Heather Turgeon
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155 appearances
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first heard Mar 2019
last heard Mar 2019
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Oh wait a minute.
Okay, hold on.
Sorry, I was getting frustrated.
This is what I meant to say.
Or even the next day or later that day to say, you know, I was um thinking about what happened earlier and I was really frustrated because XYZ and then I I said this and I think, you know, what were you thinking or you know, feeling at the time?
Try to process it and acknowledge what happened and
then it brings you back together in sync and
We always recommend to our clients that they repair because instead of brushing it under the
the rug and hoping that that you know it's fine and nobody cares and nobody remembers.
Just go back.
You can go back at any time to repair.
Yeah, we love the iceberg analogy.
I think that's one of my husband's drawings.
So
Yea.
Amen.
Um, so the iceberg, the the visual analogy of the iceberg is that if you imagine that what you're struggling with, what you're seeing in front of you is a difficult behavior like hitting or not listening or whining or or having a tantrum.
That's like ten percent of what's going on with your child is just what you can see poking its head above the surface of the water.
But
Really, our job as parents, and this is part of the attune step, is to go under the iceberg and imagine what
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