful people and you're just like what she's like an alien man lenny kravitz is like 60 something with abs so hot yeah i think i said ass he's got an ass too but he but he uh he said some quote recently that he's been abstinent for 12 no really good that's why that's why he i know Really? I don't think we're competing for the same ass.
That's like when you're young, at least I was, I drank so much soda when I was young that I'm like, I don't like soda anymore. That's probably how he was with pussy. Probably. He was like, I had enough Dr. Pepper for a lifetime.
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45 minutes before you get to the playground.
Oh, no. I was blown like nine times before I had sex.
I was like, sex was hard. It meant something to them. Women back then, they were like, yeah, I'll blow you. I don't give a shit. But the sex, they're like, nah, I'm not losing it to you. Sex is natural.
Yeah. I mentioned you last night. Yeah, George Michael. I mentioned you last night to my friend, and I was like, oh, he's a really good actor. I was mentioning a couple movies here, and he's like, I don't know those. I don't know movies. And I was like, he did the song My Dick. Oh, shit. I love that song. Yeah, man.
I had a Ted Bundy one, I think, about how in the doc, the cop came on. He was like, that guy's problem, he was a narcissist. I was like, that was his only problem? You know what Bin Laden's problem? Never punctual. Always late.
Yeah. It's what? All sequels about the money.
I don't know, man. I don't know about that. You got Brando in the first one, though. The first one's fucking good. Fuck. The second one is incredible, too. It's more action-packed, the second one. He's in Little Italy. Yeah, honestly, the way he fucking knifes that motherfucker.
Young De Niro and Young Pacino, it is pretty iconic.
Captain America is pretty good. I've never seen it. I'm not a huge Marvel guy, but that's a pretty good one. People are saying the new Wick is pretty great. I caught the second half on TV the other night, and I couldn't turn it off.
And you were jacking off the JFK.
It's so hard. It's so hard to just sit there. Especially on the road when you're not home. Oh my God. Home is easier. At least you're home, but on the road. On the road in some weird hotel room. Soprano is like white noise.
no but it's it's uh those serial killer docs man they're did you watch the pete rose one yet no tonight i'm watching it why what's uh it's all about the gambling how he fixed everything and just he's a fucking lunatic but he's so for kind of a neanderthal meathead just unbelievable hitter he's he's it's a fascinating story charming
Halloween was a classic. Oh, we got the picture of it right there. We got Simon in the- Oh, yeah.
it was disturbing and i'm like oh this is just every kid now wow has access to that i'm sure our parents look at us like that too but we just had i remember my stepdad had like a playboy under the cushion and it would just be a still photo of some boobs and you're like whoa but yeah this is a i remember at summer camp like jerking off in the fucking bathroom stall to like a club magazine oh yeah that's hot yeah club was hot club was cool that was but that was hardcore that was hard penetration
Yeah. Yeah. But you're just like, fuck. You pass it around. You're like, this is page 67. It's pretty good. Yeah, yeah. Check it out. Buried out in the woods. Yeah. No, you're right. It's over. There was a picture from 2000, and it was in New York. I saw it on Twitter somewhere, and it just said, look, no one's on their phones.
I think you were more alert with your neighbor, but also sometimes – It is good to zone out. It's tough. It's a tough line to walk.
It's like watching a foreign film. Just give it like five minutes and you're in. Same with reading. You just have to just commit to the...
Don't you kind of weirdly judge those people a little bit?
Because when I just go back to a retreat, I'm like, you're fucking weird. Yeah, yeah. Like, I admire you, but it's weird. Yeah. And they always tell a story. They're like, yeah, the first day I was crying my eyes out. Yes, yes. I'm like, yeah, I don't want to do that.
It's not going to be corny. It's just going to be different types of rap. Like, if you listen to rap now, it's so different than the rap we grew up with. That's true. Like, it's so funny. I'll hear this shit. By the way, can I give you a peeve based off of that? My peeve is when the gym plays music that's shitty.
