Jason Feifer
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And, and for a while you were like, well, but maybe they can both be babies and they can both have their own little nurseries at home. But you're thinking, no, no, no. Like this is, this is, this is actually like to have a child is in some way to accelerate or to force the evolution of the other things in your life, which, which is exactly what it's worth.
And, and for a while you were like, well, but maybe they can both be babies and they can both have their own little nurseries at home. But you're thinking, no, no, no. Like this is, this is, this is actually like to have a child is in some way to accelerate or to force the evolution of the other things in your life, which, which is exactly what it's worth.
What I have found with me, like I am, and we've talked about this, I am so deeply frustrated with, By the thoughts of how much more I might have accomplished or could do or whatever that I can't because I have kids. But at the same time, I have to remind myself that the time of my life in which I have had children, which has been nine years, I have a nine year old and a five year old.
What I have found with me, like I am, and we've talked about this, I am so deeply frustrated with, By the thoughts of how much more I might have accomplished or could do or whatever that I can't because I have kids. But at the same time, I have to remind myself that the time of my life in which I have had children, which has been nine years, I have a nine year old and a five year old.
What I have found with me, like I am, and we've talked about this, I am so deeply frustrated with, By the thoughts of how much more I might have accomplished or could do or whatever that I can't because I have kids. But at the same time, I have to remind myself that the time of my life in which I have had children, which has been nine years, I have a nine year old and a five year old.
That time has been the time of greatest accomplishment in my life. I have built the most during that time. So even as I focus on all the things that I couldn't do, I've also done the most. And why is that? I mean, part of that is just like, if you're doing life correctly, then there should always be new things and you're growing.
That time has been the time of greatest accomplishment in my life. I have built the most during that time. So even as I focus on all the things that I couldn't do, I've also done the most. And why is that? I mean, part of that is just like, if you're doing life correctly, then there should always be new things and you're growing.
That time has been the time of greatest accomplishment in my life. I have built the most during that time. So even as I focus on all the things that I couldn't do, I've also done the most. And why is that? I mean, part of that is just like, if you're doing life correctly, then there should always be new things and you're growing.
But another part of it is that I think that just having the kid forced me to put structures around my time in a way that I never had before and to be really intentional about how I'm using my time and to drop things that I enjoyed, but that just weren't as productive a use of my time. And as a result, my work has thrived. And that sounds like what you're setting up here.
But another part of it is that I think that just having the kid forced me to put structures around my time in a way that I never had before and to be really intentional about how I'm using my time and to drop things that I enjoyed, but that just weren't as productive a use of my time. And as a result, my work has thrived. And that sounds like what you're setting up here.
But another part of it is that I think that just having the kid forced me to put structures around my time in a way that I never had before and to be really intentional about how I'm using my time and to drop things that I enjoyed, but that just weren't as productive a use of my time. And as a result, my work has thrived. And that sounds like what you're setting up here.
I had no idea. That was amazing. I got a lot of emails. Did I tell you that? I got a lot of emails from that episode. People were really grateful about how honest I was about the challenges of parenthood. In fact, I was just talking with a friend who lives in Montana, and I was being open about how challenging I find parenting is.
I had no idea. That was amazing. I got a lot of emails. Did I tell you that? I got a lot of emails from that episode. People were really grateful about how honest I was about the challenges of parenthood. In fact, I was just talking with a friend who lives in Montana, and I was being open about how challenging I find parenting is.
I had no idea. That was amazing. I got a lot of emails. Did I tell you that? I got a lot of emails from that episode. People were really grateful about how honest I was about the challenges of parenthood. In fact, I was just talking with a friend who lives in Montana, and I was being open about how challenging I find parenting is.
And she was shocked because she was like, nobody in Montana would ever say something like that. And I do think it's true that in more work oriented cultures like New York, where I live, there's probably a bit more comfort with talking like that. But mostly people are not comfortable talking about it. But I think I think that it's really important.
And she was shocked because she was like, nobody in Montana would ever say something like that. And I do think it's true that in more work oriented cultures like New York, where I live, there's probably a bit more comfort with talking like that. But mostly people are not comfortable talking about it. But I think I think that it's really important.
And she was shocked because she was like, nobody in Montana would ever say something like that. And I do think it's true that in more work oriented cultures like New York, where I live, there's probably a bit more comfort with talking like that. But mostly people are not comfortable talking about it. But I think I think that it's really important.
Like, you know, it'll be important for you as you'll find out, like parenting will be very rewarding, but also you're going to wipe a lot of asses and you're not going to enjoy any of that. It's OK not to enjoy any of that. Thanks, Jason.
Like, you know, it'll be important for you as you'll find out, like parenting will be very rewarding, but also you're going to wipe a lot of asses and you're not going to enjoy any of that. It's OK not to enjoy any of that. Thanks, Jason.
Like, you know, it'll be important for you as you'll find out, like parenting will be very rewarding, but also you're going to wipe a lot of asses and you're not going to enjoy any of that. It's OK not to enjoy any of that. Thanks, Jason.