James Sexton

I think people are hungry for something I'm giving them.

And so I think about that question of like, what is it we're hungry for?

Because I'm satisfying some appetite that people have because it's, you know, I'll say, but I'll tell you the truth.

I'm always shocked by it.

Like, a couple of weeks ago, I said something about how I don't understand why people in romantic relationships feel like they have to sleep in the same bed.

And it got like 8.6 million views and tens of thousands of comments.

And I never thought that was that great

And it was, people were very, you know, some people were like, oh my God, preach.

Like, why would you sleep in the same bed?

Like, it's like you starfish out.

It feels so much better.

And then other people are like, are you kidding me?

Like, it's so good for my relationship that we have that like time together in the den, all tucked in.

Just the fact that it's sparked this conversation is so interesting because I think we are hungry for this topic.

It's a great equalizer.

Like whatever your political views, whatever your dietary preferences, whatever your exercise preferences, whatever you do for a living, we all want love and connection.

We all start, if we get married, we all start the marriage with the same, I want this to be forever.

I want this to work.

Like, you know, one of the things that drew me to divorce work was the same thing that drew me to Brazilian jujitsu, which is it's very hard to be full of crap

in Brazilian jiu-jitsu.