Joe Hudson

Yeah.

And... Right.

And...

The question is, like, which one of these, if you're a woman or a man, are you doing?

Because either one just sucks.

You know, chasing love sucks.

Being chased sucks.

Being upright in your own love, like, that's the work for the woman or the man.

It's like, can you be upright in your own love?

And so, to me, it's...

We could work on the relationship issue all day and it could get nowhere, but you figure out how to be upright in your own love.

So for just as much as this guy's love was being dominated, this person's love was chasing, right?

And so their job is to learn how to remove chasing as part of love and their job is to remove dominance as part of love and just be in love.

Yeah.

But it is a thing that's happening in our society right now.

It's an amazing thing to watch it.

And I think what people forget is that there are lots and lots of people who are getting married at 27.

So there's also that.

And it's weird how we in this world have a hard time seeing it.

And I think oftentimes the men who are being chased are the ones who are self-reliant.