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Father Knows Something · 164: Father Knows: Insecurity · 15 Apr 2025 podcast

If you have a use for something, it's great to have something and be able to use it and enjoy it with whatever it does to bring your enjoyment. But you got to be able to be able to do it comfortably without any stress. And that's the thing is go through life with the comfort of the simplest things and And whatever else happens is a bonus.

But be delighted that you get to experience and enjoy life with your friends at the most basic, simplest levels. That's right. And then you'll have no issue.

Doesn't matter what they have. Great for them. I'm glad they're happy. It makes them happy. It's not a problem. I don't treat any of my friends that have other items and say... go enjoy that because that's sarcasm and that's negative. That's not really saying go have fun, enjoy whatever, whatever you do, whatever you get, enjoy it for whatever, for whatever reason.

And if one day you find you don't enjoy it, you'll get rid of it and go find something else that you enjoy.

I really do enjoy the people that are in my life. I enjoy doing this show. I enjoy walking the dog. There's certain things that are so basic. It's the small things. It really is. And they're the easy things. They don't bring on any stress or any pressure. And that's a nice way to live.

We all use the word organically. It will organically happen.

It's exactly when it happens.

Thanks for writing. Let us know what happens with that one and how you find your happiness and keep developing.

We're going to move on to number three.

All right. Let's go do it. Okay.

Wow, there's a lot of dynamics going on here. I think that you would be happy if you want to even marry the guy, but if you do want to marry the guy, you would be happy to have something with grandma and grandpa and make them satisfied that they can be a part of it. But does that mean it has to involve a 200 person wedding?

If it's too much for you, no, it can involve going to the courthouse or going to someone who's going to marry you, standing in front of them and have grandma and grandpa could be in the front row, whoever you want to have next to you. And the very intimate small gig and you know, Whatever you choose. You're just trying to get through the fact, is this your person? And that's step one.

And in relationships, they don't always go smoothly. And the longer you've been together, the more comfortable you are. You feel that you can voice what's really important to you. But you can't be criticized when you do it. You have to really be able to say, I understand your thought process. Here's my thought process. And we need to work through this.

Now, this is a decision you're going to have to figure out. Can you guys work out the fact that you are more important than than the rest of the people outside your nucleus. You know, when I'm in a relationship and I've figured out who's my nucleus, no one's going to bust that. That is my nucleus.

And that is, when I'm in that place, that's a beautiful place to be because you really have your person that you guys can work together to achieve it. You may not always agree on how to achieve it because we're different. Um, and that's the point. You gotta be really able to listen to them, maybe even learn from them, hear them.

And it's going to be okay. Even if you may not get what you, the way you wanted to do it, it might just work out just fine because you love each other and you trust one another.

And the fact that these people try to hijack your lives and it was important that you, they don't hide. Look, some people may have said, shit, let them go make the wedding and we'll show up. And some people say, that's not going to work for me. And you're the second person, the second type. I don't want them to go just make it and have me show up.

I want to have a small wedding or I want to be able to do it this way. And that's exactly what you should do and not change it. And if you can't afford to do a big one, you just do the small intimate one. If they want to show up, great. If they don't, oh, well. I'm sure it's important to him to have his grandparents there. And my hat's off to you to say, you know, I can see the importance.

But these are the constraints that we're going to do it. Yeah. And whoever wants to be on board with it, great. And whoever doesn't, oh, well. Because remember, this is your nucleus. It's not their nucleus. Yes.

He found himself on the front door mat with the door locked.

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