Gemma Speig
speaker
1,085 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 7 May
Gemma Speig’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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You are just responsible for you.
And in those periods is where you are really able to articulate, what do I want?
out of my one shot at life?
What do I want out of my time here?
What do I really like doing?
What does my true and authentic daily flow look like?
And maybe you answer that question and go, what I really want out of my one true life is to find someone to be amazing.
And you go about that, but how will you know?
If you do not, at some stage, you know, stop letting your own frequency be constantly interrupted by somebody else's.
And people who don't always stay for very long.
Relationships, you know, whether you like it or not, they will shape your daily life.
They will shape your identity.
They will shape even your future imagination.
They will especially shape your thoughts.
I always think about this.
One of the two times you think about somebody or other people the most when you are falling in love with them or when you are falling out of love with them or when you are grieving them.
If you are always in one of those two states, falling in love, breaking up, falling in love, breaking up, the mental real estate becomes very crowded and the mental real estate you have left for yourself becomes very limited.
Those thoughts that you have concerning your own identity and your own needs are not selfish.
They are absolutely essential for self-development, absolutely essential for your ability to articulate your wants and needs.
And so if you find, because it's not always going to be for everybody, but if you find being in a relationship stops you from being able to prioritize that and you are constantly in relationships, the time, when the time comes that you are not in a relationship, when the time comes when you have to really look in the mirror and be like, wait, what do I want?
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