You've got to play broad stuff at the gym. Yeah, true.
I don't even get what people say. Shut the fuck up.
No. It is funny that they're like, he's not in for gambling. They're like, well, he did fuck a minor, too. Like, just use the minor and you don't sound as bad. Minorly. Yeah. Because Ty Cobb, I think, pushed his wife down a flight of stairs. Yeah. And they're like, you know, he's in. At a certain point, you know.
Yes, yes. I'll do that when I read drunk. Sometimes I'll come home drunk. You can read drunk? Clearly not. Oh. I'll come home and I'll try, and then I'll just be like, I'll be like 40 pages in, and the next day I'm like, fuck, I gotta reread all these pages. I was blackout drunk. Any book recs? You know what I loved? Shout out Matt Ruby.
I said this on Rogan recently, but Matt Ruby told me to read the Agassi book called Open. Oh, yeah. He was on meth?
It's incredible. I loved it so much. I heard it's great. I never read it. Even if you don't like sports, you'll love it. It's moving. It's hilarious. It's fascinating. It's a guy who's so hard on himself and obsessed and such a rebel. He called his dad the dragon. He hated his dad. They basically sent him away. He referred to these tennis camps as prison.
Because they knew they had a prodigy on their hands. So once they saw him, they didn't want to get rid of him. And he knew that. And he was like, fuck you. I hate it here.
They were just, the dad would call and say like, no, no, no, money's not a problem. We want him here.
And he just heard like, oh, they just added time onto my prison sentence like that. I had to stay there. But he realized he was miserable there. So he was like, I'm going to act out. So he was like, you know, he'd go get like a pink mohawk and earring. You know, he started dressing in like jean shorts. He started dressing like a girl and be like, fuck you.
And he'd win these tournaments dressed like that as like a rebel. It's hilarious. I mean, he's, he's an awesome dude. I just, I have so much respect for him.
It's a ghost written by the guy who did the tender bar, which is, it was a popular one, but he, uh, Good rec. Dude, he's... J.R. Moringer. Yeah, he is just so hard on himself the way we are. He's like, oh, I couldn't get over the hump with Sampras. Dude, he had this insane career. He's like top 10 ever.
That's how he opens. He goes, I fucking hate tennis. Wow. And he married Steffi Graf, who was one of the best female players of all time. Oh, that's right. That's got to be awkward. And he was in love with her for years.
Yeah, but no, it's so good. The book is... I couldn't put it down, man.
Yeah, I've heard that's great.
What about gang? Cormac McCarthy.
You've got to find this comic because he did a great bit on it. I forgot his name. Oh! He had the bit about how they use the three names. He goes, and I think it's because they're in a lot of trouble.
Dude, Vincent Price, I just watched a movie he's in. Great actor from the 40s, you know. He was the guy in the Michael Jackson video, too.
Bless you. That was adorable. That was like the cutest sneeze I've ever seen.
That was it. There he is. Yeah, yeah, dude, I watched this movie called Fuck, Save Her From Heaven. It's with Gene Tierney. Ah!
That was crazy. Strangle a fucking bird? Savor from Heaven. Yeah, Gene Tierney was like the hottest chick. Oh, really?
She's in a movie called Laura. It's like one of the best noirs of all time. But Vincent Price is a gnat with her, too. But he's in this one called Save Her From Heaven, and it's basically Fatal Attraction before Fatal Attraction, where he meets this gorgeous woman on a... I mean, Leah, pull a picture of her. He met her on Tinder? He meets her on a train, and he's like, she's so hot.
Ends up marrying her. She's furious anytime there's anyone else in the picture. Crazy jealous. He's got a brother who's disabled, and she hates the brother for just being there. Wow. So I don't want to give too much away, but it's fucking hilarious. It's...
Yeah, she was a fucking fox, dude.
Once you live longer, I think you just kind of like, you just kind of like, well, I got to stay. Once the life expectancy moves further up, you're kind of like, I got to get this shit tight. I got to stay together. But yeah.
