John Delony

And also just because this was the next job doesn't mean this is your forever job too.

Like you're not stuck doing this thing forever.

It might be for a season.

And that might mean I'm going to retool right now.

That's why I went back to grad school.

I'm going to do this job for this season and get really trained up in being a good mental health practitioner so that one day I can do another thing that I think will contribute even more.

And I'm going to contribute while I'm doing my job.

I'm going to go all in on it.

And I'm going to tool up for the next season of my life.

And I had no idea it was going to be this.

But my challenge to you is get to the bottom of that hole in the middle of your chest.

And then ask yourself specifically, what could I start doing now in this context, in this season?

that will get me where I want to be in one year, in two years, in five years.

And I think the action of movement, of going forward, of taking steps towards something, not just constantly trying to live your life, looking in the rear view mirror, I think that changes everything for you.

And you've got to cut off the pornography.

You got to stop looking at the old images, the old pictures, subscribing to the old newsletters.

That season in your life doesn't exist anymore.

It's over.

There's a period at the end.

Unfollow her.