Jessica Lanyadoo

I bet you did.

So you've got this beautiful Venus in Sagittarius in the 12th house.

you've also got all these other things i've named your mom felt that it was important for her to put aside her girlish things to put aside a lot of her friendships and to focus on being a parent to being a mom and being a wife eh she was made those kinds of choices i would say so yeah it's not that she didn't want friends it's not that she's not a creative dynamic person

It's that she felt that she had to be a certain thing in order to be a good parent.

Right?

That shows up in your chart.

Okay.

So if she had said to herself, I don't know how to figure out how to keep my friends and keep my creative life and be a full person in addition to being a mom, but I'm going to give myself permission to explore that, then you would have a really different birth chart.

Yeah.

Yes.

And let me just kind of like make some connections here because listen, she, she,

Chose a man.

I don't know if she fell in love or not.

That's not the point.

She chose a man and she decided to kind of leave behind everything else and to continue to choose him, even when it meant not choosing her.

Right?

Yeah.

Okay.

That shows up in your birth chart.

And so you're judging your own emotions.