Look at Wilford Brimley. Pull up a picture of Wilford Brimley. That guy was in his 40s and he looked like he was 87.
I want to credit him, too. You can find that. That was scary. That's such a good angle.
But when he's like young, yeah, pull up young Wilford Brimley. He's still fucking young. He was never young.
Was he in Cocoon? Tim Walls and fucking Brad Pitt. I'm like, put anyone next to Brad Pitt. That's true.
You're Superman. We're the ambiguously gay duo.
Yeah. Incoming on Netflix.
The Cernan brothers wrote a new movie on Netflix called Incoming. It's like super bad level funny. Really? Wow. It's just an airtight... Have you not watched it yet? I haven't seen it yet. I haven't even heard of it. Dude, it's so funny. Really? I feel weird watching kids. It's fucking... You'll get over it in a sec. Really? Because it's written by adults. That's true. And it's...
Just a bunch of freshmen who were terrified of being freshmen in high school. That it was the most awkward time. It's just fucking killer. All right. It's hilarious, and it's got heart. It's great. All right. I'm going to watch it. Watch it, dude. Okay.
We had the Churning Brothers on the pod who wrote it, and I feel bad I didn't watch it before it came out, but I don't feel as bad that Mark hasn't even seen it yet. You should watch it. It's really great.
Because she does not look happy ever.
What if you're in the KKK? Ooh.
What's a comfort go-to-bed show for you?
Joe List used to say that doing the road with me was like Midnight Runs. We would just fucking beat each other's throats. Yeah. Great movie.
Isn't that crazy? They listen to our podcast, they pause, they strangle a hooker, they get back in the car. I know. They need pods for the long drive. That's true. They pop on us, a little Rogan, kill Tony. Hey, Theo Vaughn's got Trump.
It's pretty fantastic. It's like a perfect movie. And all the cameos. Every character actor is in it. Fucking Dennis Farina in National. Oh, wow. What's his name from The Sopranos? Joe Pantoliano? He plays such a good scumbag. Joey Pants.
Which I think put us on Robert Smigel's radar- That's right. You got to get him back on with the insult dog versus Winnie. Oh, Triumph versus Winnie.
That's perfect. Perfect. Where do you stay when you're there?
You want to suck my dick or do something else?
You know what I love to do when you're debating what to order with the lady? I was like, give me three types of foods. There's four different types of foods.
So easy. Give me three. And she can now, I'm like, all right, I'll give you three.
And I'll, and I'm, I'm good with it, but you got to give me three. Yeah. Give you three. Sometimes. That's crazy. Usually I have to give the three and then she's like that one. I'm like, all right.
Yeah. That's how I started. Yep. I'd say Cheesecake Factory. It's too many options. What are we doing? You're like, how does an omelet have 3,600 calories?
I got to show you something else. I'll send it to you if you could throw it on if you want. Fuck.
Oh, yeah, let's do it. I already gave like four wrecks today. You guys do the wrecks.
The taxi... I'm loyal to the taxis here, but there are so many problems. In a world with no ratings, it's madness. It's madness. They've not been called... It's literally like... They're like single people. They haven't been called on their shit. Yes. So they're just like...
going to behave horribly yeah meanwhile the uber they've been raided but i i'm still lord of the cabs yeah you love the cabs you're new york i'm a new york guy they got done dirty it's fucked up but you go in there and it smells like shit half the time and then i i didn't ride back from jfk and you're like oh fuck it's like 90 minutes and he's just on the phone like like i just like yelling i'm like you don't have to yell it yeah who's on the other end just some guy like
Yeah, that's true. They're just screaming back and forth. They're never like, yeah, yeah, I did this. That's true. It's never once. Never that.
You did it. Get a life. You're one of the few that come prepped. We don't have to even prompt. Yeah.
Hey, Mark, you're staying right here. Watch me do Cosby, motherfucker.
He is hilarious. He's a great guest on here, too.
