Gemma Cribb
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1,656 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2017
last heard Jan 2020
Gemma Cribb’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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You have the right to let anyone have access to your house or to block entry.
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And same with social media.
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Yeah, I know it's harsh, but you've sometimes gotta have that as
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the final line and I I do agree sometimes people use it a bit too easy, but it is important for people to be able to make a choice uh without explanation.
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You you're allowed to say no without um reasons or explanations.
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It is really tough and like in Rowan's case you can feel really unfairly treated and feel like you want to defend yourself.
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And I think like that second caller that you had, it is okay if you've got some way of sending that person an email or a message that is just you know look I want to respect that you don't want to hear from me but I just want to
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say that this is my um side of the story or this is my confusion and I'd love the opportunity to work it out but if you don't want to work it out that's totally cool.
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You just need to make sure that you're not forcing yourself on somebody and
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I the second caller said, you know, as long as you're not blaming someone and becoming like really righteous and indignant about being blocked, as long as you're going in there.
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you know, confused and vulnerable and and sort of ge genuinely wanting to work things out.
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You know, they might still choose not to talk to you, in which case don't keep going.
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Um respect their space, yes.
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You bet.
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Or they might, uh, as in the case with the two flatmates, you know
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uh have gotten over their emotions that they were having at the time that they blocked you and and you might be able to sort it out.
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all sorts of reasons why people could do that.
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One of them might be narcissism and it might be a bit of a power trip for them, but I think just at the base of all narcissism a and the base of all power trips there is uh an inability to deal with difficult interpersonal situations like and difficult feelings.
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If you've got relationship skills then you're able to tolerate discomfort and
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and yucky feelings and and try and sort things out.
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