Jessica Lanyadoo

I should hold it that way.

Like you get, again, that like deep and intense emotionality is under a lot of scrutiny from Saturn and also that Virgo interception in your eighth.

And so I want to just like acknowledge all of this.

And then I want to share with you my perspective as an astrologer, right?

Because you know, as an astrologer, I look at prenatal conditions.

So I can tell you about your childhood and your early developmental experiences through your birth chart, right?

So I can see like what was happening earlier.

When I am seeing, let's say, your mother through your birth chart,

I am not seeing, oh, she had a hard pregnancy and it was like, she was like unhappy and uncomfortable.

I'm seeing, oh, she denied her own emotions and she punished herself from having them.

Right.

It's not about the feelings you have.

It's how you treat yourself around the feelings.

I'm just worried that that's a fair worry.

But first of all, let's normalize that pregnancy is a physically very uncomfortable experience for everyone.

a ton of people you are not in the minority by being like oh my god this sucks it's yeah it's like your body hurts your body is changing like your your hips have to grow your bones are moving i'm sorry i'm obsessed with bones but i'm obsessed with bones i'm just like they're not supposed to move your hips aren't supposed to move like the amount of physiological changes

that you were going through invariably have to trigger hormonal, emotional, and mental changes.

Some people enjoy it.

Some people find it subtle.

Some people find it miserable.