Guy Itzchakov, PhD
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 1 Jul
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I often, when we challenge this assumption, really, because you and I can share a similar experience, but the subjective experience would be completely different for us, even if we use the same emotion.
The extent to which I say I felt excited, and you'll say I felt excited is completely different for both of us.
In order to really step into the person's shoes, the speaker's shoes, I need to challenge.
this basic assumption, Rogers call it the need to evaluate.
What we oh I understand what Kim said.
I will I'm patient.
I will wait till until f she finishes and then I will tell her what I think.
This is where miscommunication happens.
Because when we challenge this assumption, we often realize that what we initially thought we an we understood is not what the speaker meant.
Now, the reason I'm I went to this misperception, this is only one misperception.
I know saying I know what you mean.
It's basically like saying, trust me.
No one will trust me if I actually say trust me.
This is a direct message.
A meta-message is a message that is conveyed through behaviors.
So during a conversation, when the listener exhibits high-quality listening using many behaviors, but they signal to their speakers, you belong.
You are important.
When I paraphrase what you're saying and I ask you at the end, hey Kim, did I understand you correctly?
Did they miss anything?
I don't need to tell you I understand you.
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