Jasmine Star

And so having that growing up, but then also realizing you're owed nothing. Getting into the country, congrats. Being born into this country, congrats, you're old jack squat. Everything that you have is on the back of your willingness to do the damn work. And so what it made me gritty knowing I'm owed nothing. I don't, just because I start a business doesn't mean my business should be successful.

Just because I start a business and it's successful doesn't mean I'm gonna be the top 1%. If I go in and my, my perspective, just like Simon Sinek says that this is an infinite game. There's no such thing as winning in business. You can win your own game, but many of us don't even define what the game we're playing is.

Just because I start a business and it's successful doesn't mean I'm gonna be the top 1%. If I go in and my, my perspective, just like Simon Sinek says that this is an infinite game. There's no such thing as winning in business. You can win your own game, but many of us don't even define what the game we're playing is.

Just because I start a business and it's successful doesn't mean I'm gonna be the top 1%. If I go in and my, my perspective, just like Simon Sinek says that this is an infinite game. There's no such thing as winning in business. You can win your own game, but many of us don't even define what the game we're playing is.

And so all of a sudden we play a game in our own mind where we move the goalpost. And so it's just like all this year, you know, it's like, I'm going to do my 10 million. And the minute we get to 9.5, it's like, No, no, no. I see what I need. What I really meant was 11. And then we beat ourselves up at the end of the year because we didn't do the thing that we wanted to do.

And so all of a sudden we play a game in our own mind where we move the goalpost. And so it's just like all this year, you know, it's like, I'm going to do my 10 million. And the minute we get to 9.5, it's like, No, no, no. I see what I need. What I really meant was 11. And then we beat ourselves up at the end of the year because we didn't do the thing that we wanted to do.

And so all of a sudden we play a game in our own mind where we move the goalpost. And so it's just like all this year, you know, it's like, I'm going to do my 10 million. And the minute we get to 9.5, it's like, No, no, no. I see what I need. What I really meant was 11. And then we beat ourselves up at the end of the year because we didn't do the thing that we wanted to do.

What game are you actually playing? Because the minute that we define our rubric of success, because sometimes money isn't always the goal. Sometimes the goal is, do I have more time to do the things I want to do with the people I want to do it?

What game are you actually playing? Because the minute that we define our rubric of success, because sometimes money isn't always the goal. Sometimes the goal is, do I have more time to do the things I want to do with the people I want to do it?

What game are you actually playing? Because the minute that we define our rubric of success, because sometimes money isn't always the goal. Sometimes the goal is, do I have more time to do the things I want to do with the people I want to do it?

with it's like what is the point of having an 11 million dollar a year if on the back of it you missed the people and the things that were the most important to you you didn't win you lost you just didn't know what game you were playing so for us to actually have a conversation of like what makes you gritty well first and foremost let's talk about what we're owed nothing let's talk about how we win setting some goals and then working like hell to get them but not at the cost of compromising the thing that's the most important to you so what makes me gritty the fact that i have simply chosen

with it's like what is the point of having an 11 million dollar a year if on the back of it you missed the people and the things that were the most important to you you didn't win you lost you just didn't know what game you were playing so for us to actually have a conversation of like what makes you gritty well first and foremost let's talk about what we're owed nothing let's talk about how we win setting some goals and then working like hell to get them but not at the cost of compromising the thing that's the most important to you so what makes me gritty the fact that i have simply chosen

with it's like what is the point of having an 11 million dollar a year if on the back of it you missed the people and the things that were the most important to you you didn't win you lost you just didn't know what game you were playing so for us to actually have a conversation of like what makes you gritty well first and foremost let's talk about what we're owed nothing let's talk about how we win setting some goals and then working like hell to get them but not at the cost of compromising the thing that's the most important to you so what makes me gritty the fact that i have simply chosen

This is the game I want to play. And every time I get punched in the gut, because we always do, that's the sport. We're literally playing emotional rugby all day, every day. We play rugby in our sleep. I don't know about you. I play rugby in my sleep. I wake up and I'm like, oh my God. Oh my God. This is the game we're voluntarily playing. We signed up for it.

This is the game I want to play. And every time I get punched in the gut, because we always do, that's the sport. We're literally playing emotional rugby all day, every day. We play rugby in our sleep. I don't know about you. I play rugby in my sleep. I wake up and I'm like, oh my God. Oh my God. This is the game we're voluntarily playing. We signed up for it.

This is the game I want to play. And every time I get punched in the gut, because we always do, that's the sport. We're literally playing emotional rugby all day, every day. We play rugby in our sleep. I don't know about you. I play rugby in my sleep. I wake up and I'm like, oh my God. Oh my God. This is the game we're voluntarily playing. We signed up for it.

We can't complain about the thing that we want to do to get us to where we want to go. So I just think what a privilege. What a privilege that I get to wake up, go on a walk in Newport Beach, have breakfast with my daughter, have a conversation with somebody I find intellectually stimulating where we get to help and empower other people.

We can't complain about the thing that we want to do to get us to where we want to go. So I just think what a privilege. What a privilege that I get to wake up, go on a walk in Newport Beach, have breakfast with my daughter, have a conversation with somebody I find intellectually stimulating where we get to help and empower other people.

We can't complain about the thing that we want to do to get us to where we want to go. So I just think what a privilege. What a privilege that I get to wake up, go on a walk in Newport Beach, have breakfast with my daughter, have a conversation with somebody I find intellectually stimulating where we get to help and empower other people.

And then I get to go in and do coaching on the inside of Social Curator. And then I get to create content. I get to do podcasts. What an honor and what a luxury. So if I want both sides of it, the lifestyle, the luxury, I better be able to wake up after my teeth have been knocked out and say, okay, this is the game I'm playing. I've chosen this. What an honor and what a privilege.