Grace Alice O'Shea

Moving through experiences, though, that aren't good at all, because that kind of confuses your brain and body then of, you know.

Yeah, yeah.

I think it's always good to have those go-to's as stuff that you know that works.

So you're like, okay, we know that this works.

So if we get to the point where both of us want to finish or, you know, climax, we know what to do.

But like that doesn't mean we have to go straight to that all the time.

Like there is time before that to try something new.

Like novelty is important.

The brain likes a bit of novelty.

Yeah.

So have your go-tos, have your kind of old favorites, but like do experiment in a way that feels like, you know, comfortable but exciting as well.

Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I don't know.

I mean, everyone's different.

How we learned, again, sex is a learned behavior.

It can just be someone's personality where they're just not a very vocal person, not a very communicative person.

But like it is important for a lot of people, like for that connection to have, like some people are really into talking during sex and dirty talk and all that.