Joanne McNally

the usual number is three times a week, that that's kind of what's normal.

She's like, nothing's normal.

Everything's normal.

It's all to play for.

She's like, some couples have sex twice a year and it's mind-blowing.

She said, you're better off having its quality over quantity for when it comes to kind of intimacy and connection and all that jazz.

You could be having sex five times a week with your husband, but the chances are you're not...

like I don't know I'm just I'm just spouting what she was spouting that you're not it's not necessarily good sex she's like you're better off having regular or irregular and better sex she also said which I found interesting as a single person she was like they call it sex drive which she's like it's it's actually not a fair description of it she's like sex is the one thing the less you have the longer you go without it the less you care so it's different if you're like hungry or thirsty you'll seek out food and you'll seek out water sex you won't

Who do you think?

Neil.

That man needs to mind his own business.

But I would recommend Karen Gurney.

She's really, really interesting.

She's obviously like, you know, she knows what she's talking about.

And yeah, it was like a very kind of realistic take on

sex and kind of the ebbs and flows and yeah yeah well I think I do think that you're right I think it's just very different for for very different people and people have different needs about how much they want it and then there's nothing worse than feeling like you're obliged to have sex with someone and you're like there's nothing worse they're like I fucking hate you now

too much fine I'll do it but I'm not happy about it yeah you're like I'm not happy about it and they're like I don't care you're like wow thank you thanks a million nice to know my desire matters you know

They're like, I don't care.

That's what lads are like.

I don't care.