James Sexton

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1,270 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Sep 2026 last heard 5d ago

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The legal system produces outcomes.

If you're looking for a judge

To vindicate you in the history of your marriage, it's not going to happen.

Like a judge divides property, sets a schedule, and then goes to lunch.

Like this is their job.

This is what they do.

Like if you treat it as the last round of the argument of your marriage, you will be disappointed.

And that's something I think sometimes people don't realize until after they're through the process.

And I also think, you know, one of the biggest mistakes people make when they're in it is deciding

on a timeline of how they're gonna view this divorce by everyone's worst moment.

Like their worst moment, their spouse's worst moment, and decide that that's going to be the defining moment of our marriage or our divorce or both.

If you judge my parenting by my greatest moment as a parent, you're giving me way too much credit.

And if you judge my parenting by my weakest, most impatient moment as a parent, you're not being fair to me.

Yeah.

So I think unattended sorrow is very toxic in every setting and divorce is no exception.

I think you have to attend to your sorrow.

I think you have to grieve.

I think that grief isn't evidence that love failed.

I think that grief is evidence that love matters.

And I think it's really important for people.

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