He's so fucking fun. He is fun. Do people still go live on Instagram? Oh, yeah, all the time. I do it like once a year. If I have a special come out, I'm like, hey, guys, watch my special. That's how I am.
Prime Video, same girl you've changed. Wasn't trying to do that.
Tan France, thank you, buddy. That suit was his idea. Oh, really? Was that your boy that directed it? No, that's my friend James Webb. No, Tan France is from Queer Eye. I was like, what suit do I wear? Oh, nice.
He didn't have to get it tailored.
I feel more like there's like a swagger and a confidence. You what? I did a gig in Vegas like a few weeks before and I was like, let me throw a suit on so it doesn't feel weird because it's, you know. I can't keep telling. Yeah.
He doesn't laugh. You've got to pull up the clip of Artie Lang and Howard Stern. I think he's on Seth Meyers telling the story already, but it's like... It's the story of roasting Trump and how he kind of couldn't take it. Oh, yeah, yeah. It's really.
it's not just about to be home i was on a zoom podcast the other day i'm doing my friend's zoom pod and i felt the shit coming on oh shit just please wrap it up it's been over an hour he's gonna wrap it up and uh just as we're about to wrap up he's like well if you want to plug anything i'm like oh great this shit's about to plug my ass but then it just turns into another five minutes another five minutes and my body's like dude it's like your body's like dude come on yeah
Wrap it up. I'm not fucking talking.
Full fire hose. That's one of the best feelings, and one of the best feelings is when you first get in a hotel room, whip off those pants.
There it is. Damn, that was like, I think I'm going to nail that. Yeah. Yeah.
This beer's pretty good. I haven't had a beer in a while.
No, no. I got to do two shows tonight in Jersey. Oh, where in Jersey? Stress Factory. Stretch Factory? Stress. Oh. I am working out. I'm trying to get my... Wait.
Prostate. I learned about that from Road Trip.
I was like a 13-year-old kid in the movie theater, like, a woman's finger has to go up your ass? I know, and I was like, oh, good to know. I'll try this tonight.
Where is he? I don't know where. This might be it.
Anything else in the works? Any movies that you're coming up that you're pumped about?
No. I mean, Pryor did a lot of act-outs. Yeah. I think if the joke calls for it. Yeah. I guess it depends on the comic. Yeah. I think, like, comics, we're snobs. We want a good joke. Like, Stephen Wright ain't doing an act-out. No.
But, you know, there's some great act-out guys.
Right. But it's another gear, man. Burr will do act outs. That helicopter story. Yeah, I mean, and we do it sometimes.
I've got some longer stories in my last couple hours, so it's like I'll do – I'm not, like, physical, but I'll do, like, a little act out. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, man.
Yeah, go forward and tell the Trump.
Well, it's like, you know, when the crowd's small, it's like you kind of play to that small energy. Yeah. So it's like if it's like 80 people, I kind of play. But if I'm in a bigger venue, I'll kind of up it a little bit. I kind of try to match their energy. But, yeah, they were – look, I was doing new shit. A lot of it was nothing.
But as long as you leave with a few, you're like, all right, I'm fucking –
That's true. Yeah, if there's like six people there, you probably have to be like, are you good? And I'll jerk you off for a second. I'll fucking work the room a little and act out.
Yeah, that's not natural to who we are at this point. Like, you know, if I were doing that, it would be not me. It would be me putting it on. Right. Like, if I'm me, that's the energy. That's right. And it just feels more honest to them, I think. And they probably feel more comfortable. They're like, oh, he's not, like, putting something on. Right. Yeah. You're always putting something on, but...
But I bet you dialed it back in a small venue. Probably.
You do everything. You guys both did the garden? No, I've never done MSG.
You know, we both did a bunch of arenas with Amy back in the day. I did a bunch of Sandler's arena shows. Burt, we did the Burt. Yeah, we've done a lot of big arena shows, but the biggest one on our own, I think probably somewhat similar.
Like MSG Theater was probably the biggest I've done on my own.
