James Sexton

Every single thing you own, some points can be on the junk heap.

Doesn't mean anything.

What really means something, I believe, is the deep connections and love we feel.

When you look back on your life, it's just a series of moments where you felt loved.

and where you loved someone.

Like it's everything, it's everything.

Like I'm a divorce lawyer.

Like people imagine me to be like the grim reaper of love and marriage.

Like, and fundamentally, like I think I'm the total opposite of that.

Like I am, being around endings has made me so unbelievably grateful for the core thing, which is love and connection.

To feel love, because I think our biggest fear

is that we're not worthy of love, that we don't deserve love, that the people who love us, they don't really know us.

If they knew us, they wouldn't love us.

They would know that we're just a mess.

But the truth is, it's not true.

Like if you said to me, Tom, like off camera, Jim, like I know I seem like I got it together, but like I'm a mess, man.

I feel like a mess.

Like I'm so weak sometimes.

I make mistakes all the time.

I'm short-sighted.