Joe Hudson

They're like, I have my life.

I have a good thing going.

I've made my own business.

I have this really nice life.

They're the ones being chased, but they're also the ones that learn self-reliance.

And the self-reliance pattern...

I love this pattern, personal favorite.

The self-reliance pattern goes as follows.

And when I say this, half the audience will be like, shit, that's me.

So self-reliance means when you were young, you learned that your job was to take care of your parent and that your parent wasn't particularly going to be able to take care of you.

And so that means that you have a hard time being able to express your needs.

You have a hard time being able to express what you want.

You have a hard time expressing when you're hurt because when you were a kid, you're not going to get your hurt met.

You're not going to get your wants met.

You're not going to get your needs met.

So you learn to just shove all that down.

You're obviously very capable of making a good life for yourself.

And then typically there's some authority issues that come along with it.

You need to be not, because the authority wasn't to be trusted, shouldn't have been trusted because your job was to take care of them.

That's not right.