And also your style becomes more of that, I think, the more you do it. So I think my broadest hour is my first hour, honestly.
Don't you feel that way too about you?
If you're bombing a corporate, don't you find yourself going back to like that?
It's the old shit. You're kind of just trying to tread water and you're like, this shit killed in America has got talent.
Yeah, but Billy Joel gets so much love for putting out like one new song in 30 years.
And I liked the song. I thought it was good. But it's also like, man, he's also got such a crazy catalog that like, of course you just want to hear that stuff live. You're like, I want my, that's a pricey ticket.
He went to singing lessons. Can a singing teacher, can they take you from like,
My point is, do you think a singing coach could make it so Mark and I have a decent singing voice?
It's like a rhythm. It is music. But Shatner doesn't have a great voice. He just is like, that's me.
I've told this story before, but I remember the night she died, I was playing this club in Knoxville, opening for a guy. Side splitters? Yeah, back in the day. And it was the same night Jeremy Lin went for 38 against the Lakers. And every tweet was just, Lin-sanity, Lin-sanity. And someone tweeted, Whitney Houston died. That's Lin-sane.
That just added to his legacy.
Well, he, I mean, he, I think, you know, against Jokic was Serbia, right? Was that the last?
Second to last. Second to last. The free throw line talking a lot of shit, and I'm like.
you never see Steph but he is so competitive but he's got that baby face you don't like that the baby face assassin but that's right talking all this shit at the free throw line hit both of them ice the game yeah then that last game he just four in a row they were all insane all contested shots unbelievable and it's that crazy shot of LeBron and Durant just open and he's just like fuck it drains it like wow yeah I watched a montage and it was it put like classic music behind it and they made it in slow motion it was it was beautiful he's phenomenal
He's good for the sport, man.
Etymology. Brown noise. Mom is an attractive woman.
That one wasn't our fault. I mean, the T-Wolves drafted two point guards before him. He went like seventh. Yep. And the Timberwolves took two point guards ahead of him.
Wow. I don't think anybody knew he'd be that, I mean. Yeah. But he was fucking awesome in college. He was just at a tiny, he was a Davidson. Like, you don't know. Like a division three. Joe Zimmerman knew him in college. Really? Yeah, Joe played golf in college.
Yeah, he's just a freak athlete. He's a freak. He could probably retire basketball and be a pro golfer if he wanted. Really? Probably. He's that good at sports. I mean, he's...
There you go. There you go. That's a great fucking clip, though, isn't it? I think of that every time.
Yeah, I don't want to take myself seriously.
I like that I have that to fall back on.
I think that's the formula. There's that famous quote, I think it's Gustave Flaubert said, be violent in your work and ordinary in your life. Yeah. That's a good one.
chris brown was the opposite damn i like that a lot yeah that's good be violent in your work i just re-watched magnolia fuck it's good yeah it's good oh so good he doesn't miss me but that whole character that whole character thing of uh philip baker hall is like did you fuck our daughter and he's like i don't remember what is this a tim robinson sketch i don't know i don't know if i
Oh, Nazi Reilly. He's awesome, isn't he?
I don't love what they did with the ending, but the movie's incredible. It's beautiful.
And the energy of the movie is, like, insane. Yeah. Yes. The zooms and the... The music and, like, the cutting, all these... It's, like, clearly influenced by, like, Robert Altman. Yeah. And, like, bam, bam, bam, all these things happening at once.
I like that one even better.
I don't think you can top that. Yeah, I don't think so either. But he's made some other great shit, too. Oh, yeah, Punch Drunk. That was good. Punch Drunk was really good. The Whoopi Blood was good.
Oh. Yeah. But to laugh, you really have to know what's going on. That's true. Yeah, that's true. He's just not right, right, right, right, right, right, right.
The Whoopi Blood was really good. Over the Boogie Nights.
You're not re-watching There Will Be Blood like you're re-watching. Yeah, exactly.
