Gemma Cribb
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1,656 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2017
last heard Jan 2020
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and starting to really get absorbed in the journey and the pleasure that's available at all the steps on the way up to the orgasm.
Uh and then often what you'll find is you'll accidentally orgasm, um, rather than if you're s questing for it, uh, often it can be elusive.
you will have to at uh to various degrees put aside your own needs and just be really receptive and responsive.
Keep checking in with your partner.
How is this?
Unless your pattern doesn't like that, you know, you've got to have an agreement about who's going to check in, but
Also be aware that the body and the words might have different responses.
So you might want to check in with your partner, look you're saying yes, but you're really stiff and not relaxed at all.
Should we go slower?
Um, and being aware of all the different levels of yes because the person that you're with might not actually be aware of it themselves on a conscious level.
Yeah, uh it's a balancing act between respecting yourself and what your body wants, but also creating your own sexuality as an independent identity from that sexual abuse and and different people like to do it differently.
Some people don't mind integrating
their history with their current version of sexuality so they'll say, you know what, I'm happy to do anything except for oral sex, for example, because, you know, of my history, that's not okay for me and and that's really fine for them.
They don't want to ever do that.
Other people want to work through all aspects of their sexuality and and see if they can reclaim
claim at all.
In which case as a partner you just need to be guided by them uh as to what they're ready for.
um and work out how they like to be treated and and what pacing works for them.
Well I guess you can be hopeful in that
Trauma can be overcome.
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