Hope Edelman

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545 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 16 Jul

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The Tamsen Show · What No One Tells You About Grief After Losing Your Mother · 16 Jul 2026 podcast

But she had no control over that flight.

She was not flying the plane.

Really what she's feeling is deep regret that this series of events occurred and she couldn't be with her mother.

And sometimes being able to understand that distinction helps us understand, well, there's nothing I could have done to create a different outcome.

It's not on me.

But if she had said, you know,

I'd really rather do this other thing and I'll fly home tomorrow.

And she feels guilty about the choice she made to not get back there in time.

That's different.

That's something we can work on and work through and parse out and unpack and help her with.

But that is guilt because maybe she chose not to go.

Very different.

Well, first I try to assess if they feel that that independence is an asset that helps them or if they feel that there are times when it works against them and isn't serving them well anymore.

Most of us became independent out of necessity, not out of choice.

I mean, some of us maybe were independent to begin with before our moms died.

I don't really know if I was or not.

I was so young.

I mean, I was off with my friends a lot, but that's totally normal for a 15 and 16 year old.

So would I have been so independent if my mom hadn't died?

I don't think so.

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