Gemma Spake

Do not let an emotional wound fester.

If it has gotten to that point where like you guys are at a stalemate, be the bigger person and reach out.

And I know you probably don't want to hear that.

You probably hate hearing that.

But really the question is this.

Is this friendship worth it to you?

Is it worth saving?

How long have you been friends?

Have you made similar mistakes in the past and been forgiven?

Is this something I think that we can recover from?

It doesn't have to be a mutual decision.

But if you decide like, hey, yeah, I actually love this person.

I'm going to regret not trying to fix this.

I care about them enough to do the hard thing.

You've got to follow that instinct and you've got to do it.

Prepare to be honest.

Go in it with like your heart on your sleeve.

But I think you cannot fix...

And you cannot get out of this if things aren't in the open.

You need to seriously be like, this sucked and I'm really upset and I'm going to let you guys also deal with the consequences of your actions through my emotions.