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Freya India

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Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So I think if you go too far in it, you can just interpret anyone or anything as a threat to your peace.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So I think if you go too far in it, you can just interpret anyone or anything as a threat to your peace.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yes. But I don't think that's really getting across to young women. I think Yeah, I think what the problem is, is you go on something like TikTok and you have like a trauma-informed therapist who might be interesting and informative, but she's now competing in an attention economy. So she has to create a video which is engaging and extreme.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yes. But I don't think that's really getting across to young women. I think Yeah, I think what the problem is, is you go on something like TikTok and you have like a trauma-informed therapist who might be interesting and informative, but she's now competing in an attention economy. So she has to create a video which is engaging and extreme.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yes. But I don't think that's really getting across to young women. I think Yeah, I think what the problem is, is you go on something like TikTok and you have like a trauma-informed therapist who might be interesting and informative, but she's now competing in an attention economy. So she has to create a video which is engaging and extreme.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So she has to say five red flags you should avoid in men. And they're things that are just so vague and... What like? Things like, well, I literally saw one that said gifts and trips is a red flag because it's love bombing. Okay. But other things like they'll say, you know, you're in a bad relationship if he makes you feel insecure, for example. Yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So she has to say five red flags you should avoid in men. And they're things that are just so vague and... What like? Things like, well, I literally saw one that said gifts and trips is a red flag because it's love bombing. Okay. But other things like they'll say, you know, you're in a bad relationship if he makes you feel insecure, for example. Yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So she has to say five red flags you should avoid in men. And they're things that are just so vague and... What like? Things like, well, I literally saw one that said gifts and trips is a red flag because it's love bombing. Okay. But other things like they'll say, you know, you're in a bad relationship if he makes you feel insecure, for example. Yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

By making a comment about your looks, but it's so vague that it's like, well, anyone's boyfriend could be included in that somehow. But if you add them all together, if you're scrolling through this all day, every day, which a lot of girls are, the message is basically like anyone can be toxic and anyone can be a red flag. Unsafe. Yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

By making a comment about your looks, but it's so vague that it's like, well, anyone's boyfriend could be included in that somehow. But if you add them all together, if you're scrolling through this all day, every day, which a lot of girls are, the message is basically like anyone can be toxic and anyone can be a red flag. Unsafe. Yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

By making a comment about your looks, but it's so vague that it's like, well, anyone's boyfriend could be included in that somehow. But if you add them all together, if you're scrolling through this all day, every day, which a lot of girls are, the message is basically like anyone can be toxic and anyone can be a red flag. Unsafe. Yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

And unfortunately, girls do co-ruminate together and it's really bad for their mental health. Co-ruminate. Yeah. So dwelling on their problems with friends, which if you think of something like a Reddit forum, that is just a rumination machine. It's just like it's there for everybody to analyze together.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

And unfortunately, girls do co-ruminate together and it's really bad for their mental health. Co-ruminate. Yeah. So dwelling on their problems with friends, which if you think of something like a Reddit forum, that is just a rumination machine. It's just like it's there for everybody to analyze together.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

And unfortunately, girls do co-ruminate together and it's really bad for their mental health. Co-ruminate. Yeah. So dwelling on their problems with friends, which if you think of something like a Reddit forum, that is just a rumination machine. It's just like it's there for everybody to analyze together.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

TikTok is literally somewhere you can ruminate and then it will start recommending you new disorders and problems. So it's like, it's kind of like the inner world of these young girls, but now getting fed more and more to them.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

TikTok is literally somewhere you can ruminate and then it will start recommending you new disorders and problems. So it's like, it's kind of like the inner world of these young girls, but now getting fed more and more to them.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

TikTok is literally somewhere you can ruminate and then it will start recommending you new disorders and problems. So it's like, it's kind of like the inner world of these young girls, but now getting fed more and more to them.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. And the most risk averse, neurotic, anxious women on there will get the most traction because they'll be saying.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. And the most risk averse, neurotic, anxious women on there will get the most traction because they'll be saying.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. And the most risk averse, neurotic, anxious women on there will get the most traction because they'll be saying.