It's brutal, but it's still kind of fun. Yeah. I mean, Boogie Nights, not There Will Be Blood.
by the way you know it's one of those things where like you could just do you know the technology they have in films you can just shoot this and no one you could just say you went to outer space and didn't go right i know i fucking know yeah yeah gravity looked great it's great and won oscars it's almost it's almost fucked up you're like costing some people work yeah oh yeah he's just going to space there's no crew out there and there's no location scouting either just in space you don't have to pay for the uh the building
Hope so. That would sound great. Dude, I was on the phone with Delta yesterday just complaining about a flight. Yeah. And Anthony just sees me on the street because he was picking me up for a road gig. He was sitting on the street going, well, you better fucking figure it out. And I'm just holding Winnie.
Bodega Cat, baby. Oh, dude, the new bottle's coming soon. I mean, we have it already, I think, but we had a shipping issue today. But Bodega Cat, we're doing it, man.
You have to do the complaints. It's a whole thing. Yeah. I used to have a joke about this in an old special. We don't do complaints. It's a real thing. They don't. They have a complaint division that you can't call. So they can email and they just count on you tiring.
You can talk to a robot about it.
I thought you were going to say there's people getting raped in Delta flights. No, just on the fucking money. Yeah. The mileage. Comfort rape.
Some dyslexic person. It's like brain droppings type stuff.
No, but you could pass as a Jew.
Yeah. Come to the dark side.
I still remember Hannibal Buress had that bit about how he didn't know what Orthodox Jewish people were. So he's like, why don't these Amish guys have blackberries?
Yeah, but they could pay cash, right? Can they use card?
Yeah, because how would you pay it?
Are they allowed to use the slushy machine?
Or is it like, you know, Jews on Saturday, you have to have someone come over?
Have you seen the women, dude? I don't know, dude.
They don't have a Norelco down there. Yeah.
That's a great movie. Old school. No, I read about that one. I heard it's good.
Just a guy yelling, oh, I'm getting shot right now.
Well, Norman turned me on to that guy, Cody Tucker. Cody Tucker.
I got an adapter for my tub at home. So it's like, it's not expensive. It makes it an ice bath? Yeah, it freezes the water. Wow. That's a wreck. And it's clunky as fuck. Oh, wow. I'll tell you it's a wreck. I had to use it a couple of times. Oh, you haven't used it yet? No, I used it twice. And look, it woke me the hell up. Oh, yeah.
Oh, he played him before. He just is like, he'll tell you the origin of words like that.
First thing in the morning, you got to set it up the night before. You just hop in there. You're like, all right, this sucks, but it's also awesome.
We got Bodega Cat whiskey. It's all over New York right now. Strip House is going to carry it. Woo! We've got a new bottle will debut very soon.
No, that's the old bottle.
The new one's sexy. It looks cool. Do we have a picture? Thick with two Cs. Yeah, I will be in London September 18th. Whoa. Belfast September 22nd, the 24th in Dublin, the 25th in Paris. Then I will be in Amsterdam. We had a show in Amsterdam and Paris, so please fill those up. Copenhagen. Oslo, Stockholm, and then, yeah, Cleveland is the next spot. Not until November.
So I'm going to add something in October, but then big tour in January. So keep your eyes open, samorell.com, or just go to punchup.live slash samorell, punchup.live slash Mark Norman, and you can see all our stuff there. Mark, where are you going to be, man?
All right, nine's a harder spot.
I might have to come to that Oakland show.
Yeah, thanks, boys. Punch-Up follows both on punchup.live slash Mark Norman, punchup.live slash Samuel. Go see Simon's, all his movies, Blink Twice. Thanks, guys. The new one's coming out. It's awesome, crushing. It's such a good guest on the podcast.
Love Bad Monkey, dude. It's been great so far. And get some Bodega Cat Whiskey at bodegacatwhiskey.com. We got a new fucking batch. We're making moves with this. If you want a piece of this shit, DM Bodega Kid on IG. I don't know what to do.
