Esther Perel

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5,077 appearances 21 recordings 15 series first heard Sep 2024 last heard 21 Jun

Esther Perel’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Sharing.
Can you think about another?
You and your wife have a very different idea about what to do on Saturday morning.
How do you share that difference?
And it's not we come to the middle and we compromise.
It's how do you integrate the various things that are important to each of you, play them out in different ways, and every person feels acknowledged and recognized and valued.
Imagination.
Imagination is the ability to dream, to imagine a future, to project yourself ahead, to build a life project.
Can you say no?
Is it a relationship where people can comfortably say no?
Because if you can't say yes, you can't say no.
But saying no is essential and not indirect and not with coercive measures.
Just simply, I prefer not.
Knowing that when you say no, the other person may not like it and they are entitled not to like it like you are entitled not to want it.
These two shall coexist.
These probably are the primary verbs to add to that curiosity.
Because they are relational verbs.
You can't do them just alone.
I mean, yeah, you can give to yourself and you can receive from that giving, but essentially they practice with you how to relate to another person and how to receive the relatedness of others on you.
Yes, yes.
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