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Something that kind of ties into this a little bit is where I self-categorized myself early on in life as someone who, when they say they're going to do something, they do it.

And it's not just about, it wasn't even just down to, oh, if I say I'm going to,

um if i say i'm gonna call you on your birthday i'm gonna call you on birthday it wasn't even stuff like that it was more about like life goals okay um and again i feel like that has motivated that's helped me get everything in my life um but i think it also plays a factor in this issue that i have yeah of like if i say i'm gonna do something i absolutely have to do it yeah and if it's looking like we're not gonna do it yeah i just want to forget that i ever even said i was gonna do it yeah

And I hope the other person forgets too.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

I hope that everyone forgets that I said I was going to do it.

Yeah.

And yeah, I remember that started when like year eight.

I was chilling with my friends.

The fact that you remember a specific moment.

Because I remember the exact day it happened.

Okay, go on.

I'm listening.

In year eight, me and my boys were chilling.

And then Mal, you know Mal.

Yeah, yeah.

We were just talking about like traits that we have as friends.

Like, oh...

Mal's the type of person that this, and John is the type of person that this, and then for some reason it came around to me.

And then Mal randomly gave me like the biggest compliment I've ever had in that moment.