Hillary McVeigh

And so you mentioned this as well about attracting the people that you have now in your life and you probably didn't expect those types of relationships or people existed.

And I think there is something to be said of you have to be the energy of what they would want to connect to as well.

And especially in dating, especially in friendships where it's like it always starts with you first.

No, he's so beautiful because I remember I had this exact realization yet of the people that you're going to maybe love the most in your whole life you may have not even met yet.

How beautiful is that?

Like there is someone walking around in this world or someone that hasn't yet been born that could be the most important person in your life and you haven't even met them yet.

And like, it's just so beautiful that knowing.

And also I just truly believe that if you're thinking of someone, they're thinking of you and absolutely whoever is the lucky man, he would have been thinking about like, where's my woman, you know?

And this is where you kind of, you focus on your relationship to yourself and all the things that you're doing.

And then again, let it not make logical sense how you end up meeting.

Yeah.

And it's always this funny thing where you like look back and you're like, why did I ever worry?

But it's just, it's like, you know.

Yeah.

And.

I think as well with this, as you said, it's like loving the person that you are with them.

I think we sometimes think that, yeah, it's just like you love that person, but it's not like you love who you get to be with that person.

It's because love is an internal experience.

Like no one can plop love in you.

It's like your love is in you.