Eve Rodsky

I did.

And so I was very, I was embodying, I think, Elle Woods at the time when I said that.

But I really did feel that I would be able to smash glass ceiling after glass ceiling after glass ceiling, Nicole.

And I think in that moment, what I realized 10 years later was the only thing I was smashing was like peas for my toddler while trying to negotiate my new law firm and a relationship where

two thirds or more, which is the statistic I didn't know at the time, but two thirds or more of unpaid labor to run a home and raise a family, fall on women.

And I think

Even if I had just known that statistic at the time, I would have felt better that it wasn't my marriage.

It wasn't my Seth that was doing this to me.

It was just... It's universal.

Universal, yes.

I'm laughing because it wasn't just I created a spreadsheet for Seth.

This is pre-Fair Play movement.

Now we have over 1,000 plus therapists that are in our Fair Play movement, trained by our credentials.

But a therapist actually told me,

to create a spreadsheet for Seth that if I was so overwhelmed that I should just make a list.

And I don't know if anybody out there has heard that advice, but it's really fucked up advice.

I don't know if you have to bleep that out, but I really despise that advice because it puts all the onus on women and

It sort of assumes that because of our gender, somehow we know better.

Somehow we have the better skills to raise a child, which is, you know, false in so many different ways.

But yeah, a therapist told me to do that.