Jasmine Star
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first heard Dec 2024
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Absolutely.
You know, I often discuss that the thing, the sneaky thing that stops most entrepreneurs from getting their business in front of others is comparison. And once we start understanding comparison, so oftentimes whenever I give a presentation or whenever I do a coaching session or a consulting session, I am literally starting there.
Because if I tell you this is on the horizon, when it slaps you across the face, it's not so much a shock. So anybody who's listening right now, let me predict your future. The thing that will stop you from doing the thing that you know you have been called to do is not lack of money, resources, or education. It is simply the fact of comparison.
But let's break down comparison because the way I see it is it takes on three manifestations. It takes on a mental manifestation. I am not. I am not that person. I am not Ryan. Therefore, I can't get that success. I am too old, too young, too fat, too skinny, too black, too white, too old, too young. will say I'm to this, therefore I can't do that. So that's an easy way out.
The second one is emotional. And this one's very, very hard to identify because most of the time people don't wake up and say, I'm not worthy. They don't say I'm not worthy, but it takes on an uglier form. It will say, I'm just not sure I'm capable of that big dream. I don't think that that's really gonna happen.
So we low key keep a subversive thought in our mind that's actually stopping us from doing that thing. And then the third one is going to be visual, right? I'm not on the Amalfi Coast this summer. I don't have a Ferrari. I'm not at that resort. I don't have that perfect house with those perfect kids in that perfect kitchen to do the perfect reel that I need.
And so we have these visual, intellectual, emotional moments things that stop us. But if we were to turn it on its side and simply say, you might be too old and you might be too white and you might be, but there is somebody out there who is just as white and just as old who needs to hear it your way. And in fact, even if you were to say that person does it their own way, guess what?
You might be saying the same message, but you're a different messenger. Beyond that, even if you are sharing the same message and you have a twin brother or a triplet, guess what? The mechanism. You might be a great podcast host, writer, speaker. You might be great on social.
We all do things different ways and we need to do it in our own way so that the person who needs what we do the way we do it can get it. And the other thing is I think that this dream might be too big and I am not sure. Listen, you wouldn't have got the dream if it wasn't in you to succeed. You didn't wake up this morning being like, you want to know what? I'm the next NBA star. You
No, you're not. Not if you're 5'10 and you're 37. Chances are it's not there, right? So we don't get dreams. We have desires. Like I would love to be an NBA player, but we don't get the dream. You got the dream because something in you deeply believes that you could do it. But if you talk yourself out of it, the only person who's stopping your success is you.
And then we go back to the physical things. Well, I don't have that. Guess what? The vast majority of people don't. And just because you're at that resort or you're on that vacation or you drive that car doesn't mean that everybody wants to be coached by a service or by a product. from that type of person.
So we have to say that your Honda Accord living in the Midwest with three kids who are just doing the dang thing in your own way with your $100,000 job and your side hustle of Etsy, somebody's like, that's what I want. So far be it from you to say that the way that you see the desires of the world is how other people do it. And so we can come here and talk all about comparison.
So when you're ready to get your business in front of other people, I want you to say, am I emotionally comparing? Am I physically comparing? What kind of comparison is it? Stop it in its tracks and tell yourself a different story. You get to choose your story. If you would like to fight for your limitations, go right ahead.
But if you would like to fight for empowering statements of why somebody needs what it is you sell, I'll clap you right up.
So I am producing three to four reels a week. And I'm posting also on TikTok in the same frequency. And what I try to do is batch all of the content two days out of the month. And so I'll set aside five hours every other Friday. And what is so important is to have a plan going in. I know the reels that I want to create. I also write down the copy for the reel.
So it's like, instead of wasting time, you're like, oh, what are my three tips for this reel? So everything's laid out, including, am I going to do an outfit change? Because if I need to do an outfit change, I need to have a total count for the outfits that I need for that specific time.
And so I go in and I have a document, the reel I want to create, how long I think it's going to take me to create it, what props that I need, and the copy for that reel. Sit down, create them in real time, save them as drafts or just save to the video, and then upload when I'm ready.
So I am producing three to four reels a week. And I'm posting also on TikTok in the same frequency. And what I try to do is batch all of the content two days out of the month. And so I'll set aside five hours every other Friday. And what is so important is to have a plan going in. I know the reels that I want to create. I also write down the copy for the reel.
So it's like, instead of wasting time, you're like, oh, what are my three tips for this reel? So everything's laid out, including am I going to do an outfit change? Because if I need to do an outfit change, I need to have a total count for the outfits that I need for that specific time.
And so I go in and I have a document, the reel I want to create, how long I think it's going to take me to create it, what props that I need and the copy for that reel. Sit down, create them in real time, save them as drafts or just save to the video and then upload when I'm ready.
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