Grace Alice O'Shea
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Being like miles out is probably not going to feel good.
So it's for him to kind of figure out where can I start, you know, with communicating more.
I've helped so many people pick out their first toy.
Of all ages.
And I love hearing someone that's, you know, is that bit older who's interested in it because it's never too late.
You know, pleasure is pleasure.
You can have it at any age.
The best place to start is start quite simple.
I would say, you know, what do you already do?
So, for example, if you...
masturbate in a way that you like to touch yourself, touch your clitoris with your hand, what you could get is a clitoral vibrator.
I know Jenny Keane was talking about finger vibrators, I think, when she was on.
Something like that is actually a great starting point because it's not this big intimidating thing.
And it's just, you know, it's on your hands.
You can touch yourself.
It's not a million miles from what you already do.
Or kind of a toy that could be versatile.
is a G-spot vibrator because G-spot vibrators can be used inside the vagina to stimulate the G-spot.
And usually they can be used on the clitoris and outside as well.
So you kind of get a bit of a, OK, well, if I don't like using it this way, I could use it this way instead.