Jessica Lanyadoo

I won't believe for an instant that you love cuddling all the time.

Am I right?

Are you too hot?

Are you too cold?

Right?

Like, is that too soft?

Is that too hard?

Like you really like, you like what you like when you like it.

And when you don't, you don't.

That's fair.

And this is why pregnancy part of like the, like it's in the bucket of why pregnancy is so hard for people with Mars Uranus square opposition conjunction, because you're so the way that you like

self-regulate your body is uranium in other words it's that snuggling is lovely until the second it's not and the second it's not you need to get the fuck off of me right and with an infant best of luck that's not gonna happen so this is where you if in talking to your husband and will you say his name sure okay does he work from home

Is there a plan for him to work from home once you have the baby?

You're going to need him to be home.

Let's let's create that as a baseline is that set it up so that he's going to spend the first three months working from home so that you don't feel like you have to be like, babe, can you please start working from home?

It's better for you to be like, go to the office today.

I feel like I got it.

Then for you to be like, I need you to stay home this week.

The way that you're, the shame spikes, it'll be harder for you to ask for help.

So set it up that he's going to work from home for the first three months is what I'm seeing.