Jason Wilson
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first heard Jan 2025
last heard 25 Dec
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Literally where their girl's money would take care of me. Really? So what is provision to a woman? Is it just money? No. It's everything. All those characteristics are provided. Again, my wife made significantly more money than me. But because I could provide in all the other areas and now I make more than her, of course. we were able to make it.
But if a man can't provide financially, but he... You know, I agree. No, that's what I'm saying. What I mean is a man would not feel good about himself as the man, as the father, as the husband, if you're not contributing the finance, any finances.
I know a couple like that right now, and it works really well. They were losing money the other way as a man just wanting to be the provider.
See, what does a woman really want? I'm just saying just from my experience, my wife even shared in another interview, it wasn't about that. She was trained differently by her parents and what she saw. They both worked hard. You know, most, I mean, successful marriages, you have to have two jobs now. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Money is far from what will satisfy a woman. It's stability.
And what does that look like? So for me, when I didn't make as much money, I would have to do odd-in jobs. I would clean people's homes to bring in extra money. OK. And so that's still not enough. I get what you're saying is like you don't want to get into a relationship and you can't provide. Like to me, that's short sighted. It's irresponsible.
When I mentor young men like, you know, if you want to get married, how much are you making right now? But don't let what you don't have stop what you can get. And that's what many of us as men fail. You have a woman who's ready and you may not make what you want to make right now. She may make more than you. But I didn't care because that money went to the same bank account.
Put the ego aside and start building your kingdom. I am a living testimony that it works. But you have to put that aside. And any mature woman will tell you it's more than money that's going to make that marriage. And so.
No, because, I mean, that's like she's a single mother almost. You know, a woman needs to feel protected. She needs shelter. She needs a covering. You know, as a man of God, you know, Christ is my head. I'm the head of my wife. So it has to have some order for a woman. A woman wants stability. She wants to feel that things will be okay.
But if you're not stable, especially emotionally, again, you can't, you won't be able to make money if you're emotionally unstable. And so, no, to your point, you need to know how to provide and protect, even if you're not making the money that you want to bring to the table, but just doing something. I tell men who are unemployed, still get up like you have a job.
Get dressed and leave the house until you get a job. Never become comfortable sitting still at home.
I believe it's, again, of going to the cause and effect psychology, what's causing them to be disconnected with being that provider, going out, having that work ethic. Every man that I talk to that I have a friend of mine who gets laid off often, not laid off, get fired from jobs. He's really good. But until we could help him feel like, what's causing you to lose so many jobs?
To dig and go deep to, wait a minute, it was my fear of failure due to what happened as a child here. A lot of men are lazy not because they don't have the work ethic per se, but because they have lost the desire to live. Why have they lost the desire? A lot of times it's due to childhood trauma or situations or circumstances present losses that they haven't been able to let go of.
And I mean, I know you see it, guys. Now you're going off to drinking and other vices now just to find some peace or some freedom. So it's not, I don't think it's laziness in all cases. Laziness does exist. But when you see a man just dejected and discontented with life, it's much deeper than him just being lazy. And every time I work with a man to help him get to his cause and effect,
Starts finding reasons to live again. You know, I'm off to say you're not tired of living. You're tired of not living. So finding out that that piece right there. What's what am what am I? Why am I not living? What's happening here? And when a man finds that answer, he starts walking out of, you know, what I call emotional incarceration and starts to live.
And there'll be setbacks, but as long as he keeps walking out, he'll be fine. But I don't believe it's just laziness.
Oh, yeah, man. It's... I can't tell you how many times when I share this information with men at conferences and they'll say, well, what happens if your girl, you know, disrespects you and calls you weak or soft? And I tell them, you've been blessed. And the whole audience has started laughing. She's not your girl. She's not. Be thankful. Do not compromise who you really are for anyone.
But the most unhappiest people I've ever met are people-pleasers. Yeah, it's true. So there's no silence in that. Mm-hmm. So, you know, again, you don't want to be authentic and you an a-hole. You know what I mean? That's not comprehensive. It's not comprehensive. And so, again, you want with my—I talk about the four R's in this book, you know, process—
I teach men of how to make decisions in the moment and reflect. So the first R is reflect. Second R is release. Third R is reset. Then the fourth R is a byproduct of those three, which is rest. So when you reflect on what's troubling you, what's going on in your life, you think on those things, you get to the next R, which is release.
And you have to be careful there because you don't want to release everything because. And you don't want to release on someone. Yeah, that's true, too. But if you and Martha, if you were impatient with Martha earlier in the day, you don't want to just release that.
You want to retain that so you can revisit it and maybe apologize and say, hey, you know, I was impatient with you earlier and I want to ask for your forgiveness and I want to reconcile right now. Yeah. Yeah. Next one is the reset. Reset back to your baseline. I call it lamb mode. So many men want to be in lion mode or the alpha mode. Is it lamb mode? Lamb, like a lamb, sheep, you know, lamb.
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