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You can kind of desensitize it a bit with different techniques, learning to relax the throat, learning to kind of adjust your breathing, even trying different positions when giving oral sex.

I think the bottom line is, though, I mean, only go and put the effort into doing that if it's something you really enjoy and want to do, you know.

Not just for their pleasure, if it's making you really uncomfortable, because like it's not a pleasant experience.

If that's someone now with a really strong reflex who actually feels like sick or feels pain, you know, no one wants to be feeling that.

No.

There are techniques you can try, but like, you know, just check in with yourself as well and make sure you feel OK with what you're doing or being asked to do, because you can give a perfectly good blowjob.

You can perform oral sex perfectly well without, you know, going right back someone's throat, basically.

There's other things to do.

Exactly.

And that's what we see in porn a lot.

You know, it can be very aggressive.

It can be very.

And look again, each their own adults, each their own.

But yeah.

Short answer, generally it can be worked on over time.

But yeah, decide for yourself if you want to do that.

Okay, good answer.

Yeah.

So just the question about low testosterone, I mean, hormones do affect libido, but they're not the be all end all.

That's what I would say.