Gemma Cribb

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1,656 appearances 19 recordings 1 series first heard Jan 2017 last heard Jan 2020

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The Hook Up · Why some young people see sex workers · 9 Apr 2018 podcast

in a lot of cases. voice-verified

I'm not saying that sex addiction isn't a thing, it definitely is a thing. voice-verified

But in the way it was represented in the first call, I I think um in a lot of those cases voice-verified

It is a fundamental human need. voice-verified

They did studies back in the nineteen fifties and nineteen sixties where they took baby monkeys away from their mummies. voice-verified

and found that even if they presented the baby monkey with a wire structure that looked like a mummy monkey and that wire structure had food in it, the baby monkey would still cling voice-verified

to a soft cloth mummy that it could cuddle into. voice-verified

And that was one of the first times it was a study by Harry Harlow that we decided that tactility and and skin contact for mammals in general, um, that was monkeys, but it extrapolates to humans, was really, really important for our survival. voice-verified

And so having touch and and having skin to skin contact is uh a drive that we have. voice-verified

The stigma is all about shame and you can only let somebody shame you if you feel shamed yourself. voice-verified

So the first thing you've got to do if you're scared of other people's opinions is really integrate within yourself your choices and have compassion for yourself. voice-verified

for what brought you to that decision. voice-verified

you might have ended up thinking that was a good decision, you might have ended up thinking that was a bad decision, but voice-verified

the person that you were at the time of making that decision made the best choice that they could at that time and for you to feel okay with that, for you to feel a self love around that decision voice-verified

means that it doesn't really matter what other people say in the future, you can have integrity and you can have self esteem. voice-verified

Enough to set some healthy boundaries with whomever seeks to tear you down. voice-verified

Oh, what I usually tell people who are getting to the end of their tether with dating is that voice-verified

Dating is just an extension of relating generally. voice-verified

If you have friends, if you have family members, if you have work colleagues, it it means that you have experience in relating and it's about applying those same skills of voice-verified

Interest and curiosity and respect and engagement. voice-verified

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