Guy Itzchakov, PhD
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first heard Jul 2026
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You will feel that I understand you.
And this is the this meta messages.
You belong.
You are competent.
You are worthy of my time.
builds a sense that we call togetherness.
Um research to date has not found a personality characteristic that uh differentiates between good and poor listeners.
And many studies try because they're often the the assumption that makes sense that you know if a person is extroverted, maybe they will be poor listeners because they want to speak more, and maybe if someone's
Introverted, they will be better listeners.
There was some study that found that people who are high on agreeableness are better were perceived as better listeners, but overall, personality traits are not so associated with being perceived.
And as a good listener.
What actually matters here
is it's a skill.
It's a skill, it's a muscle that requires training.
And when you train this muscle, when the whether you're a narcissist or you're an introvert or an extrovert or whatever, you will become better at listening.
One of the more m the interesting findings uh from um um a paper led by my colleague and and uh supervisor um Avi Kluger was that we found in a study that listening is a actually dyadic.
So
Meaning that uh being perceived as a good listener depends on the person that I'm talking to.
So for example, I can be a great listener to um my neighbor, perceived as a great listener to my neighbor, but a horrible listener perceived as a horrible listener to you.
So the perception of listening quality depends on the listener-speaker diet.
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