Esther Perel
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5,077 appearances
21 recordings
15 series
first heard Sep 2024
last heard 21 Jun
Esther Perel’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Listen really.
Don't jump for advice.
because you are not the one who's going to live with the consequences of the advice that you're giving.
So look at things in context.
Don't just take out one thing like that.
And all of that is the difference between our conversation and how this can appear when we go online.
I think one of the biggest things that you're sharing that's kind of I'm becoming aware of in our conversation is
is that a reason why we're scared to message and reply is also because everything's documented today.
So there's a feeling of like, if I send something to you and it makes me look stupid, you're going to send it to all your friends.
If you share something with me and I want to pass it on to someone, it takes one click and all of a sudden it's on the internet.
And so there's this genuine fear of not only am I being evaluated by this person, but I'm potentially being evaluated by their entire circle.
Right.
The leakages, the system of sharing and spreading without necessarily asking and ridiculing and judging and exposing and all of that is happening at the same time as people are talking constantly about safety and boundaries and protection.
It's really interesting, no?
Yeah, it's fascinating.
Exactly.
It's absolutely fascinating because… There's no privacy.
There's no privacy.
So there's no safety and it's no longer even transparency.
Because transparency means we speak out openly about things.
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