Gemma Cribb
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1,656 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2017
last heard Jan 2020
Gemma Cribb’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I would probably at a guess, and of course I can't know this, I'd probably at a guess put that to his new partner.
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It seems odd that he's changed his mind so comprehensively.
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And so rekindling will involve him negotiating whatever he needs to negotiate with her to allow that to happen.
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My guess would be she's the one that you've got to convince.
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It's a guess.
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I can't guarantee it.
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But, you know, if you wanted to do anything to try... I
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guess the other really hurtful thing there is he's obviously very important to you even as a friend and he's not really valuing that friendship in return.
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If he can sit there and say, oh, I'm only keeping people who I'm really close to as a friend, it's, you know, he's got a different idea in his head as to what you thought he had.
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what I would do is I would sit down and make a list of all the things that annoyed you about your ex.
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Everything that wasn't quite right that you had to put up with.
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And when you're on a new date or when you're meeting new people, see if you can on purpose focus on the things that work with this person, particularly if the things that work with this person are the things that didn't work with your ex.
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But constantly reminding yourself that your ex wasn't perfect and that there were things that weren't great in the relationship
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that dynamic.
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Yeah, look, I do think that if you can notice a difference, then your friend with benefits will notice a difference.
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And rather than leaving them guessing and being uncertain, because that's where anxiety and misunderstanding will breed.
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then telling them what's going on for you and telling them what you're still interested in and what you're not still interested in and keeping them up to date with where you're at is a respectful thing to do because if this person is in fact a friend, then you want to respect them.
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