Gemma Cribb

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1,656 appearances 19 recordings 1 series first heard Jan 2017 last heard Jan 2020

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The Hook Up · Can high-school sweethearts last? · 10 Jul 2018 podcast

And as the caller said, you know, if you're living under their roof and you want their approval, it can be really hard to assert your independence and assert your choice. voice-verified

And can put lots of strain on the relationship. voice-verified

The partner can have all sorts of self-doubt and why don't they like me anymore and what's wrong with me? voice-verified

And you as the person that's the meat in the sandwich, so to speak, can be really in for a tough time. voice-verified

Well, yeah, because it's your first relationship experience. voice-verified

You can often go through a bit of self-doubt. voice-verified

You know, oh, God, are they right? voice-verified

Have I made the right choice? voice-verified

You know, what's wrong with this person? voice-verified

And if you do let your family have some level of control or influence over you, it's very hard going forward to feel confidence in yourself and your own decision making. voice-verified

Totally. voice-verified

I think it's very common to idealise your past and we do tend to think the best about people that we've been with in the past, unless they really hurt us, of course. voice-verified

But I guess the proof is in the pudding, so to speak. voice-verified

If it was just nostalgia, then when you went and had a second round, it wouldn't stick. voice-verified

So it can't just be the good memories that makes the relationship worth a second round. voice-verified

look i think that particular line of thinking is really common when people get together very young they often question oh because i haven't tried a number of different partners how do i know that this feeling i've got is the right feeling and how do i know that this partner i've got is the right partner voice-verified

Now, of course, when we first fall in love, we have all these sparkly, wonderful feelings for about 12 to 18 months, they think. voice-verified

It's called the limerence period. voice-verified

And so you have that classic in love lightning bolts, you know, type of feeling for voice-verified

first little while. voice-verified

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