Gorgi Coghlan

I'm like, darling, it is such a superpower.

And I know that gets bandied around a lot, but I'm like, what would you rather it be?

A badge of insensitivity.

I said, you can see stuff that nobody else sees, darling.

All I want you to try and work on is it's not your job to always fix it.

That's exactly it.

Yeah.

And so that's what I tell myself as well.

And that can sound harsh sometimes because I can see so much.

I'm sure sometimes people want to go, oh, she's being a bit harsh there.

Why has she got boundaries?

And maybe that's what it comes back to when you said to me earlier, where do the boundaries come from?

It's not the pleasing.

It's actually to stop being depleted.

Yeah.

So it's to keep myself full and to be the best version of myself to me and then my beautiful family and then my life and my friends is those boundaries keep my cup full.

Beautiful.

Beautiful.

And using the language.

My girlfriends are really proactive, Laila, using the actual language of, thank you so much, I completely respect your boundaries.