Slow it down. They got the right idea, though. We're going to do it. I just smell your fart now.
Sorry. And on that note, it's been a great episode. We love you guys.
This is like a version of the All Dress. Because I said I like All Dress. Is that why you did it? You fucking. What a thoughtful man. You considerate motherfucker, Matt. All Dress is my favorite potato chip. Winnie, you can't have any.
I'm going in three days. Where are you going? London. That's Europe. Where else am I going? Belfast, Dublin, Paris, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Oslo, and Stockholm. That's Europe. Chosen all of them, baby. That's amazing, dude. That's great. I can't wait. And Frank House. That was a hot ticket. That was tough. You got one? I literally couldn't get tickets. It's sold out. I'm like, sold out six weeks.
What is this, fucking Taylor Swift? It's insane that I'm having to call in favors to get into the Anne Frank house. So I put in Instagram stories. I'm like, didn't know it was such a hot ticket. Any help would be appreciated. The Jewish mafia starts hitting me up. Jessica Seinfeld's like, let me know what I can do to help. Schumer DMs me. All these Jews are like, I got you.
And someone said, wait till Tuesday. They put up new tickets, and I waited, and I got them.
I'm sure she was disappointed, too. Yeah.
good point but uh yo europe man van gogh museum too i got tickets so i'm gonna try to do a bang bang out one day in amsterdam it's so annoying i got a few and others yeah there's not enough time and you're not a stoner so you're not gonna go do all that don't do all that because i i try i'm not a stoner either and i was like let me get weed it's amsterdam and i ruined my whole trip yeah why are we not stoners
I think it heightens the doubts. Yeah, that's exactly right. That's why I like drinking it. Fucking shuts up those boys.
Now that I know you, I know you have a ton of anxiety.
It sounds like you're just high. That's a high. Maybe. I don't think. Because normally you just look at a person, right? I feel like it's the weed.
My friend and I were so high once at home, and my dad knew, and he came in, and he just handed a pamphlet on cigarette smoking. It was the most passive-aggressive way to be like, he didn't know it was weed. What is this?
Wow. She has the body of a 16-year-old. Dude.
Dude, we- Reuse it. I had her on the morning show segment in Baltimore, and then I'm walking into the comedy club there, and there's a line for people to get in outside, and as I'm walking around, everyone goes, Winnie!
Winnie! That's awesome. I got to get her like a little scarf and sunglasses. Yeah.
Dude, we haven't even mentioned this, but you're in so many new movies, but you're just in a new one with... Pacino? Oh, yeah. Vince Vaughn.
Really good, dude. What's the new show? Bad Monkey. Oh, is it good? Have you seen it? I'm two in. Oh, really? And I'm loving it. With Vince Vaughn? Yeah. It's like Carl Hyasin books, so it's like Florida Noir. Is that Japanese? No, he's like a Florida Noir type. Oh, wow. Floir. But he's like Vince Vaughn being like a really funny guy.
We did it. Yeah, it's great.
But he didn't get the meaty roles that were used to him.
What do you want me to fucking say? What do you want me to say? They know who they fucking are. We chose as a group and they stood out and they said they belong there.
Okay, answer the fucking question. We keep talking like this out in the fucking parking lot. Out in the parking lot, kid. You give the fucking answers. Fuck that shit, dog. Want a fucking jacket? Want to talk some shit? Let's go step outside, motherfucker. I ain't here for that, dog. Want to talk about fucking fighting? Oh, wow. Want to get fucking rough? Do you think I'm scared?
No, you got two big security guards.
You were a second ago. Yeah.
What did they say?
That's insane.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And then I laughed and he goes, who is this?
Yeah.
Yeah. I love that.
Yeah.
Hmm.
What kind of cream cheese?
I'm going to fight through it continuously.
Oh.
No.
Yeah.
It is boring. It actually is boring?
Kiss me, idiot.
I like that. I like that a lot. And what else happens with it?
Yes.
That's a good one. You guys have such good ones.
What kind of crime is streaking?
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