Father
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118 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard Apr 2025
last heard 8 Jun
Father’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Are you okay if he breaks, if she says, you know something, honey, seven years, I get it. We've spent together, but I recognize that this is not going to work. I cannot recover from that pain and we got to move on. Is that okay?
And what happens if they break up? There could be two different things. A couple of things can happen. One, she can end up missing him and saying, there's no way I'm going to continue not being with him. I know what he means to me. I want to be in that life. And at the same time, maybe he'll have some hallelujah moments and they can work it out.
Or number two, they can break up and they can say, you know something, I don't even miss them.
Because that happens.
So, you know, give it some thought and live what you think. Engage it and see what happens. I mean, it's been seven months. It's not healing, it doesn't sound like it's healing. It sounds like there's a gap and in order to heal the gap, she may have to just process this to say, am I prepared to move forward and let this all sink in?
Because it's got to really sink in that what their life is without one another. and say, do I really want this person in my life? And or will I let this person out of my life? And, you know, I've had this conversation before. I had that moment. I made that change. I said, I got to find out one way or the other what is going to happen. And at the end of the day, I made the right decision.
Absolutely. Without a question.
And you move forward. And it allows your ability to get the right person. And it's honest. And it's clean. So you have to make that choice. You may walk away. And next thing you know, two or three months later, say, you know something, I really recognize that I could have worked this out. And I need to go see where that person is and see if we want to do it.
And then it's something to go talk about.
It does. It really does.
Well, it was a simple thing for him. He sided with his family and it locked him out of your heart at that moment. But if you can't get that lock opened... You know, you're doomed. You've got to come at it from a way that you want it to be there because you do discover that this person is the love of your life.
In my case, I found that I made the right choice and opened the door for me maybe to find the love of my life. Without that, it would never have happened.
She changed. She had the switch go off. She has changed and she has not changed back.
She's not changed.
So there's only one direction you can go. You gotta, you gotta, you gotta push them. You gotta work the muscle. You gotta push the muscle. See what happens. See if it gets stronger. See if it just goes away. Yeah. We move on to a new one. So we wish you, uh, great discoveries and happiness. Either way, it's going to work out because right now you're sitting in limbo and you're keeping score.
And I always say, when you start to keep score, game over. So let us know what you do, please. And I'm sure there'll be a lot of write-ins on this one as well. Yes. So we look for your comments.
I look forward to it.
Number four.
A lot of things are timing. Everything in life is timing. How do you mention to people? I think people are still going to be happy. The fact that you're going to go through an experience. I think it's just timing when you deliver it and how you deliver it. And do I have that answer? I don't.
And you also have to look at the fact that they might be upset eventually if you don't tell them. Why didn't you tell us that you were pregnant? So you can say in your conversation, I know you guys have been through some hardship. And I don't want to do anything to hurt your feelings, but I also don't want to make you angry with me if I don't share something with you.
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