Freya

I don't think it should be a coming out at all.

I think that doing all of that, it puts power into somebody else's hands and it puts you in a very vulnerable position and it is just who you are.

And that to me, it just seems wrong.

I went through all of that and I had the hatred, I had the kicked out the house, and then I came back

I put my Tinder on and it was to girls only because I was like, if I'm going to do this, we're going to we're going to go in.

Yeah.

Fuck it.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And I did.

Fuck it up.

I did.

did I love it and I was like seeing it I was like dating a couple of girls and I like had this longer term relationship and I was like seeing another girl and then I had like the long term relationship which I've just come out of which was six years and obviously we developed me and Scarlett developed the podcast together and we share a dog and we've got the events together as well so when I tell you that lesbians don't do things in half measures no

Yes.

How did y'all make that transition?

I understand that it's really unconventional, to be fair.

Like, and I do think that you are definitely more in the majority for feeling the way that you do.

I think with me and Scarlett, we had a very deep connection within our relationship and we have a lot of love and a lot of care for one another.

I think that relationship naturally transpired into more of like a friendship anyway.

We also had a terrible breakup.